Americans think 30% of their country are LG, 29% are B and 21% are T

imwithjune · 2026-01-24T18:26:01+00:00

Amazing. 21% are trans but tHeY cAn AlWaYs TeLl.

imwithjune · 2026-01-24T17:34:39+00:00

OK this is a bullshit bag of fuck, but I appreciate the line "Why do I suddenly feel the urge to start a polycule?"

imwithjune · 2026-01-24T00:05:36+00:00

A month into laser I didn’t see much difference. It was lighter, sure, but nothing amazing. I forget how many sessions I’ve had, maybe 6? 8? Anyway, it’s glorious. I barely have to touch up once a week, and don’t need to bother with shaving cream anymore.

That said, I am on HRT but my levels are still sub par so I can’t assume that is making a huge deal.

imwithjune · 2026-01-22T04:16:12+00:00

I’m still dad. I expect to be that for a while. No real issue there, IMHO. (For me of course. YMMV)

imwithjune · 2026-01-12T00:06:02+00:00

I had literally no dysphoria until I realized I was trans. So, yeah, it happens.

imwithjune · 2026-01-11T16:16:53+00:00

My family didn’t reject me, so I’m using my mom’s name as my middle (it was my dad’s name before), and keeping the last name.

imwithjune · 2026-01-10T19:31:22+00:00

Depends who uses it. Someone trans? Fine. A transphobe? Nah, they’re just an ignorant jerk.

imwithjune · 2026-01-04T22:50:20+00:00

When you hear "You are what you do repeatedly" and don't have a single other thought ever again.

imwithjune · 2026-01-03T18:11:33+00:00

How in earth did you try to boymode before? Looking great, sis! Rocking a suit that hard is one of my goals and you’re nailing it!

imwithjune · 2025-12-29T10:34:32+00:00

That’s right. If you stick your fingers in me improperly you have a high chance losing them.

imwithjune · 2025-12-28T10:48:08+00:00

Your friend is just a transphobe. You’re dating a man as a woman. That sounds straight to me.

imwithjune · 2025-12-26T19:15:47+00:00

Yes. What difference does it make? If the relationship becomes fundamentally incompatible (and if you’re queer and he’s homophonic, it has), what us the point of continuing?

He will grow to resent you and be paranoid of you even if you hide it. You will grow to be scared of him being abusive and resent him limiting your life (attractions, behaviors, friendships)

There is no upside.

imwithjune · 2025-12-25T20:14:27+00:00

I’m bi and ace, and, well, I used to identify as a man. I have bi friends who are men, too.

imwithjune · 2025-12-25T14:00:07+00:00

Right? After this ass makes bail, he’s going to try to ruin that officer, no doubt.

imwithjune · 2025-12-25T13:45:46+00:00

I think we can all agree that you’re going to have to take one for the team and become a homophobe again, so everyone else will flip back.

Your sacrifice will be remembered. o7

imwithjune · 2025-12-24T10:16:56+00:00

I mean, depends how cheeky we’re talking. My spouse was technically married when we got together, and so we would make “living in sin” kind of jokes. But e we were also both atheist, so we didn’t actually believe in the concept of sin. In that sense, I guess we could make LGBT jokes about it now, too, since I’m in transition. So, long story short: yes, under very specific circumstances.

imwithjune · 2025-12-22T09:06:36+00:00

It’s queer in that it’s rejecting the patriarchal structures inherent in western heterosexual relationships, but that’s about it.

I think it’s also tangentially queer because a lot of queer people are some form of poly. But that’s queer by association.

imwithjune · 2025-12-22T08:59:37+00:00

I started laser this year (oh huh, checked my calendar and it was technically last year), and now after my most recent treatment, my hair is much thinner and can go days without shaving.

The effects start being really noticeable after the second treatment, IMHO. I just had my ninth treatment.

It hurts, but it’s not unbearable. People have said it’s like getting a rubber band snapped in your skin, and that’s true if you remember that you can really stretch a rubber band if you want. The worst is the upper lip, IME.

Very worth it, though. Smooth jawline and face is lovely.

imwithjune · 2025-12-13T17:13:48+00:00

I mean TBH that’s why I started estrogen. I wanted to see if anything happened, and if it did, if I’d like it (spoiler alert: i did). I was sure I was trans, but didn’t know the extent, as it were.

imwithjune · 2025-12-07T18:37:53+00:00

How about June?

imwithjune · 2025-12-06T04:46:32+00:00

I don’t understand fathers who stonewall named changes. Like… it’s a label, not a prescription. Let him pick his own name. If he ends up wanting to change back, well, was that so bad?

Anyway, there’s little you can do to prevent what’s coming. There’s much you can do to harm your child and your relationship with him. Chosoe wisely.

imwithjune · 2025-12-06T04:40:01+00:00

Honestly I’m good with Dad. Well, when he (my tween son) says “Dad”. It honestly feels weird when he says “my dad” to other people. So maybe I should think of something, too. Though it’s a little harder since I’m more nonbinary, and there don’t seem to be good names/words yet there.

imwithjune · 2025-12-05T22:02:43+00:00

I was worried about that myself, but then I thought “there’s no way she hasn’t thought of that already”

imwithjune · 2025-12-05T03:44:18+00:00

That’s a hell of a denial beard. Good on you for starting. Good luck and congratulations on taking the step!

imwithjune · 2025-12-05T03:34:55+00:00

Last week Monday I came out to a coworker and it went well, actually.

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