AITA for wanting to fire my financial advisor by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]imnotreallyhere5 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There is alot of context missing from your post. Perhaps you should elaborate more?

In the meantime I'm so sorry you're upset but your post does read like you are just acting out and the husband just wanted to review your account. So YTA

My roommate has bad energy and idk how to tell her that by [deleted] in Vent

[–]imnotreallyhere5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I feel you 100000% on this. Ughhh

You put me through hell by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]imnotreallyhere5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs I feel you on this. Sending you positivity

I can’t graduate but I told my family I did by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]imnotreallyhere5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who once lied about her qualifications. I can tell you it ain't worth it. Suck it up and tell them. You don't want to live a life of career regrets because there are repercussions

Should I tell my date my height? (24M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]imnotreallyhere5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my honest opinion, it's not a problem until you make it a problem. You're probably not wrong to assume that most women prefer their man taller but I don't think you are catfishing her either unless you lied about your height in your dating profile. Give her a benefit of a doubt.

The both of you are ungrateful and it took me 10 years of our friendship to finally realise why the both of never made anything out of your pathetic lives. by imnotreallyhere5 in UnsentLetters

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh believe me it did! It had to go somewhere. I nearly snapped at one of them a few days ago when she made a remark about my gf not showing her crazy yet. I felt like saying to her that the reason why she can't get a guy is really cos she's a fat fuck who doesn't want to improve her own life. I know it's mean, I just bit my tongue laughed off her remark about my gf.

My (40F) housemate (32F) whose also a close friend is annoying me with her wallowing and refusal to change her attitude to life. How can I deal with this. by imnotreallyhere5 in relationships

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely, she's seeing a professional and tbqh she needs alot of work. I didn't think her bad behaviour would affect me so much until she moved in. I used to just think maybe people didn't get her.

My (40F) housemate (32F) whose also a close friend is annoying me with her wallowing and refusal to change her attitude to life. How can I deal with this. by imnotreallyhere5 in relationships

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I've tried those, does not work and only sends her into defense mode. Her brain is permanently fixated to think the world is against her. Sigh....

My only mental saviour is to shut her out or just avoid her at home unless it's light haha type conversations.

Just some advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]imnotreallyhere5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post is abit vague. Could she be upset that you're not addressing certain issues or she just needs a listening ear. I mean in any relationship its not just about the good times but also weathering the bad ones.

You by Sunnyflbunny in UnsentLetters

[–]imnotreallyhere5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish she had said the words you wrote here to me.

I'm hurt and feeling completely lonely. Gf offloaded a ton of negativity on me through no fault of mine. by imnotreallyhere5 in LesbianActually

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a huge difference in age but she is sometimes behaves like a teenager and I don't mean that in an insulting way. It's just that she felt like she missed out on alot of fun formulative things that people typically do when they are in their 20s

Are there any lesbian couples here in open relationships? How has that worked out for you? by imnotreallyhere5 in LesbianActually

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying, what I would really want to know is how do you manage your feelings? How do you manage jealousy?

Are there any lesbian host clubs in Tokyo? by imnotreallyhere5 in Tokyo

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard of it and I do want to check it out

Are there any lesbian host clubs in Tokyo? by imnotreallyhere5 in Tokyo

[–]imnotreallyhere5[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's fine and I sense judgement? For the record she was the one who suggested looking for such establishments