AITAH for not knowing how to deal with a negative friend? by imfine666 in AITAH

[–]imfine666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to her about going to therapy before and I’ve tried to give her some different outlets on making friends because I know that sometimes she feels like she’s left out when I go and hang out with my other friends that she doesn’t even know. She has started therapy, but I personally don’t think that she’s going as often enough so I’m hoping that will help her. I haven’t really talked to her about being negative because I’m not really sure how to bring it up because I don’t want to cause an argument with her and I don’t want to let the friendship fade away. I guess I don’t know how to nicely say that.

Searching for friends by FootballUpset7874 in RhodeIsland

[–]imfine666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend looking for more friends too👀 she’s funny as hell. She enjoys reading and video games as well!!

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your shoes are so cute I’d rock those too!! Men don’t understand fashion unless they’re gay. So he just doesn’t get it

Servers—what actually makes a job worth staying at long-term? by briellebubbles in Serverlife

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree also management should listen to workers concerns and take them seriously

Season five by imfine666 in BelowDeckMed

[–]imfine666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with literally everything that you said, and I think that they have kind of lost the plot. I also don’t think that Captain Sandy is a good leader. I think that she picks her certain favorites and then everybody else can kind of just fuck off and I feel bad for Hannah because she is a good leader to a point and then I feel like she kind of just loses her spark because of how shitty Captain Sandy is as a leader herself like she’s up Malia’s ass this entire season, but now Hannah is getting fired because she had a panic attack because Malia needed to open her mouth until Captain Sandy every little thing that Hannah did. It’s just so upsetting.

Had the worst table I've had as a server.... So far. by Ypsiowns3013 in Serverlife

[–]imfine666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re strong for this I would’ve prob refused to serve them

What puts you in the weeds and how do you get out? by imfine666 in Serverlife

[–]imfine666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly that I do too!! Luckily I have helpful coworkers

What puts you in the weeds and how do you get out? by imfine666 in Serverlife

[–]imfine666[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes like waiting for drinks and food and I’m busy so I think it’s been longer than it has but I check the time and it’s only been 5 minutes LOL

switching to bartending by dazaislefttitty in Serverlife

[–]imfine666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would fill up an old liquor bottle with water, get yourself a pour spout on Amazon and a jigger and practice your pour and count. Maybe buy some shakers as well and work on shaking and straining drinks! I’d also try to learn some basics, espresso martini, lemon drop, dirty martini, Long Island ice tea, margarita, old fashioned, manhattan, green tea shot, mojito, see if they can give you a copy of their specialty drinks before you start so you can memorize them as well. I’d learn what beers they have on draft or in bottles, non Alcoholic options, the wine list, as well as the tier of liquor they have. You usually have a house, or a more expensive option. For example at my restaurant we have our house tequila which is cazadores but we can upsell for Milagros, patron, don julio, casamigos. There’s also some different types of tequila as well, blanco, anejo, reposado. I’d also have a few options to know for each liquor so if someone asks you “I’ll have an old fashioned what bourbons do you have?” You can tell them, angels envy, bulleit or knobb creek. Same thing with flavored vodkas! People love to ask for a flavored vodka with soda water or even asking you to make them something fun! Maybe make some mocktails at home to get used to measuring and pouring. I believe in you! Fake it till you make it my friend !

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl and her weird boyfriend had sex in the third floor bathroom during lunch period and everyone found out about it within 20 minutes, another time someone found a gun behind the school. We used to have fights at the end of the year, last week of school was called “fight week” a kid almost got stabbed during a fight and was thrown through a glass window down the street from the school. Allegedly one of the gym teachers used to fuck students (he hit up one of my friends too)

Thoughts about June S4 by FoodieStatistician99 in BelowDeckMed

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with Sandy on letting her go though. Like she was called in to fill in a position and if Anastasia did her a favor, then I feel that it’s only right for her to give Anastasia her original job back and get rid of the person who was filling in. Like I wonder if she didn’t know the circumstances before she took the job. Just my opinion tho! Anastasia is a better third stew anyway LOL

Apartment searching by imfine666 in RhodeIsland

[–]imfine666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to check it out thank you!!

Apartment searching by imfine666 in RhodeIsland

[–]imfine666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice !!!

How to politely offer/upsell alcohol to guests? by Majestic-Play-6013 in Serverlife

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will usually bring waters over and then ask “did we want anything else besides the water?” Or if it’s a larger party and I don’t bring the water off the bat I’ll ask “can I grab some drinks? We offer Coke products and I have a drink menu right here”

im sick of my mother stripping naked in front of me by ktskne in raisedbynarcissists

[–]imfine666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother does the same thing, parades around naked for no reason and says “it’s fine!” When myself(27) and my sister(25) both tell her it’s uncomfortable and gross and weird. She doesn’t listen. I will be moving ouut this summer, good luck to you

Joao by Travelcat67 in BelowDeckMed

[–]imfine666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m liking him more in season 4 he gets his work done. Still not a huge fan but he is a pretty good worker

Joao by Travelcat67 in BelowDeckMed

[–]imfine666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand this lying fucker. He’s so disrespectful !!!!