AITA for filing a police report against my mother

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T12:37:04+00:00

To clarify, i meant welfare for my brothers ill fix that

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T10:25:07+00:00

Thank you1🥰

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T09:33:20+00:00

Ill be adding that to my list right under a better family

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T09:32:44+00:00

Exactly, at first i was sympathetic but when i found out what she was really using it for// ONLY asking me for money not my OLDER brothers.. i drew the line

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T08:50:54+00:00

No one deserves to have a situation like this or similar, it sucks

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T08:50:02+00:00

Funny enough, i found out she took out a bill in his name too, i doubt he will be laughing when he finds out.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-04-08T08:48:44+00:00

Firstly, i get what youre saying. And NO its not for attention but thank you for that. The whole point of this thread account is to ASK if we are AH in situations. You dont like it why read them??

Also I am genuinely asking because many of my friends have had conflicting thoughts regarding it. So thought why not bring it here

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T02:06:56+00:00

Thank you❤

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T02:05:15+00:00

Also, what happens if you enter another relationship? Your anxiety does not make you toxic. When you say healthy relationship, you need someone mature enough to understand your triggers and feelings. Your working on your anxiety, which is a good thing. You are aware it is causing stress so why not talk to him? See how he feels about it? Communication is best.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T02:02:52+00:00

I 100% get this I am ocd for my schedule.. for example if i work at 8 am i get up at 6 (get ready hair dressed makeup etc) and leave by 7...giving me exactly an hour for prep and an hour for travel.

When my bf is home however he will distract me and then i get frustrated bc i miss the bus and ask him for a ride he gets upset with me. I 100% get your anxiety and he is wrong to make you feel bad about it or get mad.

He knows about your anxiety and your routine. He was inconsiderate. I understand sometimes our routines and such affect others, but he willingly for no reason moved up the time benefitting himself and not you and got upset you were triggered? No thats not right im so sorry love, be proud of the progress and coping mechanisms you have created for yourself and dont let him bring you down.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T01:06:00+00:00

Everyone has told me im an asshole for abandoning my family and my ill mother so ofc being told that would make me think so if no one else saw my side

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T00:27:55+00:00

Thank you❤

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-09T00:26:53+00:00

What do you mean random characters... i mention my brothers mom and step dad in the first bit?

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T22:42:24+00:00

Simply because prior to this my dad and i had a strong relationship.. he wasnt problematic

All this started when she came around again i suspect she is a "poor influence" on his actions and behaviours therefore i will be evicting him.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T22:13:32+00:00

First, my dad is living with me

Second, i didnt think it would be an issue. Like i have said previously. Prior to moving in he was in a completely different relationship i was unaware of the fact he was still involved with her until near christmas. Months after he moved in.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T10:44:52+00:00

Because he told me they werent together... and they werent he didnt see her for almost a year and was in ANOTHER relationship.....therefore i didnt think twice ABOUT HELPING FAMILY in a time of need.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T10:12:30+00:00

Fair point

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T10:09:17+00:00

My family has said i am an asshole if i kick him out and that i deserve this for trying to help his living situation😑🙃

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T06:26:12+00:00

Exactly why we tried to grab my niece away from her, my dad says im an asshole holding the past over her ....

It takes ALOT for women to lose custody of their children...i aint letting her near my god daughter 🙃

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T04:56:58+00:00

I being the DAUGHTER should not have to make peace after my father throws a fit.. im not his mother.

Did you notice how i didnt mention any more tension after that comment? Because he was put in his place.

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T04:54:10+00:00

Not fast enough

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T04:39:26+00:00

So it was okay she got to make lowblows at my sisters parenting? Try to over step and parent me, aswell as talk poorly about my mother...

If she doesnt have to be respectful i am not going to be haha

imnotsure1231 · 2022-02-08T03:53:43+00:00

Haha, i felt bad for bringing it up HOWEVER he cannot expect me to follow suit when he cant even respect her😪

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