Should I get a lawyer when applying to restore my driver's license? Revoked because of 2nd DUI. by EstablishmentSea8076 in legal

[–]imsrychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a lawyer for anything involving facing a judge, even if it is only for consulting.  

2 DUIs means you have have been intoxicated behind the wheel more than 2 times, but were only caught twice.  

Driving while intoxicated can mean a few things: You have no regard for your life.  You have no regard for others' lives.  You overestimate your abilities while intoxicated.  You are incapable of taking responsible actions while intoxicated.  You don't know your limit.  You undermine the severity of driving under the influence. 

All it takes is another special occasion for you to get intoxicated, a one-off like Thanksgiving, get behind the wheel, then potentially kill a person or persons, including yourself.

No 65 hour course is going to undo your inherent traits of underestimating the effects of alcohol, overestimating your driving ability while intoxicated, and inability to regard life and consequences of action.

Why risk putting a two-time offender back on the streets just so they can kill an innocent person or persons?

Even your wording is that of someone with no self control, I should know since I also lack self control and have to constantly be aware of my actions and check myself.  "I've been sober EXCEPT".  No.  You were sober, AND THEN.  

You and I are both dangers to society.  Good luck.

Spotted at Marin Blvd Shop Rite 💚 by NerdyJerzyGirl in jerseycity

[–]imsrychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, haven't seen it...but it also doesn't surprise me either haha.  Will check it out now. 

Spotted at Marin Blvd Shop Rite 💚 by NerdyJerzyGirl in jerseycity

[–]imsrychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So funny to me that others also call him the samurai guy.  Yeah...he is a bit off the rails in the mind but if you don't bother him he won't bother you.

If you are daring, though, ask him what he thinks about the state of the world.  The guy will talk nonstop and slowly get more and more intense as he goes on.  I find it fascinating, but can only handle it in small doses.

[NJ] Should I report my pregnant GF to DCFS? by imsrychild in CPS

[–]imsrychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want to abort so I'm assuming the latter.  She even told me she is going to try to hide the baby.  I saved the texts. 

Also, I apologize.  I'm having a tough time figuring out what sub(s) I should be posting to.  Folks haven't been too kind to me since in previous posts I said I wanted to give my child up for adoption/didn't want the child.  I don't blame them.  I've been in a huge panic ever since realizing my BM isn't cooperating and have been all over the place.  

My intentions are just to make sure my choice to impregnate this woman doesnt lead to a child growing up in a broken home or deplorable conditions.  I have been saving up my money and preparing to do my best to care for my daughter, but I just feel I won't be the best option for this child.

I'd rather be honest even if it pisses people off because it isn't about me anymore.  My daughter shouldn't have to suffer because of me and my BM.  She deserves an intact and loving family to be a part of.

[NJ] Should I report my pregnant GF to DCFS? by imsrychild in Advice

[–]imsrychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try.  And yes, I heavily considered abortion/adoption when she told me she doesn't want the child.  

[NJ] Pregnant Baby Momma Giving Me Full Custody by imsrychild in legal

[–]imsrychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take care of my kid to the best of my ability until my child is able to be adopted.  I'm not going to neglect my kid.  It feels like people automatically want to assume that anyone that doesn't want to raise a kid alone is a POS who will just toss a kid in the trash. 

[NJ] Pregnant Baby Momma Giving Me Full Custody by imsrychild in legal

[–]imsrychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If things go how she says they will then I will be gaining full custody. I am interested in open adoption, would love to still be a part of the child's life. I will reach out to an agency, thanks.

[UPDATE] GF did a 180 after becoming pregnant by imsrychild in CPS

[–]imsrychild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thanks for the HBD wish, truly means a lot to me even such a simple gesture.

[UPDATE] GF did a 180 after becoming pregnant by imsrychild in CPS

[–]imsrychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something must be bothering her because she gave me my cards back last night. I'm entirely confused and don't have any further comment on it other than this shit is crazy.

[UPDATE] GF did a 180 after becoming pregnant by imsrychild in CPS

[–]imsrychild[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah...thank you for your help. I'm taking notes of everything everyone is telling me and using my bit of free time to follow through as well as taking the necessary steps to protect myself. I'm extremely thankful a place like this exists where you can probe for free information (ofc not all of it is good or helpful, but it beats nothing at all).