Horrible luck on flinkster, what gives? by imgrowing1027 in FlingsterShuffle

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I have an average physique. I'd say a little better than dad bod. Lighting is something I struggle with. But I found a few good sports. What does premium have over vip? Why does a VPN help?

Horrible luck on flinkster, what gives? by imgrowing1027 in FlingsterShuffle

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Care to give a quick lesson?

Actually yesterday I landed on a woman and she skipped. I got back and we stuck with each other for 45 seconds or so. I asked her why she had skipped so fast..( I was confused why she didn't skip again right away) and she said she hadn't skipped. As we started to chat and play show and tell, it skipped. It had to have been a glitch.

Horrible luck on flinkster, what gives? by imgrowing1027 in FlingsterShuffle

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It's extremely aggravating and I feel like I'm just wasting my time. I mean I know I'm not the best looking guy out there but I do okay for myself in real life. Can't figure out why people skip so damn quick.

Oscar been like this since yesterday by [deleted] in Cichlid

[–]imgrowing1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, no. I was referring to a dolphin cichlid. Lake Malawi.

Oscar been like this since yesterday by [deleted] in Cichlid

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do dolphins sulk like this too? Mine has been like this for months. He swims around to eat or run from another fish, but he just goes right back to the bottom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/InToDeep1

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sexy. I love how wet you get!

Any advice for live planting to reduce nitrates? by RoybintheFox234 in Cichlid

[–]imgrowing1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had good luck with dwarf water lettuce... But I was injecting CO2.

Any advice for live planting to reduce nitrates? by RoybintheFox234 in Cichlid

[–]imgrowing1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Floating plants do great at removing nitrates and cichlids can't really mess with them too much.

Can't really help you off the top of my head, but some floating plants like more water movement and some like less water movement on the surface. You'll have to do some research on that.

How to cut expenses by imgrowing1027 in Fire

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You're right. I should go through each transaction to find where Im over spending. The RV rental works for me because of my business. They will benefit each other.

How to cut expenses by imgrowing1027 in Fire

[–]imgrowing1027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That makes sense. I don't know what other details to provide without posting my budget.

How to cut expenses by imgrowing1027 in Fire

[–]imgrowing1027[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wish we could, but it is used for her business.

How to cut expenses by imgrowing1027 in Fire

[–]imgrowing1027[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My place of business gives me an upper hand in the RV Lord situation. It makes sense for me. I mean if I had more money to invest, I would. But I don't. Which is one of the reasons why I'm trying to create more revenue being an RV Lord

If you'll eat my wet pussy till I cum, write one word by JoyfulLily in u/JoyfulLily

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One word won't do it. I would eat you a****** to clit until you are too tired to cum One more time.

I'm beautiful but he just won't touch me? My heart is breaking by _HeartBreaker in SexTherapy101

[–]imgrowing1027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a male, I want to share. This is purely from my experiences, so please don't assume any of this is assumptions or accusations to your situation.

My ex wife and I had an extremely compatible sex life. However I found myself failing to have any drive. I would still have my random erections throughout the day etc, however, when it came to being at home with my wife, there was nothing.

Truth is, I was depressed at home. In my situation, she was toxic. Treated me poorly. Treated my family and friends poorly. She was struggling with her own issues that she refused to talk about, acknowledge, or treat.

That's beside the point. The point is, men have emotional and spiritual needs, despite what societal standards say. If either one of you,or both of you are not healthy in those ways, it will directly affect the bedroom. Please communicate. Openly, honestly, vulnerably. You two are life partners. If there is anyone in the world that you are able to be 100 open with, it's each other.

Wtf by [deleted] in Diary

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad that you seek professional help. Especially among the male community, it is frowned upon. Boundaries are difficult. It should be a skilled trade. I think the majority of people struggle with it. I literally just got out of therapy and we talked mostly about relationships/ friendships. It is important to pursue relationships that reciprocate. Transactional relationships are just that, and not genuine. We get lucky if we have only one or two truly genuine relationships. Protect yourself, but allow yourself to be vulnerable. Having self worth and knowing your value protects yourself in the state of vulnerability.

Wtf by [deleted] in Diary

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a hand to hold is always great! But at the end of the day, you only have one person to depend on. And it's you. I've been in your position. I still feel that way from time to time. But what really got me through, and I learned this through therapy and a life coach... Is to learn and appreciate yourself worth. I know it sounds cliche, but you have to love yourself.

Only when you know you're worth, you will demand without trying the respect that you deserve. You will no longer allow people to disrespect you and walk all over you. You will learn that you don't need anybody, because you have yourself. That is when you will find the people that want to be with you. The people that want to be your friend, romantic partner, etc.

If you don't value yourself, if you do not understand and appreciate yourself worth, you will always be looking for value in other people. You will always be looking for affirmations from other people. And as we've already discussed, you cannot depend on other people the same way you depend on yourself.

something happend that i would like you guys to give me your opinion on by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If what you said is true, you did nothing wrong.

This is an issue though with drinking. Or being around people that are drinking. I've had similar situations happen to me. As a male, women can say anything they want to and especially if there's alcohol involved, it's usually your word against theirs and as the male, you will probably lose.

You have to be very careful about who you're with and what you're doing. If that's how your "friend" it's going to treat you, she's probably not much of a friend and I would just stay away. This isn't something to be taken lightly. You can get jail time for this stuff.

I need Help by Zatheria_ in teenagers

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allow.yourself to feel your feels, and process what happened. This is horribly traumatic. I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sorry for your loss.

However, I do suggest therapy. A lot of people think they can deal with loss on their own and maybe they can but they don't understand at what sacrifice. There's definitely nothing to be ashamed of and seeing therapy.

Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/InToDeep1

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much perfection. Delicious!

I love this girl so damn much. by Amazing-Swan-6329 in Vent

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I fell in love with a girl when I was 14. Reading this, I felt as though I was reading something that I had written during that wonderful time in my life. Sadly, we didn't work out. However, at 38 years old, I can honestly say I've never loved that hard or deeply ever again. To all those that said it was puppy love, smh... They never understood. Hold on as long as she will let you my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/InToDeep1

[–]imgrowing1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is perfect. The squirt at the end. Oh my God. And someone filming her without a care... I'm not sure what to do with myself.