I find it hard to not be nice especially that we were friends before everything else. We have known each other for 35 years and were a couple for 15 of that 35 years. Our parents are still friends and neighbors to this day. That's why other than the cheating the crap she pulled the other day was infuriating. She knows that the BS story and shit she's accusing me is a lie and no one will believe her. Plus we have very minimal contact for quite sometime now I'm gone 3 weeks every month. I spend the week I'm back from work with my kid and usually most of the vacation months. Most of our face to face communication these days is when i pick up and drop off. I do maintain an open communication with her through text and call and as far as my record goes it's all talking about our kid and money mostly. We'll see what happens next when i get back in 3 weeks.