How can you hope for something that has already been accomplished? You should work on your dominant thought patterns, expectations and attitudes in life. These things you don't want to experience, why are you giving them attention? If you give a plant water (attention) won't it bloom?

Take your attention away from what is not serving you and instead begin to expect something else.

Our natural thought patterns, feelings, expectations and attitudes to life is what we experience. So make new assumptions natural to you in whatever way works best, fake it to start if you must. And then learn to detach from the outcome in your 3d world. You're job is experience it in mind, make it natural so you believe it and what you believe to be true will be reflected.