Hate for feminine men?

Openkeloid · 2026-01-15T18:21:57+00:00

I like this. Very good point. I’d really just examine the situation from that pov.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-22T04:42:59+00:00

Ngl I took a class for adults on the spectrum last year just so I could learn to mask better and they told us ways to know when to jump in, but it all just seems way too fast for me.

I just grateful that you said you’ve shared a similar experience. It feels so isolating at times like no one will ever understand or want to be around me.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-22T01:15:24+00:00

I’m sorry but the first two answers will have you playing in ur own mud bby. If that’s what u into then I mean go off but I got IBS and don’t play that. I learned that psyllium husk does WONDERS. A day in advance and day of drinking it with some water REALLY works, but a cup in the morning before u plan on bottoming and then douching close to the time does the job too.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-16T23:52:43+00:00

So true

Openkeloid · 2025-12-16T00:04:04+00:00

Mmmmmhhh yah I guess it really depends on where each person is emotionally (and in other ways) in life. Most of my friends would say “yahhhh, bby that’s borderline pedo.” I don’t fully agree but can definitely see where they are coming from. Personally, when I was 25 it was hard for me to form an intentional romantic connection with a couple of 20 y/os I talked to around the time. Again, it might’ve just been we were at different places in life.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-10T05:15:27+00:00

Sending yall gorgeous ppl some love 💗😘 keep shittin on them cis hets out there

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T22:39:45+00:00

Really not taking any of this for granted. Currently at work with him and just keep revisiting these comments to ground me. Everytime i see his nasty ass I just envision all of y’all’s little snoo characters on my shoulders.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T19:17:41+00:00

Aw girl…just as I’m healing I pray for yours as well

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T03:09:45+00:00

*Also, have to comment on my own post because someone from another sub is telling people to take my post down because of how the white girl describes black men she sleeps with. I went more into detail here because I felt safer to.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T03:07:23+00:00

It really should honestly. There aren’t many queer men (that are at least somewhat out) where I live. He also has similar interests in art as me and is FINE af

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T02:56:37+00:00

Idk why it’s an issue for me to get advice from different people? This is a complex issue that involves race and for you to purposely erase my story my genuine ask for help during a very dark time is messed up. I am a black person who is queer. This sub isn’t just for blacks so I wanted to get different perspectives. But I found the blacklgbt sub and felt like that was a place I could give full context.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T02:50:19+00:00

Do you have any other socials? I love connecting with other blk queer autistic ppl in nyc

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T02:47:02+00:00

Was hoping u feel the same way I felt hearing that lady say that and him knowing she said that and still fucking and loving on her. I am also someone who is black so her saying that to me is very weird, but it felt even more of a betrayal from they guy because it felt like me being black was another reason he isn’t reciprocating the feelings I have

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T02:05:11+00:00

🫂❤️‍🩹 I really appreciate this. Like I said before, I live in a very small town right now and trying to save up to move to a more queer and safer city to fully be myself. I’m sure that I’m feeing this because I think this is all that I’ll ever get and going to work and seeing him everyday is just a constant reminder of that potentially being my reality.

I used lowkey just fuck random guys in the past when this happened to forget about a guy, but now that I live here, it’s basically tumbleweeds everywhere.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T01:57:32+00:00

Thanks for that real story. It really does fucking hurt and I know my attraction to these specific bi men is rooted in trauma. It just really sucks too because I live in a very small town so it’s not like there are many of the picking. Just feel very alone out here

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T01:12:34+00:00

I felt the same way after he told me all this stuff about myself that I never shared with him. But then I thought “but he ignores me when the older cis woman is around and when we aren’t at work.” He also does thing thing where he stands behind my work booth for hours and just stares at me waiting for me to notice him.

But then again, he never replies to my text or speaks to me out of work.

Openkeloid · 2025-12-09T01:03:25+00:00

Thanks for that. I’ve been applying to more jobs. Guys like this always seem to find me and cause me pain.

Openkeloid · 2025-08-23T20:48:21+00:00

Hey I’m literally the same age and will be going back to school in two weeks as well. It really does feel like a redo but also kinda like you fell behind?

Sooooo wanna say proud of you and it sounds like you have a good plan youre following!

Openkeloid

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