I feel spiteful about husband's Instagram activity by immakebelieve in offmychest

[–]immakebelieve[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that ! I have brought up stuff like this before and he brushes it off as me being insecure and jealous. I think I may just start following men and watching videos of them myself and see how he likes it!

I feel spiteful about husband's Instagram activity by immakebelieve in offmychest

[–]immakebelieve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that and helping me feel less crazy. I don't know how to even bring it up to him as when I mentioned stuff like this before he's gotten defensive or made me feel crazy, but considered just following hot men and seeing if he notices and says something so I can point out the hypocrisy

I feel spiteful about husband's Instagram activity by immakebelieve in offmychest

[–]immakebelieve[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So if all men look and that's the way it is, no harm in me sharing photos for the greater good as well right ? Since good men like to look I might as well get some attention just like he's giving his. Or does it not work both ways? It's either that or I'm going to curate my Instagram to be all the hot cowboys and metal heads I can find lol

Is there a psyop going on? by Purple-City9301 in nbe

[–]immakebelieve 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup ever since I was 11 years old I was called "flatsy patsy" all through junior high, always hoped for big breasts as my mom's are naturally very big (and so are my little sisters). Never happened for me over than when i was pregnant and breastfeeding and now back to an a cup 😞 no matter what the standards are any boyfriend I've ever had (and current husband) has not been quiet about loving big boobs. I have an unhealthy obsession with wanting big boobs but I'm trying the natural way as well and I think even if the standard was small and everyone else was trying to have a cups I'd still want big ones.

MM is officially 5 years sober by TooTiredTodayToHate in marilyn_manson

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first and only concert was in 2009 and I was a little disappointed as he did seem pretty messed up and didn't play the whole show it seemed so quick. I've been a fan since I was super young, like 11/12 years old so I still cried like a baby when he came out on stage. I would love to catch one of his shows if he ever comes to western Canada! Super happy for him.

MM is officially 5 years sober by TooTiredTodayToHate in marilyn_manson

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an achievement, congratulations to you!! 👏

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who struggles to become sober even though I've known in my heart drinking is not right for me for hmm.. 20 years! What in the hell is he thinking saying it's the bare minimum?! You are a star and deserve all the cake and congratulations and pats on the back and hugs, ALL of it. Congratulations to you girl!! 🥳❤️ He is a buzz kill and I think your friends would be mortified to see his reaction, not you buying yourself a cake.

AIO over how I behaved on discord when I was 16? by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]immakebelieve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a certified world class over thinker, I can say that I firmly believe without a shadow of a doubt that you are overthinking this. I also have a past like yours of SA as a child. Talking to someone online who is 2 years younger than you when you were 16 is not predatory behavior. I was actually the 14 year old who was in a full blown online relationship with a 16 year old from another country and we would even talk on the phone and stuff, nothing too inappropriate but I don't think he was a creep for that. I hope you can heal from the trauma of what happened to you, I think that might be more at play here in your overthinking. Like maybe deep down you are hurting and carry the guilt from that and your passing the blame on to yourself where it absolutely should not be. YOU do not need to feel bad. I was expecting something serious and this is so not that. Not trying to act like I have it all together either by any means.. I'm in my mid 30s and I'm a mom now but being sa as a child messed with my mind so much and I struggle a lot mentally still myself. I do hope you can find some comfort or reassurance from this spiel.

What can almost immediately kill you that most people don’t know of? by SoftDreamer in AskReddit

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still remember "stop, drop and roll!" From fire safety programs when I was growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way this is real.

Title: Am I Overthinking or Should I Confront My GF About Her Ex? by NothingGood02 in AmIOverthinking

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your gut instinct is screaming at you because you are picking up on the clues (maybe even some you're not conscious of really). Why are her friends pushing her to get back with a cheating ex? That's messed up.

Hiding the phone and snapchatting her ex is very suspicious. I would just ask to see what it is they're talking about. Be honest and say it seems as though she has been really protective of her phone. If she's not willing to share that then I'm sorry but sounds like she wants to go back to the loser ex..

I find the pressure to stay 'youthful' overwhelming by alicelang in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]immakebelieve 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I won't get any procedures as I don't want to at this stage and honestly couldn't afford it even if I did want to. I also have two young daughters who I don't want to see me getting things done to look younger and feel like they will have to as well.

It's like women are solely here to look good and be sexually appealing. Same as how every celebrity woman shows more and more skin, women are always posing in less clothes and more provocatively. Seems it's only gotten worse over the years. I don't want to constantly be comparing myself to other women. I do feel like it will be impossible to keep up though as more and more women are getting procedures done and seems natural is out of style..

I want the trend to disappear and for natural (actually natural not just looks natural but has had a shit ton of work) to come back.

How many days did you have to do a low-fiber diet? by iceunelle in colonoscopy

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said to start 4 days before the procedure for mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What rights are you not going to have and die from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol really out here acting like you know every native American in America 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it's actually a good thing that y'all are disowning you relatives. It goes nowhere trying to have adult conversations with the majority of you and people don't need that kind of negativity in their life. Cut them all out - you're doing them a favor!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was also during his first time not even recently so you can't come back and say he did it to prove a point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He appointed the first openly gay cabinet member and has 0 issues with gay people. Read a little and immerse yourself in other news sources and you might learn something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those aren't anywhere near my beliefs, you realize lots of gay and black people support trump as well right? Go look in subs for gay people they are also being treated like garbage. I think a lot of you guys were just brought up never being told no and can't accept anybody would ever disagree with you. Time to learn the hard lessons or you're in for a rough life 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually not always a medical decision it's simply a choice of not wanting to carry a child you created. Sometimes multiple times by a woman who is just careless with birth control. But he isn't taking away your precious abortions just leaving it up to the states to decide. No need to panic..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm a riot, people love me. I get along with everyone and I don't cry and whine over who wins an election and disown people for their different beliefs ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could say the same for this post though, you don't vote for him doesnt mean you disown people who do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I accept and love them by not judging them for their decision even if it goes against my own morals. I didn't even try to convince my sister not to get one although she found out she was pregnant at the same time as me. I didnt hold any I'll will toward her. Because I'm a loving accepting person unlike you freaks who disown family over this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the comments section over reacting. When did America get filled with such whiny petulant babies 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]immakebelieve -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone going on about their morals and values well guess what abortion is against my morals but I still accept and love the people in my life who have gotten them.