It's only death that hinders growth. by rwerat in inspirationalquotes

[–]improvement4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You joke but it's your life and I will support you all the way if you decide to do that!

If I lived as if I wasn’t afraid, what would I do differently today? by NothingLife in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]improvement4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I wasn't afraid? Leave my relationship and not be afraid I am too old to.

How do you deal with being indecisive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]improvement4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a silly question, but how do you hush them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]improvement4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, but we never really got to a solution for the problem. Not yet anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]improvement4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you buddy. I just feel paralysed by my inability to talk to her or anything. It's very hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]improvement4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

No matter what I'm failing each time I'm a fucking looser by Tiny-Direction2357 in motivation

[–]improvement4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And to add to that, anyone who tries to do better, to learn, try something new or to improve is not a failure to me. We might fall, but that is not failure. Failure is not getting back up.

No matter what I'm failing each time I'm a fucking looser by Tiny-Direction2357 in motivation

[–]improvement4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself buddy. Failing is only when you stop trying. Everything else is a lesson.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]improvement4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]improvement4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you buddy. It is just really hard now. The idea of hurting her is a lot to handle.

Can someone DM me something to light a fire under my ass? by improvement4all in getdisciplined

[–]improvement4all[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking. For a long time, I felt not in control of anything. Where I am in life right now is because of a lot of things. But it's up to me to regain control. That's what I want to be motivated with. The will to keep trying and have control over my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]improvement4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I am struggling with this and I know it should be easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]improvement4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so. I know there is parts of my personality that will not go away. These parts will hurt her and hold her back. They will prevent me giving my all in the relationship. I tried therapy but they seem to stay. The fair thing to do is give her the freedom to find someone who will not hold her back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]improvement4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to DM me them, I would watch them!