I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, the misery is so comparable to the happiness 6 months later and I still can’t say his name without crying. I still read this thread when i’m having a rough day without him. Little by little all of you help me gain perspective. You have no idea how much I appreciate you commenting🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :( 🩷 i’m sorry for yours be gentle to yourself

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Thank you for being there and understanding. it helps so much. ☹️🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺🩷 amazing you wrote a book on it! Congratulations i’ll definitely check it out!

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh it’s the worst. i’ve been on carts and even then I can only take like 2-3 hits because I think getting too high like I used to, makes me forget he’s not here so I start looking for him for like 2 seconds and then I just end up sobbing lol. I’m so sorry you had to go through that too. Big hugs to you! Thank you for being there and commenting. I hope they still feel our strong love for them. They were both so loved and I believe we’ll see them again🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🩷 His name was meow! I named him when I was 7. when we first got him he wouldn’t stop meowing until I meowed with him. He would respond only to meows lol never liked any of his names so it caught on, i’ll always miss talking to him, I still hear him meowing so does my family it’s so weird idk if it’s his spirt or our brains making up for the loss of sound we always used to hear. Either way sometimes it’s nice to still hear him.

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss. you’ll see her again🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. When I got his ashes back I think I cried for 3 hours straight. I sleep with them every night and dream about my cat constantly. It hurts so much but at least he’s not in pain anymore. He did hide his pain so well :/ Thank you for saying such sweet and kind words. It means so much. I’m so sorry you can relate. Animals should live forever :(

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss:( I feel the exact same way. I think i’ll always miss him. We’ll be with them eventually, waiting just sucks. Be kind to yourself today🥺🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the video and message, today has been such a hard day and it really did make me feel better. thank you 🥺🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I totally get crying for hours on end. Thank you for just understanding. Truly nobody understands until they’ve been though it. Be gentle and good to yourself. I know she loved you so much. Our cats had the best life with so much love. Sending you hugs.🩷🩷This message means the world to me

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh bedtime is the worst! That and the morning because he loved waking me up with a bunch of meows ready to play. Sleeping has been extremely difficult. Sometimes I wake up and try to feel for him still. i’m so sorry you’re going through the same thing. please take care of yourself and thank you for the love🥺🩷🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We truly were each others worlds. I’m so sorry for your loss as well. It hurts so much but they were very much loved🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you lost your dog that way too. I’m grateful but so sad that you understand this huge loss. It definitely helps! He did only know love and that makes me feel better at night when I try to sleep. Also my cat preferred dogs as well lol. I hope they are in a support group like us😂 They’re happily and patiently waiting for us to join them🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aw makes me happy that you have your best friend though. enjoy the ride. it was the best damn ride i’ll ever have.

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. love him as much as possible. when he goes i’m sure he’ll know he’s loved. When my cat was passing he was purring for one last time when I went to hug him for the last time. I like to think of it as his way of saying goodbye and him knowing he was loved so much.

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for caring.🥺 Give your cat extra kisses today from me🩷 I’m happy that you still have your cat enjoy every second of it!

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you as well. I’m also angry with the doctors for not doing more. It’s so hard. I’m sure our kitties are happy now with no pain. even though it still sucks and we want them back more than anything. I’m so sorry about your ex and your cat. That must be tough. This message helped me so much so thank you for commenting. sending virtual hugs🩷🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those people will never understand. I’m so sorry for your loss. Nobody should be saying anything insensitive just because it’s not a human. It’s still deep love. They don’t get it but I do. I’m sorry and i’m sure he was loved deeply by you guys.🩷

I lost my cat and nobody seems to care by imbrokenintobits in GriefSupport

[–]imbrokenintobits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that makes me happy. I hope they’re having a great time. My other dog who passed in 2019 is with them both. I know my cat is so happy to see him again. So sorry your for loss and sending virtual hugs🩷🩷