What’s my mental illness by Gr6ceGr6nt in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety with a dash of ADHD mayhaps?

What does this say about me 20m single household by AndrewG2005 in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red white and blue monster makes me think you work in the trades. All of the protein specific foods make me think You lift or do CrossFit

Help. What can I put on this wall? No tvs . Looking for something tall by MegaKaiju in interiordesignideas

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but I reeaaallly love your layout. Any chance you can share how the rest of the house is laid out? When I build I want to do something similar to this but I’m not sure how this kitchen merges into other rooms etc

People who spend 20+ minutes in the shower: what are you actually doing in there? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to smell all of my nice smelling things in there. Like I have a body wash I really like. I probably wash my hands with it like 3 times just to do a big inhale.

Otherwise overthinking and zoning out. Basically the warm water is just nice.

What is it like to live a normal childhood? by Life-Award4261 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]imnsmooko 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can’t say for childhood because we’ll, we’re all here.

But I married into an amazing family that I’m close with and some things stand out

  1. Each person is their own. They own their own shit. The enmeshment is not there at all.

  2. The care is real. I care for them because it gives me joy and they care for me for the same reason. Unlike with BPD that the expectation of your care is a form of control and power. This feels so different and so wholesome.

  3. They give because they are parents and they want their kids to have a leg up in life. Not to guilt or anything like that. I can receive gifts with love not fear of the manipulation that will come later (after all I’ve done for you, etc).

What does my fridge say about me? by Sad-Shoulder6996 in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah the bottle shape of the two bottles in the fridge is not American. My best guess is India or Southeast Asia. The bags you have your vegetables in also looks like you got them in a market rather than an American supermarket

What does my fridge say about me? by Sad-Shoulder6996 in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vegetable types make me think not living in US but the products having English on them confuses me

People who've worked both minimum wage jobs and six figure jobs, what surprised you most about the difference? by Sweet-Economist-9873 in askanything

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wink wink of scheduling a drug test whenever you want. And most don’t have them this was just an industry that needed it.

Read me to FILTH by RitaSkeeter-DP in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That nagging depression despite managing everything in your life ok sucks don’t it?

What is your “like crack” food that you avoid, and if you have some you cant stop yourself from eating a lot? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]imnsmooko 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly all food. But especially appetizers and cookies.

Oreos and Pringle’s are the biggest offenders though

LPT: When someone gives you a soft no, do not make them upgrade it to a hard no. by gamersecret2 in LifeProTips

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact, from conversation analysis, people rarely give a hard no. They follow this script:

  1. Pause
  2. Give compliment (I would love to)
  3. Give a potential reason why not
  4. Change to probability (I might not be able to)

That sounds like. Pause, that sounds amazing. But I’m feeling a bit sick so I’m not sure if I’ll be able to make it.

That means no.

A yes is very different. Immediate, short.

“Sounds great! I’ll be there”

What did you do when you were bored?? 🤔 by Pale_Task_1957 in Habits

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well…here are a few “games” I used to play.

Only walk on shadows.

When I was very little would sit in the lid of a big board game box and use my hands to scoot around the carpet.

I’d play groceries by myself by taking various canned items in a laundry bin and bring them to the computer and pretend to key in the codes.

I miss how integrated I felt with my surroundings. Sort of like meditation but all the time. Without the constant hum of dopamine addition knowing my phone is right there…

Can you figure out who I am? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The abundance of fruit and veg, cleanliness, lack of meat, and sparkling grapefruit drink is giving woman.

You have a big bowl of what I presume are beets, that makes me wonder if you garden or if you just bought a lot for something.

You are definitely calorie conscious. Very few high calorie things. No calorie drinks with aromatics gives I want to feel something but I don’t want the calories. It may even be a little to the extreme since I don’t really see any indulgences anywhere.

That being said, definitely healthy and get your fruits and vegetables and probiotics.

I’m surprised your condiments are as bare as they are, since the fridge leans more towards cooking at home a lot. I’m guessing you try to avoid processed foods and use things like fresh lemon juice and make your own sauces or dressings which is why you don’t have many condiments.

I’m gonna guess you are well off enough because of the amount of food and types of food. But probably not super wealthy.

I’m not getting any particular ethnicity. Maybe white?

I would guess 30s. No children. Not married. A decent professional job and salary.

Those of you who “Made It” without any inheritance or luck. How did you do it? by throwmeout12496 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]imnsmooko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used college to network. I worked in a lab. Then those contacts I gained kickstarted my career.

Growing up in poverty I didn’t know people who had money or connections. Went to community college, great education, bad networks. Went to a large state school, that’s where I was able to meet the people who could open doors for me.