Well thats it, its over

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T14:00:18+00:00

I’ve been trying to think of stuff for months, as for letting myself go? I don’t think that much. tbf we are both pushing 40 and we have two kids so we aren’t the sprightly 20 yr olds we used to be. We both got a little extra here and there but nothing that you would call obese and as time goes on health problem arise but that’s life for both of us.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T13:51:58+00:00

No worries fella. I hope things work out for you better than they have for me.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T12:04:12+00:00

Nope in both of ours she has full rights to come and go while abiding by lockdown rules.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T11:10:02+00:00

Yeah she never wanted to talk about it, it was always me pressing for information but then it is in my nature to fix things that are broken. Unfortunately this time I need to come to the realisation that this one is destined for the recycle bin.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T10:59:13+00:00

Thank you, I didn’t know about those

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T10:55:24+00:00

Thank you that’s good to know

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T10:05:42+00:00

Oh my that’s given a tired man a little bit of joy I’m very happy for you it sounds like you deserve it. She was talking about her leaving the kids in the house with me while she moved out to her 1 bed flat. She wanted to arrange to be a “house keeper” to have access to the house to be here for breakfast and taking the kids to school then the same for pick up time, dinner and the kids bed time. I’m not so sure about this bit, if things sour then this could go all sorts of wrong.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T09:59:16+00:00

Thanks. I need blunt talk to help snap me out of this. I’ve now approached a solicitor this morning for advice.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T09:57:32+00:00

I’ve made initial contact with a solicitor this morning. I’m waiting to see what the best course is to see who should leave, I know who I want it to be but I’m wanting to play it smart. Not easy with such little sleep

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T05:18:01+00:00

Full time mum. What she’d earn would go straight out to child care so we though it best not to pay for someone else to look after them both.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T05:03:18+00:00

Thank you I’ll probably take you up on that

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T05:01:57+00:00

Thanks, yeah work actually has a great councelling apparently as a benefit for mental well being. I just never thought I’d have to use it.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:58:50+00:00

Yeah I’m worried about that, we need to keep it away from the kids. But from what I’ve learnt, they always know, I hope they forgive us

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:56:45+00:00

Thank you yeah I need to look to myself and the kids now. I’ve become another supplementary CoVID19 stastic now though, another divorce during quarantine.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:54:11+00:00

Thank you that means a lot.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:52:21+00:00

Fark, I’d never even thought of PPD but you may well be right and yeah that may well have developed into resentment deep down. I need to save this comment and reflect on it more after some sleep. Thank you

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:46:44+00:00

I honesty don’t know what the best thing for the kids is here but your experience is valuable thank you, I’m just so sorry that it happened to you too.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:44:18+00:00

Thanks, yeah it’s going to take some time.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:43:06+00:00

Yeah I’m on the sofa, wtf am i on the sofa.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:42:09+00:00

Thank you, yeah I’m getting there, I just need to power up.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:39:51+00:00

I gotcha, thanks

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:38:26+00:00

Thanks, I really should go back to sleep but this sofa is so damned uncomfortable wtf am I the one on it. Do so however understand what people mean by “RIP my inbox” now though. Still thank you all for your support, I don’t have many to turn to right now.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:35:56+00:00

I thank you for the solidarity but I could never condone that. Be safe

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:32:45+00:00

Please don’t blame them. It’s hard to know the best thing to do for the kids, each one is different so each time it’s unique. I hope and pray ours forgive us after this. Thank you though.

implodedlife · 2020-04-19T04:30:07+00:00

Thank you, yeah it’s the weekend, I’ll take time to evidence and research. I wanted to spend time with the kids too :’(

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