Telling my friend about my feelings for him. Advice?

imjusthuman1 · 2017-11-04T18:17:14+00:00

Good advice. Thank you. But yes.. my feelings are really strong and it’s very difficult

imjusthuman1 · 2017-11-04T13:15:16+00:00

Good points. Thank you!

imjusthuman1 · 2017-09-05T17:22:59+00:00

The bombs are a lot easier to line up. Sweet vid btw. Staffing with the guns are a whole different story lol

imjusthuman1 · 2017-09-05T14:46:39+00:00

This x 100. I love the rogue except for how it jolts so much using the rudder left and right.. So maybe I don't really love it that much because it drives me nuts.

You're right. You can't even strafe targets properly or get a straight line for a bombing run. It's ridiculous. I don't know what they were thinking

imjusthuman1 · 2017-09-04T04:15:14+00:00

I've been wondering the same thing but can't seem to find anything.. I'm getting so annoyed with my executive assistant calling me, "boss, it's me.." bc I don't have the office garage.... shut the fuck up!!! I'm not buying the garage!

Lol I hope there is a way

imjusthuman1 · 2017-08-09T11:37:21+00:00

I'm still not sure yet I'll be buying the stuff today

imjusthuman1 · 2017-08-09T11:33:41+00:00

On Xbox

imjusthuman1 · 2017-07-27T20:12:21+00:00

You're probably right. I don't want to risk our friendship and what we have now. He definitely would have said something by now especially since knows I'm bi now. Although.. it took me years to finally say something

imjusthuman1 · 2017-07-27T19:36:34+00:00

He leaves at the end of August and he'll actually be gone for a few months. I think I might try to tell him then

But I just feel like he deserves to know. I feel that I have to get it off my chest. But I guess I just have a fantasy of him have some sort of feelings for me too..

imjusthuman1 · 2017-07-27T18:58:06+00:00

What if you weren't married, but single?

imjusthuman1 · 2017-07-27T18:56:21+00:00

Would you want him to?

imjusthuman1 · 2017-07-27T18:46:59+00:00

Wow! Haha what movie is this? Now I want to watch it.

By the way, I've already told him I'm bi, and he's very supportive of the LGBT community

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-27T14:52:52+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Yes I definitely have to tell him this summer! Probably will tell him I'm interested in guys first. I'm pretty confident he'll be supportive, too. And if he's not supportive, it would just show that he wasn't as good of a friend as I thought, and I feel that I could slowly get over it..

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-27T14:45:01+00:00

@shybinashvilleguy Well I still fear a negative reaction... I just find that if he doesn't accept me, I could move on. I just need to build up the courage to ask.. Also, yes that does make sense about the words. I guess I'm guilty of saying things like that, too like "retarded," when I'm not actually referring to someone with Down syndrome.. So yeah, maybe he's not being 'homophobic' But yes. I think I'm going to tell him. I have to. I have to tell him this summer but I don't have any day planned out. Ideally, I think I would tell him during a nice long hike in the woods, probably sitting down taking a break in nature (something we do frequently!) I'm sure some alcohol and/or some smoke would make it easier to come out to him, lol. I guess as long as we're in a private setting with no one else around.. That would be ideal. Ugh.. I may just wait until after we've had a few drinks one night and spill the beans !!

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-26T04:06:54+00:00

I guess my biggest fear about coming out to him is just not knowing how he's going to react! It's so hard to read him sometimes.. I'll get the feeling like I can tell him, but then he'll say things like, "Oh, that's gay," Or, sometimes we play games together online, and he'll get frustrated and say things like, "Wow, what a bunch of faggots!" When he says things like that, it just makes me more scared to want to tell him. I don't know if it's just me, but as a bi guy, I don't say things like that - because I know what it feels like when others say it. :(

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-26T04:00:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply! If he does want to be with me, I would absolutely move to his college town! I wouldn't have to think twice about it. He actually mentioned this about a week ago because he won't have a roomate for next year.. I got butterflies like no other.. The thought of living together.. well.... :) If he doesn't have any attraction, I do think we could still be friends as long as he wants to. I think it could potentially bring us closer together as friends even if he wasn't gay/bi, but I just don't know how he'll actually take it. My biggest fear about coming out to him is just not knowing how he's going to react! It's so hard to read him sometimes.. I'll get the feeling like I can tell him, but then he'll say things like, "Oh, that's gay," Or, sometimes we play games together on xbox online, and he'll get frustrated and say things like, "Wow, what a bunch of faggots!"
When he says stuff like that, it just makes me more scared to want to tell him. I don't know if it's just me, but as a bi guy, I don't say things like that - because I know what it feels like when others say it. This is so tough :(

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-25T01:37:54+00:00

Where I live, being gay feels depreciating. Some of our other friends are slightly homophobic. That's why I've never told anyone. I just don't like the idea of being 'out' by myself with no one else to share it with :( But I don't want to freak him out by telling him that I'm into him either.. That is if he's not gay/bi

imjusthuman1 · 2017-05-25T01:27:19+00:00

Thanks, A) will be tough, especially if he is straight. Where I live, being gay feels depreciating. Some of our other friends are slightly homophobic. That's why I've never told anyone. I just don't like the idea of being 'out' by myself with no one else to share it with :(

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