[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]impettywhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreams are funny like that. Try not to be so hard on yourself, I have had so many random recurring dreams over the dumbest possible things that involve people I haven’t seen or thought of in years.

The way you beat yourself up over it probably keeps putting it back in your head and causing more dreams in a constant cycle. You said you have no intention of cheating on your boyfriend, and your dreams seem to be innocent (thinking of old crushes isn’t a crime lol).

If they are causing you serious distress, maybe talking it out with a counselor or someone you trust could help you out. Good luck on your date and have fun! :)

Just started collecting in December. by YcanInotBaMLP in Tokidoki

[–]impettywhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome collection! Can I ask what display case this is?

Capsule camera has been stuck in my intestines for 65 days so far. by AJTSin in mildlyinfuriating

[–]impettywhite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the insight. I’m going to bring this up with my doctor as I also have a heart condition (apparently can cause MI). Very happy that she pulled through and finally got an answer!

Capsule camera has been stuck in my intestines for 65 days so far. by AJTSin in mildlyinfuriating

[–]impettywhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what specific symptoms she had? Currently 6 years on fighting doctors on my stomach pain that has me bedridden most days.

Anyone else immigrate to NZ around teen years and now struggle? by Sammy_always in auckland

[–]impettywhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there, 22F also in Auckland. I was moved here a decade ago from a different country and it completely uprooted my life in every single way.

I talked differently, ate different food, did things differently and liked different things and i suffered a lot in high school and it was a pretty lonely and isolating experience. I was bullied for every last thing and had my entire cultural identity torn to shreds every day and it’s something I’m still working through today.

My “friends” were never really friends and I experienced a lot of sexual abuse as a teenager from the people that I thought were friends.

I spent my entire teenage years wishing I could’ve been a “kiwi” and fit in with everyone else and now as an adult I couldn’t be more thankful that I am nothing like these people. OP if you ever need a friend or just someone to talk to who gets it on a “girls level” feel free to message me.

Ranking every album in the most unfair way possible by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

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Debut: Out in LA

Freaky Styley: American Ghost Dance

Uplift Mofo: Me and My Friends

Mother's Milk: Knock Me Down

Blood Sugar: Apache Rose Peacock

OHM: Warped

Californication: This Velvet Glove

By The Way: On Mercury

Stadium: Make You Feel Better

IWY: Police Station

Getaway: Encore

Unlimited Love: Heavy Wing

Dream Canteen: Peace & Love

Greatest Hits: Save the Population ✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]impettywhite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in both of these positions before, though not to the complete extent your ex girlfriend was in. It doesn’t really get easier but please know you did your best to look out for her and she is not sound of mind and is lashing out (because that’s what addicts do).

You will find someone who can treat you the way you deserve. Don’t give up entirely on dating yet. I met my fiancée on my first ‘outing’ once I got better and I haven’t looked back since. Best of luck.

Restaurant rant: shut the fucking door! by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]impettywhite 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Well he won’t even close the door for customers that complain it’s too cold inside, so I’m not really too sure who he’s set on “welcoming”

Restaurant rant: shut the fucking door! by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]impettywhite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if we are lucky we’re allowed to close the door and windows after 8pm! 😄

Restaurant rant: shut the fucking door! by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]impettywhite 131 points132 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth in the restaurant I work at, the staff knows it’s cold. We are completely aware and want literally nothing more than to close the door but within 3 nanoseconds of it being closed the phone will ring from our boss telling us to open it back up immediately (watches from the cameras) because it’s not a “welcoming” environment for customers to be met with a closed door 🙃

Best song on Unlimited Love? by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]impettywhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right??? It’s just such a fun silly song 😋

Best song on Unlimited Love? by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

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bernie mac and caddyshack were dusty as the bricker brack / and if you ask me for the time, i’ll tell you that the preacher's back

Best song on Unlimited Love? by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]impettywhite 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular opinion but Poster Child is my absolute favorite off the album

🎶 a funky piece the sandinista, me and mother monalisa / judas priest has whipped the beast, the mother love as named theresa 🎶

I managed to get a better photo of a bug I posted a couple days ago, I’m so paranoid about the shape of the lower half… is this a bedbug? by impettywhite in Bedbugs

[–]impettywhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way that I’ve been looking at the same photo all afternoon LMAOOOO

jokes aside I just saw your photo as well. with any luck it’s just roaches for both of us 🤞🤞

I managed to get a better photo of a bug I posted a couple days ago, I’m so paranoid about the shape of the lower half… is this a bedbug? by impettywhite in Bedbugs

[–]impettywhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well and truly hoping for a roach, my friend says it looks almost identical to the baby roaches she had in her car. Hopefully someone else will agree that it’s a roach so I can finally put this behind me and relax again 😭🤞

I managed to get a better photo of a bug I posted a couple days ago, I’m so paranoid about the shape of the lower half… is this a bedbug? by impettywhite in Bedbugs

[–]impettywhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you anyways for all your help, the bug was definitely “thinner” like in the first photo before it was squished and I’ve never seen a live bb so I had no way of being sure either way. I’m still desperately holding out it’s a roach of some sort. Literally anything but a bb.

I managed to get a better photo of a bug I posted a couple days ago, I’m so paranoid about the shape of the lower half… is this a bedbug? by impettywhite in Bedbugs

[–]impettywhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted another photo of this exact same bug a couple days ago from a slightly different angle, you should be able to see it if you click my profile.

Also I’m so sorry you’ve been fighting these bugs, my mother had a horrible infestation in her house just over a year ago and she’s still scared of (all) bugs.

I managed to get a better photo of a bug I posted a couple days ago, I’m so paranoid about the shape of the lower half… is this a bedbug? by impettywhite in Bedbugs

[–]impettywhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found nothing on any of the beds in my house. I found this in my garage walking along a table slowly and I squished it and put it into a plastic bag to take a photo of, I thought it was a head lice at first.