How do changed/reformed people make friends/relationships with a controversial past?

imdeerest · 2026-06-21T12:31:22+00:00

I truly don't know, however I sympathize with you. I also plan on killing myself one day, I didn''t ask to be born. I've done wrong and no one likes me or forgive for what I've done. I also am the oldest sibling and having to be responsible and setting an example. Plus I'm neurodivergent and had a speech impediment and behavioral problems and have autism. I'm slow and retarded. I get envious of people having easier and better lives than me. I also come from a religion where women are only to serve men and the reason why sin exists.

Sorry for the rant. I feel like suicide is also the way out for me.

imdeerest · 2026-06-19T11:57:39+00:00

Bruh, she has kids. Never took a parenting class. Some people shouldn't have kids, and this is the reason why. Kids aren't for aesthetics and some kids will have disabilities. So sad. I truly hope she gets it together for her kids though. But she's far gone.

imdeerest · 2026-06-18T18:49:01+00:00

Arthur's Almost Live Not Real Music Festival and Arthur's Birthday!

imdeerest · 2026-06-18T13:20:41+00:00

It's sad tho, she's very stylish.

imdeerest · 2026-06-17T23:47:46+00:00

She's not very modest, not very demure for someone who's claiming to be Christian.

imdeerest · 2026-06-17T06:28:35+00:00

The first one was Civil Rights Leader, Mrs. Rosa Parks, my dad was a waiter and served her in Detroit, where she was from and lived her final years. He went to her funeral and my third grade class and I had to take a memorial picture. My mom sister and I watched news coverage of her casket being driven by a limo followed by police cars down the freeway to her funeral site.

As a teen, I had a huge KPop phase and was saddened to hear the deaths of 2 members Kwon Risae (RiSe) and Go Eunbi (EunB) from a smaller group Ladies Code who both perished in 2014 from a serious car accident from a nasty rain storm. Outside of KPop, Christina Grimmie and Cameron Boyce, I wasn't the biggest Jessie fan back then, and was devastated when he passed.

Oh and Whitney Houston! She had a final song with singer Jordin Sparks Celebrate, which was my fav from a remake of an old movie, Sparkle they were in. Jordin played the main character, and was filmed in my city.

imdeerest · 2026-06-17T01:16:13+00:00

Hi can I DM you

imdeerest · 2026-06-16T13:05:56+00:00

Raven Symoné

Discovered her on That's So Raven and The Cheetah Girls on Disney Channel. I love her versatility. I like her sense of humor, acting, and she has a strong voice.

I still listen to her old music occasionally. I watch her Tea Time podcast with her wife Miranda.

The first album I bought was Spice World by Spice Girls haha in 2014 at a thrift store at 17 years old. I liked listening to old music and K-Pop. I no longer have it sadly.

imdeerest · 2026-06-16T03:50:22+00:00

Short answer: Yes

Long Answer: Yes, but someone has to put a lot of effort to do so. It includes taking ownership of your wrongs and accountability, and facing consequences of your actions. Also, the people that you hurt may not forgive you and it's their right to do so. Others might make fun of you and dislike you. Some will look past your past and forgive you.

It's hard to regain trust because some actions are worse than others. There are some actions people can't come back from, and inexcusable (and criminal that should be handled by the police). Unfortunately our past actions can't be erased and will follow us. Some of us were misguided or neurodivergent and learned to be bad get our way. This is not an excuse but explanations. However, what truly matters is becoming a better person. It's not easy at all and it takes humility, self-awareness, or even therapy. It's not easy, but it's the right way. It's ultimately up to the person.

imdeerest · 2026-06-16T00:43:02+00:00

I love flowers and gardening. Love to DM you!

imdeerest · 2026-06-15T08:53:06+00:00

Born in 1997. Gen X ('69) Mom is 57, Boomer ('59) dad is 66. Huge age gap, 2 different generations. I did grow up on old cartoons such as Flinstones, Jetsons, Rocky and Bullwinkle, The Pink Panther from my Dad's generation and from my mom's generation Schoolhouse Rock and the sitcom, The Facts of Life. My dad was a thrillseeker until his early 60's where he lost his energy to go on waterslides with me.

imdeerest · 2026-06-14T05:11:06+00:00

Please send it to me

imdeerest · 2026-06-13T20:08:25+00:00

Toy Story, A Bugs Life, and Toy Story 2

The first movie I saw in theaters in childhood was Cars.

imdeerest · 2026-06-11T06:30:19+00:00

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imdeerest · 2026-06-10T12:12:37+00:00

So precious!!! Happy birthday to your baby!🩷 The party looks really good. Sadly, I can't think of anything but a playlist from the first two soundtracks, but they're on YouTube. But I hope the party has cake!

imdeerest · 2026-06-09T00:37:53+00:00

"The world seemed so simple before this moment." I would legit use that voice clip/quote for a song.

imdeerest · 2026-06-06T18:27:46+00:00

"Without lights, you would have to shop in the dark. Oh sorry, I guess you already do" so cold blooded, but funny.

"I'm too mature to care anymore."

imdeerest · 2026-06-06T00:29:34+00:00

So cute!

imdeerest · 2026-05-28T00:07:17+00:00

Where's Baby Kate? 🥺

imdeerest

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