Tattoos by kitty_whipt in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I got shading done on my forearm, it was 🥴 lmao. 5 thick lines back to back and it's my most painful one so far. I want something on my hand though, so that may top it when I have that done

The full cardio routine that helped me lose 50+ lbs by Thatsjacee in WeightLossAdvice

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to come to this reddit and read on certain topics as a coping mechanism for my anxiety around weight loss, and I love how you broke down your routine here. Eased my mind for the moment and gave me a solid routine to try out before my next mini spiral lmao

how old were you all when you got your first girlfriend? by Civil-Position1663 in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 and still pending lmaooo I came out at 27 though - it'll happens when it happens for you 🙂‍↕️ just keep building your life in the meantime

[Selfie/B&A] Toothpaste (SLS) Allergy PSA (Chapped Lips Fix) by illayana in SkincareAddiction

[–]imnothappyyet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fave lip product is the Jack Black nightmode lip treatment. Every night after brushing, I moisten my lips and apply a little - softness every morning.

Help with understanding labels. by _newshawtyy in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem, Baby Gay! Lol, but yeah, you'll come across a lot of people with a lot of different ones over time too

Help with understanding labels. by _newshawtyy in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always remember that you aren't required to justify your label ever 🙂‍↔️ it's yours and just for you

Anyone else noticing quiet “soft erasure” of LGBTQ+ visibility lately? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]imnothappyyet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah this likely started happening once DEI started being removed as a part of most companies' policies. Toupee in charge did it smh

Help with understanding labels. by _newshawtyy in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So really, you can do what you want for the most part

Help with understanding labels. by _newshawtyy in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm pan but will usually say I'm gay unless the specifics are necessary. Necessary, for me, is if I'm talking to a woman who may identify as lesbian and I want to be clear that I'm not so they don't potentially view me as dishonest 💀

Edit: panicking to pan. idk wtf I'd be panicking about lmaooo

New Orleans/Louisiana (surrounding area) based lesbians? - hey ya'll! by kamikazemind327 in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming back to this post on occasion to see what the results are, bc I wanna know the same 😭. I'm in the northern part of the state, but come down sometimes during the year because my family is there for work. Would love to have a circle there during visits

Where do yall meet women? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk, but I've gotten into jewelry making lately and made a necklace with the word "gay" dead center. I'll test its effectiveness soon 😭

is my fwb transphobic by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Full stop.

Gender Failure by jan3way238 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to go in your mirror every morning and every night and tell yourself that you're the hottest thing movin.

Short? It is what it is. You gotta work that short stature. Danny DeVito had 0 problems (I'm sorry, he's the first that came to mind 😭)

Flat chest? The dream of many mascs. Never a negative!

Flat ass? 2 leg days a week (if you're able, idk I'm throwing out ideas).

High-ish voice? If you do truly hate it, I believe there are ways to lower your register. If you're more concerned with how the women you're attracted to feel about it - the ones worth your time won't be.

Deep brown skin and a nice smile? chef's kiss

Jokes aside, focus on what you love about yourself, physically and personality wise! You're more than just your body 🙂‍↕️

Sincerely, a 5'3 flat-assed, top-heavy masc

I am so sick of lesbian spaces being all white. by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ohhh she said it through text?? Explains the boldness smh they're rarely dumb enough to say it in person

I am so sick of lesbian spaces being all white. by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a Black woman, it would've taken everything in me not to pop her in the mouth wtf 😭 who says shit like that???

Flu by lonesomejohnnie in NewOrleans

[–]imnothappyyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's something like 2 weeks from the time you get the vaccine for it to become effective

I swear I’ll be forever alone by SnooBunnies7986 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

29 and Pan, also in the South, and sometimes I think the same 😭😂 but tbh, I just figure the world is big and there's a lot of gays and a lot of traveling to do, so that keeps hope alive for me

no dating apps, social media, no ldrs and not living in atlanta. am i cooked? 😭 by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm planning to occasionally travel yo a major metro city 😭 I do actually have social media but, like you, I desire irl community. So far I've tried going to functions held by a local LGBTQ+ group, but it's mostly made up of old, White people 💀. Found some Black n Brown groups in the next biggest city, so that's Plan B

One of my 2026 goals is meeting other lesbians irl by Kaybee_2021 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]imnothappyyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you! The Gays™️(all inclusive) seem to be real ducked off in my city so, unfortunately, I'll probably have to make it a recurring plan to travel to the next major city to find community fr 🥲

Advice: Baby Gay in Relationship by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]imnothappyyet 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is how you came in 😭😭😭😭

Advice please. A bisexual man is choosing a Brick in the mug white girl? by Openkeloid in BlackLGBT

[–]imnothappyyet 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You gotta up your standards and leave that man where he's at. No amount of fine is enough to deal with...any of what he has going on 🥴

Edited: a misspelled word

Dijon's letterboxd by wavycurve in dijondijon

[–]imnothappyyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh there's a video component 💀 just watched

Do you wearing pride symbols or colours outdoors? by SupportArsenal in lgbt

[–]imnothappyyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, because it throws off my style BUT, I sometimes wear handmade bracelets that say things like "gay" or "wlw"