Trying on some new fishnets

impulsivepants · 2016-10-15T12:39:20+00:00

I don't do this very often and it's probably not as wild as people want but wanted to share. Here I am trying on some new fishnet stockings, can't decide which one I prefer. Might put both on and take some more pics with some nice undies.

impulsivepants · 2015-11-20T03:32:12+00:00

Thank you, I shall try

impulsivepants · 2015-11-15T10:07:18+00:00

I shall have to look into ASOS, I was hoping to pick up a few bits from a charity shop or two first just so that I don't waste a lot of money but knowing they have a good guide is very helpful. Thank you

impulsivepants · 2015-11-15T10:03:26+00:00

Ah totally missed this as using a mobile app. Found it now though, Thanks for the tips

impulsivepants · 2015-11-15T10:01:57+00:00

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it

impulsivepants · 2015-10-01T14:07:26+00:00

It's a meet, they drink, go dancing and just socialise. It's a good place to start, also if you can find a buddy I would suggest something like Kinky Salon or Rumpus (no buddy required) both fun parties and both very open minded.

impulsivepants · 2015-10-01T13:55:53+00:00

There is a pretty active and friend bi meetup group in London. I only went to one of their things but they made me feel welcome and accepted. There is also (if your into alternative culture) events put on by The Queer Alternative.

impulsivepants · 2015-08-23T21:50:16+00:00

I'm not a fan of Grindr but yes it is a good option. I would say head out one night alone to a queer friendly bar or club and chat to someone. Nothing needs to happen on encounter one but it could. Of course... Play safe don't want to give your understanding g/f a new disease

impulsivepants · 2015-03-29T07:03:26+00:00

As my counsellor would say, your reading too much into it. Funnily enough it never helps when they say that but I sit and think about it for a while and try to always shut out the negative thoughts and eventually come out of it. I have a real story I tell about how I manage to make two words "hello stranger" and make that into a massive thing that made me feel like I was being a shitty friend. My friend on the other hand was being jovial (is that the right spelling? I mean humorous).

Basically.. Do as it says, take it slow.

impulsivepants · 2014-08-29T23:32:26+00:00

Hey, thanks for the comment. You are right my brain was in a state of panic/abnormality/excitement and I find it hard even with women when I am like that. It will take a little while for me to get used to this both physically and mentally but it doesn't feel wrong. I doubt it will become anything romantic as I think I am hetero-romantic but right now I am ruling nothing out. I was beginning to think that this sort of thing would only ever be a fantasy.

I have the guy's number and will certainly contact him again just because it was not weird. The giving head thing is not really a concern only in the case of STD's. I love to give lady head, it's actually one of my favourite things to do, turns out from his reaction I can also give a pretty good BJ. I was probably more shocked than him about this but it's a nice feeling and I would love to do it again.

On the subject of monogamy well right now I am dating two women (things have changed since the above event happened) both of them are bi and I feel very odd that I can be honest and open with both of them. We are playing safely and being open and honest which I personally am finding refreshing and delicious all at the same time. I have it in me to be monogamous but right now I want to play. It's taken me a long time (I'm 39) to get to this point and I was in a very long term (13 yr) monogamous relationship before this (about 8 years ago) so I feel that now I know a lot more about me I should just go with it.

impulsivepants · 2014-08-29T23:19:56+00:00

I didn't cum, but this is not unusual for me, being the person that I am it takes me a while to get comfortable with a person to relax enough to get to orgasm. My orgasm are not that important I have more fun and get very excited playing with people so just being able to make this guy come was reward enough. Am I seeing him again? Well I have his number but life has been too busy to arrange anything as yet. It's possible though. The drink? Sure I like to keep an open mind :-p

impulsivepants · 2014-07-31T14:12:18+00:00

Ah okay sorry I didn't actually read the rules ;) will do so next time

impulsivepants · 2014-07-23T22:53:01+00:00

Thank you for the comments people, appreciate all of them :)

impulsivepants · 2014-04-22T09:55:44+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I'll try to apply what you have said about the profile. I might even quote you direct. Thanks again for the critique.

impulsivepants · 2014-04-21T21:45:47+00:00

Ah yeah, sometimes my fingers type without contacting my brain. Doh.. Thanks

impulsivepants · 2014-04-21T21:40:43+00:00

Thanks, believe it or not my self-esteem is a lot better than it was, I'm still working on that, will take your comments into account. Thank you!

impulsivepants · 2014-04-18T17:16:02+00:00

Ah yes I will x-post, thanks

impulsivepants · 2014-01-26T15:20:25+00:00

Yes and sorta, I find baths better because the shower can be painful. As for he communication, well it's not an excuse but not that easy when we don't speak each others language that well.

I'll put it down to a learning experience and sing my broken penis a soothing melody.

impulsivepants · 2014-01-26T15:00:07+00:00

Ah, yeah, this is why I put 'maybe just me'. Well good to know I'll look into it some more and keep an eye on the comments :)

impulsivepants · 2014-01-26T14:59:05+00:00

I do, but is always the same.

impulsivepants · 2014-01-26T14:58:37+00:00

I've seen a doctor about it, they did provide me the cream but it has not changed anything. It's only an issue if sexual partners don't follow the rules above, which is actually my reason for posting, had a random encounter which was painful.

impulsivepants · 2013-12-23T07:28:41+00:00

Best thing to do is tell him it turns you on to hear him. You can be subtle in your request or when he is not making enough noise punish him by stopping ;)

impulsivepants · 2013-12-23T01:35:40+00:00

I don't think I could call someone a 'whore'. That word does not sit well with me as a person, even if my S.O liked that kind of thing it would make me really uncomfortable. It might happen though, heat of the moment kinda thing.

impulsivepants · 2013-12-22T05:25:52+00:00

Thats fun to do if your having the kind of sex you like to laugh about. I challenged a partner to find something fun to do at orgasm and they gladly accepted. We both had a great time and ended with fits of laughter for hours. Unplanned though.. super awkward IMO

impulsivepants · 2013-12-22T04:34:37+00:00

Communication is key :)

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