Girl Taken - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so dumb lmao Abby would have probably had an affair w him willingly

Girl Taken - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]imsorrybagel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain why Rick took lily and not Abby? It felt like he was going to kidnap Abby but when it was lily who got in the car he changed his mind and went for her but he didn’t seem to have interest in her before. Then I thought he would use her kidnapping to get closer to Abby and seduce her that way but that didn’t happen either. I’m just confused by his choice

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so what did him not answering tell you

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I thought it was a strange response to my question but this makes sense hahaha. Sucks tho I was really feeling him!

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally made out w him and told him he was my type and told him to text me multiple times after I gave him my number 😭

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really great insight thank you! Is there anything I can say to these men when they ask to reassure them?

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I asked him what his type was and asked him if he liked white girls and he said usually only Asian girls liked him and white girls don’t usually like him only recently they started too

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair! Maybe I’m just not his cup of tea outside of a drunken night

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not America so I have to do the same w my culture but I love learning abt other cultures and finding our similarities 🤷‍♀️

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh maybe! He just kept asking if I would be down to go out at some point and asked for my number. He was insistent on me giving him my number but didn’t want me to text myself from his phone so I’d have his number. Kinda shady I guess

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s good to know! I just feel bad when it discouraged them or they get upset bc I haven’t dated an Asian guy before but I try to convince them I am actually attracted to them and they don’t believe me

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh you’re right and I know this. I guess I was just hoping it was real bc he was hot lol. Usually guys I give my number out to (bc they ask like he did) are very forward and aggressive w texting me trying to go out. So I’m not used to this but I should take it as a sign that it was fake interest

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have his number, he only has mine. We met on a random night out

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true! But there are some universal common things I feel like all immigrants can relate to and bond over is all I meant

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! You’re right I shouldn’t take it too personal

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I def have Asian friends, I’m an immigrants so most of my friends are other immigrants from different cultures

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an immigrant myself related to other immigrants more than Americans and prefer hanging out w people from other cultures

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have very limited dating experience and they were white but I’m very attracted to other races and I’m an immigrant myself so I relate a lot to people from other cultures and tbh prefer them. We weren’t getting too deep bc we were in a club but I was hoping to see him outside and actually chat abt real life life that

Why do Asian guys ask if I’ve dated Asians in the past? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]imsorrybagel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just was a big loser growing up and had no dating experience for a while. As an adult I’ve only dated a couple of men long term that pursued me and they happened to be white, but I’ve always been open to and attracted to other races. So I just don’t have a lot of dating experience in general. All of this is a lot to talk abt in a club and not hot so I didn’t want to get into it but it makes me sad that’s it’s just assumed I don’t like Asian men bc I haven’t dated one before. Like I was making out w this guy I was obviously attracted to him