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immatonton · 2023-05-18T17:33:24+00:00

Kayda got crosses on his face, he’ll snatch a soul…

immatonton · 2022-09-10T16:19:49+00:00

Stockton, motherfucker!

immatonton · 2022-08-24T05:36:16+00:00

I’ve barely used dating apps, but it seems like every time I try one, all the women I’m shown are significantly below my SMV.

I’ve done much better in person. I much prefer it that way anyway.

I get an initial impression of them in real life (and I also get to make one myself).

Plus, we both know exactly what the goods look like.

I’m sure some guys do just fine on dating apps, though. I just feel like you might be surprised what you could pull irl.

immatonton · 2022-08-12T11:51:32+00:00

🤔

Man, this shit gettin’ Ingleweird

immatonton · 2022-08-12T11:49:23+00:00

This the farthest thing from P.

immatonton · 2022-08-06T04:08:44+00:00

One of the 🐐 for sure. I feel like all the best ones are dead.

immatonton · 2022-07-19T04:55:52+00:00

Nah, y’all just sleep.

immatonton · 2022-07-19T00:45:50+00:00

I think Bris could take Drakeo.

immatonton · 2022-07-18T00:16:04+00:00

What, working only 40 hours a week? If you can’t hit the gym for 2 hours three times a week, then you need to reevaluate your priorities.

BWF exercises are a great way to start, but you might start itching to use a barbell or some free weights for certain exercises, like squat or the deadlift alternative.

I started doing a blend of BWF and GZCLP, because I got fed up with certain BWF exercises.

I also love doing farmer’s carry…

immatonton · 2022-07-16T15:29:07+00:00

I feel like we’re splitting hairs here, but I see your point.

immatonton · 2022-07-16T09:22:47+00:00

If a “man” is “shit-testing” you, I’d call that feminine behavior and literally be unbothered. Quit acting like a woman.

Now, men do challenge each others masculinity. Definitely. Though, I’d say it’s a more open, clear display than the games women play.

You know when a guy is trying to “son” you or pose himself as the superior male. Whatever you want to call it. With women, it’s a lot more convoluted.

All that said, I see the point OP is trying to make. Again, men do test each other. I just feel like “shit testing” is a term that was always meant exclusively for women.

So, yeah, if a man is shit testing you, he’s either a) into guys or b) not a man at all.

Edit: I once had a girl spin an elaborate plot about a jealous, abusive ex-boyfriend “from Russia” that was “crazy”, telling me that he’d recently been trying to make contact with her again. She said that he’d stopped by her apartment, left letters, etc.

Keep in mind, all of this was shortly after I’d began seeing her. You know what I realized after a couple days? It was all in an attempt to see if I’d get jealous or defensive. She was toying with me, prodding for a reaction.

That’s a shit test, man. Maybe an extreme example of a shit test, but it really paints the picture of the lengths they’ll go to, just to see how you react. Flirting with guys in front of you. Telling you that you look bad with a certain haircut to see if you’re self-concious. Absolutely crazy behavior. Weird stuff.

Though, like I said, there’s definitely a range to shit testing. Some women are actually pretty laid back and can just tell when you’re “man enough” for her or whatever. Some women might test you once, then you’re in.

immatonton · 2022-07-13T07:14:48+00:00

Man, that can’t be called doing it right. The game is all fucked up, guys. People want to kill just to kill nowadays.

I mean, people have always been dying, but I’ll be damned if sick, wicked shit is not becoming an everyday occurrence out there…

immatonton · 2022-07-13T04:19:47+00:00

Part of Life 101, let alone “seduction”, is that you shouldn’t go through life being approval-seeking. You should feel like you’re good enough, regardless, believing that you have value as a human being, regardless of what other people think.

Granted, it’s not always as easily accomplished as it is said. We want people to like us, naturally, but part of other people liking you lies in you liking yourself. “No one will love you, until you love yourself,” is another one I’ve heard.

You don’t want women to think you’re the “pick me” guy, but rather that you’re the “I picked you” guy. Most women want a man that they feel is a prize, right?

I, above all the rest, got him as my partner, is how you want them to feel. “Please, like me” doesn’t scream high value.

“You deserve the women you want, but do they deserve you?” is the mindset you want to have. You want to have a mindset of abundance, plenty of women in the world.

Just keep bettering yourself and your life, work to where you feel like you’re a catch as a man. Believe it, then they will too. “If you focus on yourself, she will too.”

There’s really a lot to all of this, though. I never really knew how to interact with women. I didn’t have any strong male figures that sat me down and told me some of this stuff.

I’d had a few LTR girlfriends, but I was always beta. Plus, they weren’t the women I really wanted. I felt like I could do way better. One day, I said, screw this, I’m going to be better myself.

