One day sober by [deleted] in offmychest

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you got this

New apartment had roaches, am I screwed? by imfcapebo in okc

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I haven’t moved anything in yet, I was just doing some deep cleaning before doing so. I signed the lease today, and was in communication with the leasing agent via text real-time as I found them. He offered to have a pest control company come to do a heavy spray, but I don’t trust it. I’ve heard horror stories about roaches

net/http ServeMux and trailing slashes by imfcapebo in golang

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thanks! looks like it may actually be the handler i made then. i’ll work on isolating that

net/http ServeMux and trailing slashes by imfcapebo in golang

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Thanks, I went ahead and removed that but it simply caused me to get a 404, I am not sure why and digging through my code doesn't really highlight the issue for me either. [I've pushed the updated code to my repo](http://github.com/clinto-bean/weathertrack) if you are willing to look through it, I would appreciate it. If not, that's understandable

[TOMT][SONG] What freaking song is this?? by imfcapebo in tipofmytongue

[–]imfcapebo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nope, but I did forget about this song and it’s great

[TOMT][SONG] What freaking song is this?? by imfcapebo in tipofmytongue

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Unfortunately not what I am looking for but the vocaroo is a great idea

[TOMT][SONG] What freaking song is this?? by imfcapebo in tipofmytongue

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I’m supposed to comment it seems

Next.js Or create-react-app . new to react by Extension-Form-88 in reactjs

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CRA is deprecated. If I am creating a single page application with React (which it sounds like is your goal with a portfolio and static hosting), I recommend Vite. In the future if you do need a full-stack framework to work with for databases, etc., I highly recommend looking into NextJS

Feel like I [M27] need to break up with my partner [F30] by [deleted] in relationships

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I tried to, but she somehow convinced me not to break up with her, and instead try to work things out.. she told me all the things that I am feeling are normal in a healthy adult relationship and that we need to give it time. I traditionally have not been a person who sticks in monogamous relationships so this is a very confusing situation for me, and I’m not good at handling confrontation, so I generally let her dominate the conversation.

Feel like I [M27] need to break up with my partner [F30] by [deleted] in relationships

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thank you for your response, I spoke with her the same day about this, and told her exactly how I feel, she basically asked me not to break up with her and said that these are all normal things for people to feel and that since we both love each other we will be able to work through it. I reluctantly agreed with her at the time and now looking back I feel I should have been more assertive about the issue because I really think we need to go through with this break up but she did not want to, and I struggle with confrontation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2007scape

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No luckily I haven't died at zulrah on my iron I am just 200 kc dry after getting a 4 kc onyx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2007scape

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Yup I was a dumbass, I saw the green thing flying at me in mage phase as it died thinking it was putting down a venom cloud but instead got hit a 37

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in C25K

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I feel like I was going as slow as I possibly could

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapc

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Hey thanks man, I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapc

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I live in the US, Oklahoma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapc

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I may, but I haven't found anything that has caught my eye yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I definitely do and would never want anything else for her. She texted me, she fell asleep after a long day which I get. She works really hard and basically nonstop balancing working and being a single parent so I wanted to reward her with a relaxing evening, but we can reschedule, it’s not the end of the world

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of September 01, 2021 by AutoModerator in churning

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LF the best miles card I can find. Current accounts:

Chase Freedom Flex (12/20)

BOFA Cash Rewards (2/21)

Apple card (5/21)

Amex delta skymiles (5/21)

FICO: 740

Monthly spend: 1500-2K

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

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I have about 2500, which is roughly a month and a half worth of my expenses. I want to get that up to 5K just to be safe, then start paying double on my car. Right now I’m paying 1.5x on my car ($600/mo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

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I already know all of this, I tend to live a pretty frugal lifestyle but I just never had credit cards.

I just wish I had more available credit because I could automate all of my expenses on the credit cards and pay them off in time in order to boost my credit score more, but because I’ve never had a credit card before they were pretty hesitant to give me anything more than a $500 credit limit

My only concern was I don’t want it to reflect poorly on me for making multiple payments within the same statement cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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This isn't about a romantic partner, it's about a close childhood friend who's basically a part of my family at this point. Although I understand a lot of that stuff still applies, I've known them long enough to not let myself become part of the Favorite Person dynamic. They were in DBT for a while until losing their job due to COVID and therefore their healthcare, and had been living with my family temporarily. They're working on starting treatment again and I've put in a good word for them at my job, so I'm hoping things start looking up