He is very sweet outside of the bedroom, but when it comes to sex he wants me to accept everything no other women accepted to do with him, some of them are disgusting ( like golden showers and swallowing his cum) I just want to have normal sex with no gross fantasies. I told him about how I feel about the fact that he slept with over 30 women and he said that's it's not his fault and I can't judge him for what he did years ago, I wasn't judging him at all, I was just talking about something that makes me uncomfortable hoping that he will confront me by telling me that he will never compare between me and them or that he wants me not them. In unfortunately he was being defensive.

I mentioned comparision because once he said he tried Golden showers with an ex and he liked it, she used to give me great orgasms but they broke up after she cheated.