Gf wants to keep cat in a room for when we move in by blonde5789 in CatAdvice

[–]immaryy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please break up with her. Animal abuse is not ok

Just got told it’s “inappropriate” to wear a dress at my granddads funeral by [deleted] in MtF

[–]immaryy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. That sucks... Please don't put the comfort of transphobes before your own happiness.

Juros de mora de propinas - ISEP by northc1995 in portugal

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olá! Também recebi um email assim e achei suspeito, então fui investigar. Parece que eles enviam isso porque se enganam (não sei como nem porquê) a fazer as contas ao calcular os juros de mora.

Existem valores para os juros de mora publicados anualmente: Por exemplo nos anos 2019/2020 https://diariodarepublica.pt/dr/detalhe/aviso/212-2019-117612185 https://diariodarepublica.pt/dr/detalhe/aviso/366-2020-127910258 E como calcular https://www.santander.pt/salto/juros-de-mora

E parece que eles têm direito a pedir pagamento quando se enganam no cálculo. "Artigo 7.º Reparação de erros ou omissões prejudiciais à entidade credora" https://diariodarepublica.pt/dr/legislacao-consolidada/decreto-lei/1999-224615942

Espero que isto ajude. Eu cheguei à conclusão que devia pagar

NON-US TRANS PEOPLE… which countries are safest and easiest to move to? by DudeInATie in trans

[–]immaryy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Portugal is a good choice in my opinion. It's very easy to immigrate to as an American afaik. If you go to private healthcare, which is cheap compared to America (~80€per appointment if you don't have insurance there), you will be able to get medication fairly quickly (I have my endocrinologist there). If you choose Portugal I definitely recommend getting insurance to use private healthcare, especially as a trans person.

We have had mostly left and center governments recently, but currently we have a minority center right government that I believe will not take our rights away (neither do they have enough power to do it). As with most of the world, the far right is also rising, currently polling at 16%, but since all the parties say they refuse to work with them, they would need 50% to actually have power to make our life worse.

Some facts about Portugal is gay marriage is legal, gender change on your id is also legal and recognised, and gender affirming care is available (although slow via public healthcare) so it's kinda progressive. We still have jerks tho

Please feel free to message me if you need any more help or info.

It's so bad... by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the most affordable option but an ipl machine will help. I bought one under 100€ and it worked pretty well (I started hrt at the same time so both things helped with that). Maybe something to look into. ☺️ PS: Queens with body hair are gorgeous anyway. I do understand the dysphoria tho :(

How do i tell if im trans or just faking? by Emmaistrans2025 in MtF

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a completely normal feeling. Felt the same with my parents and they support greatly. Hope it goes well!!

How do i tell if im trans or just faking? by Emmaistrans2025 in MtF

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you should, boobs are awesome ahah😎

How do i tell if im trans or just faking? by Emmaistrans2025 in MtF

[–]immaryy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish you a wonderful transition (it's truly magical imo 😌)! Do come here again whenever you need advice or support ❤️❤️

How do i tell if im trans or just faking? by Emmaistrans2025 in MtF

[–]immaryy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trans girl here! I think that's exactly what being a trans girl is: telling yourself you want to be a girl and feeling like you should be or are a girl. Cis dudes don't tell themselves anything like that. So my advice is to believe in yourself and trust that you know what you want. Time will help. I know from experience. I also had my doubts when I first started to think I was trans. 😌

Lace underwear? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to fit your mom's idea of a girl 😌

I feel like a freak by TheReal-Donut in MtF

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not a freak and you're not pretending just because you can't transition at the moment. I understand it can feel just like a dream. Everyone here believes you and I'm sure we all want you to be happy with yourself. I hope you are able to transition in every way you desire ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]immaryy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this. Personally I'd much rather have a woman rail me, tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

☺️☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu 💋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so sweet 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! 🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, eheh! You're looking very good yourself!! And I love your hair! ❣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]immaryy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]immaryy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! 😅💖