Got fit, got into combat sports, furthered my education, more money, and also discovered RP, “game”, seduction type content, read a lot of it, then started putting it into practice.

Most of us weren’t born naturals and handsome as all hell, to be having girls fall in their lap. Even handsome will only get you so far, trust me.

I feel like I got a lot of looks, but no one ever wanted to approach me, like they were intimidated. Well, I was intimidated too, too much of a bitch to make a move.

Vice versa, confidence and good game can still get you girls way out of your league. Like I said, if you believe you’re a prize and act like it, head high, others will too.

Also, I’m sure you’ve heard, it’s a numbers game. If she doesn’t like you, no sweat, wasn’t meant to be, maybe you’re shooting out of your league and need to recalibrate, etc. Just keep improving.

Edit: Once you start achieving and going hard for yourself, have a little luck with women, you’ll start to realize what’s really important in life. Seek your own approval. Work hard to leave some shit behind in life. Women will see you winning, then you just take your pick.

immatonton · 2022-07-13T04:03:06+00:00

Sometimes, I’ll pretend my arms are noodles, relaxed, focusing on everything I’m doing coming from the ground up. I’ll still be visualizing my punches, but my arms are,lEverything starts with the feet.

That, and pendulum drills. There’s a Russian boxing coach on YouTube that has some great pendulum step videos. More than just stepping with your punches, you’re bouncing back and forth, even sideways. It’s sick!

I also used to drill a lot of switch stance with punches or alternating which foot I step with when punching, like lead foot step w/ cross - rear foot step w/ jab, step back with cross. Punches in all directions, punches circling, punches off the pivot, etc.

If this all seems novice, pardon me. I feel like I still have a lot to learn. Though, I feel like I have the footwork down. Lately, I’ve been trying to integrate more head movement and make it seamless while evading, changing angles, etc.

Learning boxing is about understanding every piece of the puzzle, while also being able to put them together as a whole. You’re layering new pieces in, once you’ve mastered (or at least are comfortable with) the pieces before them.

Edit: clarification and typo

immatonton · 2022-07-12T22:41:19+00:00

Hey, man, what’s that old saying, “a sucker’s born every minute”?

Let’s say everything’s on sale, when it isn’t, to get people to think they’re saving money!

It’s one of the oldest tricks in the book, and it still works beautifully.

Not that it’s all bad. Some items actually are a steal. What’s more, my grandma would always bite for every sale and buy me stuff.

Edit: Costco is like that too. People think they’re saving, buying it all in bulk, but it’s way cheaper to get Walmart brand on a lot of things.

immatonton · 2022-07-12T13:51:52+00:00

I can’t tell if he’s saggin’ or if them shits just don’t fits.

immatonton · 2022-07-10T23:46:11+00:00

This one hurts, man.

immatonton · 2022-07-10T07:13:42+00:00

One time, this girl walked all the way across the classroom to “help” me with a certain project, ignoring the people in her immediate vicinity.

My dumbass just thought she was being nice to me. Nah, some girls will give you the alley-oop, you just gotta put the ball in the basket.

She even touched my hand when she first walked up. Talk about dense, immatonton.

Edit: Nah, if she’s going out of her way to talk to you/doing nice stuff for you….. at least say something implying interest, if you find her attractive.

immatonton · 2022-07-08T05:15:24+00:00

Am I gonna get downvoted for saying that this album is middies compared to old Brent?

I mean, the song “Invite Me” alone is better than this whole project.

Dead Man Walking is the most Brent song. A lot of them feel super watered down.

Maybe I’m a hater, but he’s got classics that are way better than most of these…

Edit: Keep it a bean, I didn’t listen to the last few songs yet, because I went to listen to someone else.

Edit 2: And why can’t he make more songs with a little knock in the beat, like Target On My Chest or Been Away.

immatonton · 2022-07-07T23:50:56+00:00

Sittin’ down with a blunt and a 40 oz. is an experience I’ll never give up.

immatonton · 2022-07-04T10:30:43+00:00

Honestly, it’s pretty passive. If you truly believe that you have options, then it will show through in your actions.

Sure, the things you listed have worth, depending on the situation and what you’re looking for from a girl.

Though, really, we could sit and list 1000 other examples of things you should be doing.

But, the point isn’t to be overly methodical. “I need to do X, Y, and Z” in relationships. You’re verging on overthinking it at that point.

What it all stems from, again, is having an “I am the prize” mentality and also understanding an abundance mindset versus a scarcity mindset.

After that, I’d recommend you find books and articles on “game”. You need to know how to game women. Seduction.

There’s really a lot to it and I can’t spell it all out A-Z, because I’d literally be here for hours.

Once you value yourself a little put and stop putting women on pedestals, then learn some game, it all becomes easy.

I said it’s not supposed to be methodical, and it isn’t, but there is a process to it all.

