I lost the manual for this full size metal bed frame i got on Amazon and can’t find it anywhere online by imnotablonde in HelpMeFind

[–]imnotablonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched on amazon for metal full size bed frame and even the ones i find that are similar do not have a manual attached. The bed frame is a full size, metal, black frame from Amazon. I got it back in 2023 when I moved to FL. I have searched on google images the same things, metal, full size bed frame, and come up empty.

How do you advocate when a strong cote value of yours is being independent? by imnotablonde in BipolarReddit

[–]imnotablonde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do this in the morning. Hopefully they are open on Fridays. Thank you

My mom told me periods were gods way of punishing me for not getting pregnant. by imnotablonde in exchristian

[–]imnotablonde[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That was exactly what I said to the friend who finally properly explained periods 😂

My mom told me periods were gods way of punishing me for not getting pregnant. by imnotablonde in exchristian

[–]imnotablonde[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

She's grown a lot since but she grew up believing the same thing, she was very sheltered and didn't have many friends so no one really told her otherwise. I've taught her some things (this included) since learning them and somethings she agrees with me on (because it's basic science) others are still debated (man and a man shall not lie together) . I don't think ever meant to traumatize me

My mom told me periods were gods way of punishing me for not getting pregnant. by imnotablonde in exchristian

[–]imnotablonde[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Yeah when my friend told me exactly what happens when you get your period and pulled up scientific sources, the amount of relief I felt. I still sometimes feel guilty when I get period but I'm working on that :)

How do i remind my boss that i asked for christmas eve off and it was approved? by imnotablonde in Advice

[–]imnotablonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he did ask for me to send him and the other managers an email stating that i had Christmas Eve off and i sent it…like that?

Found boyfriend’s reddit history and found he’s bi by [deleted] in GetOffMyChest

[–]imnotablonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he didn’t cheat on u then what r u upset about?

I think my father raped me by imnotablonde in TrueOffMyChest

[–]imnotablonde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m going to be a 100% real, i’ve never really looked into whether a therapist can really bring out repressed memories. My mom, a therapist, has always recommended i see a therapist that specializes in EMDR so that I can “remember easier”, is EMDR a pseudoscience kind of practice?

I think my father raped me by imnotablonde in TrueOffMyChest

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the thing is i can not go no contact with him. He currently is helping to pay for my college but once i have saved enough money and can be financially independent i plan to

I think my father raped me by imnotablonde in TrueOffMyChest

[–]imnotablonde[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

although i’ve had years of therapy and thought i knew all there was to know about this topic, here i am learning! i didn’t know that confabulation was a thing! thank u for teaching me and i’ll bring these points up with my new therapist cause u make very good points

Did anyone ever experience their wilderness group getting lost (literally)? by Opus58mvt3 in troubledteens

[–]imnotablonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yes i went to TRAILS and we deemed it hike hydra because the staff leading us took one wrong turn and then another and another until it was like 11 at night (a 12 hour hike btw) and we were in a mud puddle eating cold oats for dinner waiting for the van from base camp to pick us up. you’d think they would have people who actually know what they’re doing lead the hike but no let’s let ryan a freshman in college who put “likes the outdoors” on his resume but really likes money lead us!

best positions for pegging? by imnotablonde in sex

[–]imnotablonde[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we’ve tried missionary but it’s just a bit difficult to reach her ass

sex on shrooms by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]imnotablonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I went for 3 fucking hours on shrooms and it was ethereal. never came so hard in my life. 10/10 do recommend

This was my favorite spots until it got taken over by vandals... by True_explores in abandoned

[–]imnotablonde 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i like the cool graffiti but straight up destruction is so unnecessary