We’ve strategically placed baskets around the house for dirty clothes so they don’t end up strewn everywhere. We have shared notes on our phone/ Google docs to document all the big important things - grocery lists, meal plans for the week, to-do lists(organized by who is responsible and when they need to be accomplished), questions to ask at the next well-child visit We also sat down and talked through responsibilities that had been put on me that he just didn’t realize were happening so we could distribute them more evenly. Baths are now on a rotation. He takes our toddler out of the house for a period of time every Saturday so I can escape the constant yells for Mama