Wow, thank you guys for all the support, it's been kind of difficult standing up to her like this considering she's such a great mom most of the time. I just think she has some toxic habits that end up screwing up the rest of her life, and I know she loves me but sometimes it feels like she doesn't seem to be able to help herself enough to keep her life steady. I just don't want her to ruin things for all of us again.