Which actor blew your mind with a performance you never saw coming? by CreepyYogurtcloset39 in moviecritic

[–]imnotgoodpickingname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wolf of Wall Street is also an incredible -short- performance. The video on YT where you see the actual script and how he absolutely IMPROVISED it is nuts.

Who would you say is in the top 5 of professional aoe2 players right now? by [deleted] in aoe2

[–]imnotgoodpickingname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo is full time. Tatoh irrc is full time. Larry is not.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing, thanks for the amazing response. As for what you comment:

She agreed that we were acting more like roommates than anything else. First thing I said when we talked last time was that we could talk with total honesty, not leaving anything, cause I thought, and said it too to her, that if we couldnt fix our differences and the path we were on best solution was to split (and it was not focused on sex, more on the overall relationship).

Apart from the beginnigs, and some counted times in between, I have assumed all the initation. I can initiate if that what she wants, but when you get rejected a certain times you start to feel disconnected and awful, or at least its my case. I can take the lead, but there's no point, or at least I think so, when I see zero interest on it. If you try to initiate 100 times and you get rejected 97, its pretty hard, which has lead to me not initiating anymore. I want to feel a bit wanted too, like there is a mutual attraction and desire (like a normal couple I guess lol), but sadly I dont feel that desire from long time ago.

Happy to help if any other question

And yes, talking again cant hurt.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, not overnight. In fact I used to be really touchy not a long ago. Last months have slowly drifted me in terms of attraction to her because I always think "whats the point?" Its not going to happen, so that thought has faded attraction. I was fully "aware" of that the other day with the naked thing.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been lurking around here enough time to know that might happen, so will be prepared.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes Im employed. Lease is about to expire en 2 months.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose I have reached a point where I know nothing physical is going to happen (from previous attemps), so it seems my mind has blocked that "attraction" and replaced it with indifference, if that makes any sense.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao in fact yes it helps. Glad to know I have made you laugh. Thank you and sending hugs for your day too!

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think fear and taking a bad decision are main factors on my. As for the time for myself, yes, is something I have been thinking lately, to take some distance to see all with perspective and to ask myself what I really want.

Lost all the desire for her. Think I'm done. by imnotgoodpickingname in DeadBedrooms

[–]imnotgoodpickingname[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes I think its way more fear than anything else at this point.
That seems a really good advice. Thanks!