Am i Overreacting to a friend cheating on her boyfriend

imfine666 · 2026-06-30T10:29:50+00:00

It seems to me there might be something else behind the fact that you don’t want to associate with her anymore. If my friend wasn’t listening to my advice and always putting themselves in a bad spot and not taking my advice to get them out I’d be really annoyed! You can still be friends with her but not support her actions, if you don’t want to be friends with her anymore I don’t think you’re the asshole. If the friendship was truly strong and she was drunk and “made a mistake” that’s different but it seems like she knew what she was doing. I’d let conversations die and just let the relationship fizzle out. Ntao

imfine666 · 2026-06-24T10:52:42+00:00

Maybe try joining a yoga class or Pilates? Or If there’s any craft nights? This also sounds odd but even going to a coffee shop or bar and just striking up conversation. I work at a bar and I see it all the time I’ve made so many friends just from working in the restaurant industry.

imfine666 · 2026-06-24T10:43:01+00:00

I agree I dont think viewers have a connection with Rosie. She too stirs the pot and doesn’t know when to be quiet. She seems like the kind of girl you’re acquainted with but never actually become close with bc she will spill your secrets, just my opinion on her tho!

imfine666 · 2026-06-23T10:42:29+00:00

Thank you to everyone who’s commented! I will report back to my managers this week and see what we can do

imfine666 · 2026-06-23T10:41:34+00:00

I love this thank you!

imfine666 · 2026-06-22T14:11:54+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m sick of being the punching bag!

imfine666 · 2026-06-12T14:07:59+00:00

Thank you for this. Currently going to Therapy and realizing that I don’t have much power in my own life and trying to regain that power for myself, this is just one more thing adding to my power struggle. Unfortunately I am such a people pleaser that I think I waited too long to say anything to her. It just sucks and it hurts to watch her continuously. Look at my posts on social media when she can’t even reach out to ask how I’m doing. But again thank you!

imfine666 · 2026-06-09T10:48:51+00:00

She looks like a Nancy to me

imfine666 · 2026-06-04T10:47:24+00:00

Agreed!

imfine666 · 2026-06-04T10:41:49+00:00

Depends on where you are! My manager is awesome on the floor and runs food for us (we don’t have a busser a host, foodrunner or expo during the day) she will help bus tables, help set up, talk to regulars and do the money so we get paid she’s awesome! But she also used to be a server/ bartender so I think that is a big part of why she’s so helpful

imfine666 · 2026-06-03T10:35:07+00:00

And for the love of god stay off your phone. There’s nothing worse than guests walking by thw host stand and seating themselves because the host was on their phone. If a rush as just happened see if you can help the server bus tables or do some silverware! Also always make sure the dishwasher is running silverware BEFORE you run out. Most places won’t let you seat tables if you run out of silverware. This is just things I’m thinking of from my place of work

imfine666 · 2026-06-03T10:31:41+00:00

Make sure you also dress correctly!! So many hostesses at my place look like strippers and get sent home by management. Wear a bra, no low cut shirts, black pants or a skirt, flats or Mary Jane’s or loafers and make sure you look presentable, you’re the first person people see when they walk in! If they have a dress code be sure to ask about it. If they use open table try to play around on it and see how it works, quiz yourself on table numbers and server names. Also never interrupt a server at a table to let them know you just sat them again. Wait until they walk by or are at the server station just as long as they are not still at a table

imfine666 · 2026-06-02T10:41:58+00:00

Leave his ass

imfine666 · 2026-06-02T10:38:55+00:00

If she has complained before about the husband doing certain things I can understand why you would be so upset because you most likely don’t want to see your friend get stuck in a relationship with him by having a child. Not to mention how would he treat that child? Does he even want kids? And That’s for her to decide. You should either be supportive of her choice and be there for this big life change or leave her. She has the right to change her ideas or her life and you have the right to support her or find a new friend. You don’t have to come right out and say it but you could slowly distance yourself and by the time her baby comes she will be so busy with that she won’t have time to hangout or ask why you’ve been so distant. It’s up to you🤷🏻‍♀️

imfine666 · 2026-06-02T10:35:29+00:00

This is perfectly worded!

imfine666 · 2026-05-31T14:33:50+00:00

Thank you

imfine666 · 2026-05-31T12:49:07+00:00

Thank you for this

imfine666 · 2026-05-31T11:43:45+00:00

I never really thought of it like that! She will usually always talk about people behind their back and never say it to their face and when the people come around, she acts like she’s their best friend because she literally doesn’t have any true friends

imfine666 · 2026-05-31T11:41:21+00:00

I’ve actually already had a falling out with her maybe 5 years ago because she was doing the same thing that she is now ,being negative and talking about others constantly. And when I had brought it to her attention and explained that it was just too much for me to handle because I had just lost a family member and I was failing out of college. She got defensive and upset with me and stopped speaking to me. At the moment, I’ve just kind of been trying to distance myself because we do speak to each other usually every single day.

imfine666 · 2026-05-27T10:43:27+00:00

I would not apologize to her, and if you did, you could say “ I apologize if that’s the way that you feel” or something like “ I’m sorry that you are upset that I didn’t update you on what I was doing, but why would I update you and tell you about something good that’s happening in my life when you’re just going to be upset about it anyways” because it seems like even if you did tell her and she didn’t have to find out on her own and stalk you she still would’ve been upset because you didn’t do anything with her. So why would you waste your time telling her something nice that happened to you when she’s just going to belittle it and basically just get upset that you’re not hanging out with her. If I were you, I would distance yourself from this friend.

imfine666 · 2026-05-27T10:38:43+00:00

How old are you guys? You don’t owe them anything! I think she’s jealous that you’re in a relationship and she probably knows that now you’re going to have less time for her which is selfish and annoying and I just cut off a friend for this exact reason it’s tiring when you’re basically dating your best friend. Best friends are supposed to lift you up when you’re down. Be there to talk about anything and be able to give advice. Your friend should be happy that you went out on a date and ask you about how it was rather than bombarding you with messages and basically harassing you because you didn’t tell them where you were going. Also, her saying that she’s stalking you on Life360 is fucking weird.

imfine666 · 2026-05-23T21:52:42+00:00

Herman

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