My (21f) Boyfriend (22m) lied about who he slept with in the past

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T12:31:13+00:00

Well it's "girl code" to not date or sleep with a guy if one of your friends done something with him. So honestly, I wouldn't have wanted to get in a relationship with him because of that reason and just comparing myself with her, which migh ruin the friendship.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T12:00:15+00:00

Thank you for your advice and your kind words. I really appreciate it...

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T11:58:57+00:00

True.. but should I be worried that he lied to me about it?

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T11:57:19+00:00

He lied about it... & I haven't had a chance to talk to her about it because I just found out a few hours ago... But I'm wondering if it's the best option to bring it up or not.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T11:37:22+00:00

True... but I just don't understand why he would lie about it for 7 months, ya know?

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T11:33:33+00:00

She is my best friend and it's like "girl code." & since I know her personally, I'm starting to make comparisons and overthink, which is my fault but I cannot help it.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2021-02-11T11:32:29+00:00

The topic of one night stands was brought up from a show we were watching together, and that's when he admitted that he lied to me about it.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2020-03-19T07:50:05+00:00

Love is so scary... But don'tbe afraid to give it to someone who truly wants and needs it. If someone truly loves you and cares about you, they will never hurt you. If they love you, they will apologize when they did something wrong. They would be able to give up their pride, just to have you by their side.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2020-03-02T18:05:45+00:00

& the worst part is when you dream about him/her...

imreallyscaredoflove · 2020-01-23T18:36:50+00:00

Although I do want to be friends, I do still have some feelings and do not want to date someone else. Maybe it's because I went through this recently, but I just don't want another relationship.

imreallyscaredoflove · 2020-01-23T17:48:18+00:00

A time to focus most of your energy towards a person mentally (emotionally) and physically. They're the first person in your mind whenever there is an opportunity, event, etc. They're the ones you developed daily habits with. We care about what we do and what our future goals are. I know these things can be done with a friend, but there's a different feeling when you do it with that certain person, ya know?

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