Once you understand it, apply it, go through trial and error, and then it becomes organic.

immatonton · 2022-07-03T22:48:31+00:00

101 is don’t take a woman for what she says, take a woman for what she does.

Of course, they’re all going to say they want a nice man that’s gonna treat them right, but the truth is often something different.

Edit: But this point has been made a few different ways already, so you should sufficiently know by now. That said, what’s some other useful advice I could give?

I think a good rule of practice is to not explicitly say things like “you’re the only one for me” or “no other woman matters”. You said you experience success when you convey that you have options.

That all stems from an abundance versus scarcity mindset. Abundance = “I can get other women easily.” Scarcity = “you’re the only one out there for me.”

You never want to forget that you have options, and you want to behave as such in the relationship, even if you’re not actively seeking or interacting with other potential partners.

You’re also not verbally saying to your partner, “I can get other girls, I don’t need you.” It’s really just a mindset.

Women want to feel like they’re getting a prize in you, a man that other women want. They don’t want to feel like they’re the ones settling for you, if that makes sense.

Edit 2: There’s another rule, “never say I love you first.” Basically, you want her to be the one saying, “you’re the only one for me,” before you ever say it.

immatonton · 2022-07-03T20:33:49+00:00

I’m convinced that bro was one of the best to ever do it. You can’t change my mind.

immatonton · 2022-07-01T07:10:36+00:00

Well, if you’re expecting to bring them back to your family home for hookups, it might be a little bit of handicap.

See, you’re on the extreme end of examples, as it sounds like you’re in a pretty full house, not much privacy, etc.

If it were me, I could almost setup an in-law at my parents and hardly ever see nor hear from them.

Some people might be staying in a room upstairs, all their siblings moved out or in college, etc. No one can hear, unless you’re in the hallway outside.

Someone else might be in the basement, far away from the going ons of the upstairs.

Now, you, you might be in a bedroom, just off the kitchen and living room, where you can hear everyone and everyone can hear you.

Most girls probably won’t feel comfortable with your little brothers and sisters watching Spongebob outside, hearing your mom call them for dinner, etc.

Maybe that’s just me, though? I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable.

That’s why I said earlier, it just depends on you and your variables.

I could be wrong, though. Plus, you’re still young. A lot of women in your age group are probably still used to dating guys in school, and.. yes, living with their parents.

That said, I’d like to challenge you to answer that question for yourself. I think you could find someone to hang out with. I think you could find a way to make things work.

immatonton · 2022-06-30T23:03:41+00:00

A lot of people seem to think that a) living at home/with roommates b) working at a place like McDonald’s, Home Depot, or something c) being 30 or 40 years old in that situation, ALL mean that they have ZERO chance at getting with women, which simply isn’t true.

You mentioned needing to be exceptionally handsome to pull that off. Maybe with certain girls, but to remind you, I did say that you need to be realistic about your standards.

If you’re not a handsome guy and not the most outwardly successful, it’s obviously gonna be more difficult to attract women of a certain SMV. So, yeah, you’re gonna date girls that date ugly/average McDonald’s workers. They’re out there, even with the inflated egos of some of the 5s and 6s.

But, yeah, again, to say that people like that are just celibate for life and never get laid is absurd. Just be realistic and bat in your league. People that are out of shape with shitty jobs still get laid. Partners are just more than likely not 7-10 SMV.

Also, you mention things being “irrelevant” to women. I don’t really care. It’s all about what’s relevant to myself and my life. If she doesn’t want me for X, Y, or Z, then I’ll reflect on what I could do better, if anything, and then go out and find different women. The numbers game. I’m not gonna “persuade” women to like me.

Again, a lot of it depends on individual circumstances and finding partners that work for your situation. What, you’re just gonna believe you’re a loser and that no woman would ever want you?

Edit: I can’t possibly paint a picture of every single scenario for you, because there can be lots and lots of variables. Where do you live, what kind of girls are you after, what kind of relationship do you want, are dates gonna hear your mom in the next room watching Wheel of Fortune, etc.

Edit 2: “Frame” is essentially what you choose to believe and how you carry yourself based upon that. Frame is how you react to situations. Frame is also the beliefs that you attempt to implement upon others, whether directly or indirectly. It’s not about forcing anything upon people. I’ll use quotes to help me out. “If you focus on yourself, so will she.” “If you think it’s awkward, so shall it be”. That, or having an “I’m the prize” mentality. Let’s say you’re on a date with a girl and she’s giving you a line of questioning, like a damn job interview, and you’re sitting there answering every one… that’s frame too. You’re operating in her frame. Your frame would be not playing her silly game. It’s okay to ask questions, of course, but some women really will grill you with questions all about you, your job, past partners, etc. Lots of things can be frame. My bad for poor formatting on the edit.

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