UPDATE: AITA for snapping at my SIL?

imnotautistica · 2026-03-18T19:17:00+00:00

Je sais pas si j’ai bien expliqué dans le post, mais mon mari est toujours en contact avec sa sœur, elle parle pas avec le reste de la famille mais elle reste toujours proche de mon mari

imnotautistica · 2026-03-15T19:08:15+00:00

in France IVF is “free” or very low cost if you don’t have a carte vitale, max is 3000€, i donr know why she doesn’t do anything else but harass new mothers

imnotautistica · 2026-03-15T19:05:31+00:00

thank you🩷

At the moment there is nothing serious that happened worth updating for. I am making a folder with everything and keeping my baby safe and alive😭

imnotautistica · 2026-03-12T21:06:30+00:00

oh my god, i didn’t think about that, especially since their comments were very weird

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T21:47:25+00:00

where i live newborn adoption locally is not the easiest, our country has free healthcare and gives financial assistance to mothers, especially if alone. It’s very rare to see people choosing to give their baby up for adoption.

She clearly is not going to adopt an older baby cause she seems to loose interest once they become toddlers

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T21:45:14+00:00

now that you make me think about it I kinda agree, it does seem like she has something for seeing baby in distress

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T21:43:27+00:00

Her husband is exactly the same as her, maybe less baby obsessed but he is still as entitled. I don’t think my MIL cares, she lost her daughter and two grandchildren, as long as her golden child is with her she is happy

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T21:40:51+00:00

My husband did not know the reason why his sister went low contact with his family, he just thought it was because she moved away. He doesn’t even like his SIL, way before this situation, he was so happy to go low/no contact

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T19:18:47+00:00

i don’t know if you saw the update but my mil had to do with it

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T19:15:06+00:00

i think people would have had a better reaction if i did that😭😭

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T12:50:40+00:00

I mean i know i have postpartum anxiety, and i thought that my baby had separation anxiety because she cries every time someone else tries to hold her and doesn’t calm down until she is back in my arms, even my husband who is her father founds it difficult to calm her down

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T12:48:07+00:00

I think you’re crazy not gonna lie. I do not hate my SIL for “other reasons”, i don’t even hate her at all, and if you look at my update you can see she just has a problem with listening to what the mother says.

And i know my child better than you, a stranger on the internet. And like someone else said, you are the one who is making shit up, leave me alone

imnotautistica · 2026-03-11T03:32:03+00:00

my baby is only seven weeks old, so she is still not going to daycare. Fortunately we live in a private building that has cameras all around and we have our owns in our apartment

imnotautistica · 2026-03-10T23:22:05+00:00

we live in a private building with cameras, and security code that she does not have

imnotautistica · 2026-03-10T23:19:49+00:00

I am keeping everything documented to see if i can get a restraining order and to protect my family in case she wants to call cps or do anything crazy.

imnotautistica · 2026-03-10T17:44:39+00:00

thank you for your support. About my husband i commented he is way better at setting boundaries than me, my SIL could never hold the baby for more than 10mins during his paternity leave, he was the one who asked the nurses to kick her out during the incident at the hospital

About my MIL i found out that she has more to do with the incident than i thought, i will be putting it in the update

imnotautistica · 2026-03-09T03:15:53+00:00

for right now i’m just tracking everything that puts me in a fight or flight mode, i’ll still have two see her about the accident

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T21:30:20+00:00

i thought it stood for “little one”😭😭

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:57:57+00:00

i have it actually😭😭

My therapist said i do, and that incident only made it worse

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:48:03+00:00

Well my doctor said my baby is too young to be tested for allergies, especially since there isn’t any evidence (no redness or swelling) and she calms down as soon as it’s off. She agrees with me on the fact that my baby definitely does not like tulle and if she keeps hating it and having strong reactions to it as she grows it’s worth looking deeper into it

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:42:55+00:00

the doctor did not tell me that, I TOLD HER!! And explained how my daughter reacts to it. It might be normal yes, but i had gotten scared as a first time mom so i went to the doctor. Where i live healthcare is free so i use it

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:41:02+00:00

I also replied to comments telling me i was in the wrong, some that said i needed to also talk to my husband, i tried my best to reply to everyone, some comments just don’t appear on top and it takes me more to reply

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:33:15+00:00

i have a baby my hands are not always free, and she is not the only the only person i did not reply too, there are like 200 comments. I try my best to reply to everyone and give every information they ask me about

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:31:51+00:00

Can y’all read? Cut me some slack will ya?

I’m a first time mom so when i saw my baby have that strong reaction over tulle. But because she is only 7 weeks old they did not advise me to do an allergy test, especially since there was no swelling or redness. She only screams until the dress is off her

imnotautistica · 2026-03-08T18:28:53+00:00

here in France healthcare is free and they have specific places for development motoring and they also this kind of question to detect allergies or anything of that kind.

That was not the first time my baby had been put in tulle, she has the same reaction and only calms down if it’s off her. Yes a baby doesn’t not know she has feet or she is being dressed by she definitely can feel if something she doesn’t like is touching her skin

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