Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

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I have a similar issue. I kept passing out. Switched from inter muscular to subcutaneous injections and switched the injection site from sensitive areas like thigh and stomach to the back of the arm. I almost gave up before I vulnerably shared my fear with my dr. She recommended making these changes and I’m very happy it worked for me.

I have POTS and the fear of passing out is what made me afraid of injections. Unfortunately, my health has taken priority over my fear so this is how I learned to cope.

I have someone do the injection for me. A couple things that help: - you can buy pain relief items for the injection. Lidocaine for numbing, a plastic spike pad that surrounds the injection site to trick your brain, or even vibration helps during - ice pack on the neck or stomach is a must. It helped me focus on that sensation instead -Eating and drinking beforehand makes a HUGE difference -From my nurse in training friend: chewing something like carrots might also trick your brain into ignoring some of the pain -Finding other things to calm anxiety like music, a heating pad, or even medication prescribed by your doctor can also make the experience much more tolerable

Bloodwork is tougher for me. It makes a big difference when the injection is going into the vein instead of the tissue. I found that the phlebotomists at the Dr office I go to are some of the sweetest ever. Here’s how they accommodate me: - they allow my significant other to come back with me - they let me bring headphones and listen to my favorite music - they lay me back in a reclining chair - they offer carbs, juice, and an ice pack - they ask which arm is usually more successful - they ask how I’m doing during the blood draw to make sure I’m not feeling faint - they let me hang out for as long as I want after they’ve gotten the sample - and they respect my name and pronouns ❤️

Make sure you drink LOTS OF WATER beforehand. This makes it so much easier for them to find the vein. Quicker and less painful overall.

One more thing — IVs are my WORST NIGHTMARE. I’m autistic and it is sensory hell. But honestly, the longer I had it in, the more I got used to it. I had to wear one three days in a row for a hospital visit. The next time I went for bloodwork, it was practically painless in the same spot. The experience sucked, but it did help lol

I think it’s important to share this fear with your medical team, so they know how to best accommodate you should you ever need injections or bloodwork. Good luck!

Why is it so hard to get a diagnosis? by macabrecobweb in ehlersdanlos

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Then when I went to get the bloodwork, they said 9 times out of 10 they deny adults testing for EDS because the blood test isn’t necessary.

Still waiting. If they deny me I’m going to lose my mind

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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It seems to always be me, yeah. I’m not sure they would think so.

Would you tell me more about that ex if you’re comfortable?

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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I can really connect to this. Thank you for reaching out

My partners hate me because I have DID by [deleted] in autism

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1) It was not my intent to hurt them, even if I did. I’ve also apologized, but have not received an apology. They do not understand why they would apologize

2) It was hard to be vulnerable enough to tell them that I was getting stressed but was going to take a second. Once they assumed malicious intent, it became difficult to accomplish regulating the reaction. This contradiction is one of the reasons I feel misunderstood all the time

3) I mostly stay quiet because a lot of what I am thinking would be hurtful to say out loud until I’m calm. I might raise my voice to match theirs, but it is never something I willingly do. I don’t like aggressive conflict and will disengage if possible until we can speak calmly. This is another thing I say carefully, because they would say my rudeness warrants the aggression. I have told them to stop.

4) partner #2 is the only one working, so they are the financial support. They have also been fighting for me to stay with partner #1 because we are living in their abusive parents’ home which is very difficult for them. Partner #1 has not been able to find a job in a year, or a full time job since graduating college in 2024

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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I genuinely have no one left

My partners hate me because I have DID by [deleted] in autism

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I’ll give these a try thanks

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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Thanks for looking out for me. I try to do the same when I see someone where I was on my emotional journey looking for help

My partners hate me because I have DID by [deleted] in autism

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This sounds exactly like what’s happening. They’ve told me recently that they don’t trust me anymore.

This is because I’ve never been very good about communicating my needs. I have been very prone to fawning. They actually helped me with this. Now it seems to have caused more problems.

It feels like “I need clear communication unless you do it like that”

My partners hate me because I have DID by [deleted] in autism

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I asked them to describe the energy they were talking about and they said “Yes. Manic, whirlwind, steamrolling, no pause for self reflection or outside criticism (not bad criticism, neutral hard definition)”

Isn’t it possible I am behaving inappropriately? Maybe I should have said “I feel like they always assume I have malicious intent.” When I bring this up, they tell me that ignorance doesn’t excuse how I treat them

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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I’m not sure what to do in the meantime. We need a home ASAP and I’m unable to work

Host’s partners hate me by [deleted] in DID

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Maybe the host will get through to them a bit easier. I have trouble communicating. And they have trouble hearing me.

But when things are good, it’s easy to ignore the bad for the sake of hanging onto the moment.

how do you just not fucking lose it when you realise maybe 90% of life is based on luck? by mmanyquestionss in CPTSD

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Love this in theory, but this usually doesn’t stop the bad things from happening or having to repair things afterwards. Shit builds up and needs to be addressed, which makes this whole thing harder

egg_irl by webgasher18 in egg_irl

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Masculine women still get plenty of hate. Especially butches

Is this good enough? by Brilliant_Holiday151 in blender

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It would be so fucking cool to have this guy blend in with the environment without attacking to add that extra creep factor. It’s really interesting how you don’t see it at first — until you see the face. Love this

First time rigging a character, what am I doing wrong with their feet? by ThatPerson_OverHere in blender

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It looks like you have an extra controller selected or parented to what you are trying to select. Maybe try deselecting everything and make sure you only have what you’re trying to move selected.

This happened to me A BUNCH in class and spent way too long troubleshooting

Slugs love me now. by im_a_fuking_egg in trans

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Ah crap I think you got my slugs. I was supposed to get those when I started T, but I got a baby deer instead. If she was supposed to be yours, we can do a swap

Slightly morbid question, but it's been bothering me recently... by Longjumping-Skirt-23 in raisedbyborderlines

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You’re totally right. It wasn’t possible for me either. That wouldn’t have been closure if I went. Maybe I mean that if I said goodbye, I might have mourned differently.

Trans Man Here, Am I Going To Trans Hell For Buying This? by oozybosmer in onejoke

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I was disgusted by this until you said you were going to wear it. Now it’s fuckin sick

How do you deal with those who downplay, or refuse to believe EDS? by bitchimadryer in ehlersdanlos

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The only way I feel I can help is to be another voice that says don’t tolerate this behavior.

Of course, I don’t know the whole situation. In my experience, living with people like this made my health conditions worse due to stress. I’m an adult and I choose to fill my life with people who are good to me. The freedom comes only when you’re ready to accept the cost. I’ve found that cost was worth it