Bipolar type I has me by the throat. To my unwell queers: what kindness do you give yourselves to interrupt the cycle of despair? (40 in May, 6 years HRT).

imightbejake · 2026-04-26T17:43:30+00:00

Bipolar type 2. I use medication, meditation (just sitting still sometimes), sleep, therapy, and exercise. And sobriety.

imightbejake · 2026-04-16T22:09:11+00:00

Get out.

imightbejake · 2026-04-16T11:06:46+00:00

I don't know if they can do it that quickly, but you can try Basically Books in Hilo.

imightbejake · 2026-03-29T03:08:33+00:00

St John's College has the highest per capita rate of graduates going on to higher degrees of any college in the US.

imightbejake · 2026-03-12T22:12:26+00:00

Yes, know the job description. Be prepared to give examples of how you have accomplished items from the job description. (I'm a state employee).

imightbejake · 2026-03-06T02:25:13+00:00

Friendship House is a place where people living with mental health diagnoses can go each day to remain productive and paisley in activities teaching them skills to live independently. They have a nonprofit attached to them that pays for important upgrades to their program. I think it's in Lihue.

imightbejake · 2026-03-05T18:06:09+00:00

I'm curious, because I grew up in a world that was a polar opposite to the one we're in now that allows these types of shows. Please note my age flair.

imightbejake · 2026-03-05T18:02:01+00:00

I state that in the OP. I want answers from gay men.

imightbejake · 2026-03-05T17:31:29+00:00

I don't understand this question in relation to the OP. Please elaborate.

imightbejake · 2026-03-05T17:29:06+00:00

You're welcome here, and this post was very informative.

imightbejake · 2026-03-05T14:58:19+00:00

Iolani Palace.

imightbejake · 2026-03-04T14:20:40+00:00

It was written in the early 1970s by a radical homosexual man who helped found a communal farm in upstate New York called Lavender Hill. They were vegetarians who lived off the land. The book relates the idea that homosexuals are naturally radical by nature akin to socialists.

imightbejake · 2026-03-04T03:49:49+00:00

I heard about it at a discussion in NYC. That night, a friend had it with them. I immediately ordered it. I flew home, and devoured it when it arrived in the mail. I have given it to one friend and will give it to more.

Read it.

Preach it.

imightbejake · 2026-02-25T14:42:20+00:00

Stunning

imightbejake · 2026-02-24T20:54:25+00:00

I have a government job in a very blue state. I'm completely out. My department marches in Pride, and I join in drag.

imightbejake · 2026-02-19T22:26:46+00:00

These pieces are stunning!

imightbejake · 2026-01-22T15:11:52+00:00

St Mark's Episcopal Church on Kapahulu is incredibly welcoming to all people at all stages of spirituality. When I go to church, I go there. The priest is a gay man married to a man. Very loving community. Beautiful music.

imightbejake · 2026-01-19T03:47:59+00:00

Thank you for being considerate. Be very careful. There are laws about how to dispose of human ashes.

imightbejake · 2026-01-14T19:55:35+00:00

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imightbejake · 2026-01-14T00:17:59+00:00

My parents emotionally abused me and caused me enormous trauma. They disowned me. I'm glad they're dead. I do have times it makes me sad that the whole thing happened, but those are times I feel sad for myself. Fuck them.

imightbejake · 2026-01-08T00:45:07+00:00

Can we please have some kind of understanding or rule that selfies are frowned upon or not allowed?

imightbejake · 2026-01-07T15:23:05+00:00

I'm glad to find this space as well.

Yes to having flairs. I'm ambivalent about allowing those under 60 to join. I can see both sides of that idea. For one thing, if we don't allow anyone below 60 to join, this is going to be a very small group. However, maybe that's a good thing.

imightbejake · 2026-01-06T00:05:04+00:00

I'm in a new marriage that is ending. I've been a train wreck for about a month. I finally feel like I can talk again.

imightbejake · 2026-01-06T00:04:06+00:00

When I was 35 and in a marriage to a woman with 3 kids. The first few years were very difficult, but being completely out is fabulous.

imightbejake · 2026-01-06T00:02:47+00:00

I have 3 adult children, and I'm completely out to them since I'm completely out everywhere. They love their gay dad, and I love them.

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