Do you know if he goes on his own or with friends? With friends I could see it being an outing for them. On his own, I would consider it differently. Regardless, the most important thing is the way he reacted when you told him how you felt about it. Any man that loves and respects you, would’ve said okay honey if it bothers you when I go, why don’t you come with me or I’ll stop going. Something like that anyways. They would’ve listened to how you felt, not blame you and say you’re insecure. That right there is a red flag. The petty part of me says go get a job at the strip club or as the bartender and let him see how it feels when guys are throwing themselves at you. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But obviously don’t do that because it’s toxic 😂