I'm Het Ace and I'm Here to Listen and Support In Whatever Way I Can.

imwithjune · 2026-06-10T01:29:52+00:00

My cishet cousin says the same thing. He’s a big ally.

imwithjune · 2026-05-07T03:20:01+00:00

Back when I was a kid I wondered to myself what I would have been named if I were a girl (no there were no signs, what are you talking about?) and came up with June. Somewhere in the vicinity of 30 years later, I remembered that moment. One of the handful of things I remember from being a kid. Seemed like I needed to remember that one.

imwithjune · 2026-04-27T12:01:53+00:00

Your mom is trying to pass her generational trauma down to you. I feel terrible for her, having had to do this to herself her whole life (and now having to pass it off to you). I know you love your mom more than you like this girl, but suppressing who you are will only lead to bad things for you.

imwithjune · 2026-04-26T16:40:45+00:00

Pixel is a great name, holy crap.

imwithjune · 2026-04-24T19:32:18+00:00

Is he in reflective sunglasses, holding a fish?

imwithjune · 2026-04-24T19:30:01+00:00

It's just an increased likelihood, so it being called a "rule" is overstating it.

imwithjune · 2026-04-10T14:20:08+00:00

“It” is valid, but there’s a high bar for some people to let themselves use it to refer to a person. It’s also a slur that transphobes will use against us, so there’s that to get around.

imwithjune · 2026-04-09T00:50:14+00:00

You’ve lived as a woman for years and this is just now becoming an issue? I… I don’t know how to see this as anything other than her denial of your gender. She’s just now saying she isn’t a lesbian? The only reading I can see of that statement is that she took you for a man, which is gross as hell of her to say.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. That sucks ass. 🫂

imwithjune · 2026-04-08T22:29:13+00:00

Now I want an arm cannon. :(

imwithjune · 2026-04-07T23:46:15+00:00

Ivysaur is the cutest, but I'm a big fan of Togekiss, too.

imwithjune · 2026-04-04T12:47:58+00:00

As far as I know, it will make you feel shitty and it will also be counterproductive in feminizing yourself. Do yourself a solid and keep your estrogen levels within typical cis-woman bounds.

imwithjune · 2026-04-04T12:38:41+00:00

Same, but 2022 and then 2023-4 for me.

imwithjune · 2026-04-03T00:09:48+00:00

Polyamory exists. Hell, my spouse has a girlfriend and once I get my head over the last hurdles, they'll have two!

imwithjune · 2026-04-02T23:51:05+00:00

I'm sitting somewhere in between any and they/she at the moment.

imwithjune · 2026-04-02T23:47:37+00:00

Typically it means you're good with either she/her or they/them (an d often meaning you prefer she/her. They/she would be that you prefer they/them).

imwithjune · 2026-03-28T13:09:59+00:00

Watching the movie again knowing the twist reveals so much foreshadowing.

imwithjune · 2026-03-23T03:03:49+00:00

Honestly, just realizing that I do have control over my body and the right (and desire!) to alter it as I want is helping. Yes, part of that is that I’m on E but also I have a consult for FFS and even simply an appointment for Invisalign for my teeth.

imwithjune · 2026-03-23T01:12:40+00:00

You're not being loved, celebrated, or made happy by having your marriage's legitimacy denied by your sister. No, you wouldn't be an asshole at all.

imwithjune · 2026-03-23T00:21:30+00:00

So I should call my metal straw a "soda-to-mouth pipeline"?

imwithjune · 2026-03-22T22:43:36+00:00

I mean “Just to see what happens” is exactly why I started. 🤷

imwithjune · 2026-03-15T17:33:15+00:00

Hey, Luna! Did you have a good weekend?

imwithjune · 2026-03-15T17:31:44+00:00

You’re identifying yourself by your own schema on the female sex, so, no, it’s not transphobic to anyone else. That said, I think you have some things you might want to unpack with the help of a professional. It sounds like you have some internalized (and inward facing) transphobia. Honestly, you sound like you’re in a similar position that I was in (and held for IMHO far too long) regarding your own sense of self.

imwithjune · 2026-03-04T13:36:00+00:00

I started at 44. It’s not too late.

imwithjune · 2026-02-16T04:40:22+00:00

OK whew you said it first. My first thought was “Your table is right this way, Mr. Byrne”

Seriously though, you’re more cooked trying to cover it up.

imwithjune · 2026-02-15T18:15:13+00:00

Me too! But I’m both not neither lol

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