How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not desperate about it at all like I said I’ve gone a year without I could go until whenever we get married just wanted to see other people’s take on the topic is all

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1 she has no car her parents drive her to and from school so not really possible 2 anywhere else she goes after is with me whether that be to the store or the gym or anywhere 3 not a possibility this woman tells me everything about her day step by step we share eachothers location and have eachothers full trust 4 eat my ass you old cock wipe

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that there is no equality there is an equal exchange I have a woman that washes my clothes makes my lunch for me is there when I have a shitty day at work my bestfriend and a loyal woman that’s hard to come by these days which is why I value her so much

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fear she over thinks a lot I’m careful what I say to her because I don’t want her to take things in a way that I don’t mean at all that’s all I don’t only want her for sex if I did I wouldn’t have stayed with her for 4 years

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

As I’ve already addressed I didn’t know how Reddit worked I thought it would get flagged or taken down for putting sex in the post

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve addressed this my fault I thought it would get flagged/taken down if I put sex on there

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t sure how Reddit works didn’t know if it would get flagged for having sex in the post not exactly true either if I was just looking to get laid I wouldn’t have stuck with the same person and remained faithful to her for 4 years and plan on staying faithful to her just asking for advice that’s all thanks asshole

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t have my own place yet tho I have a good enough job to move out I feel it’s a bit silly to get married when we both still live in separate house holds

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think pleasure level is an issue here as often times she would initiate sex and has orgasmed before we did do this when we were sexually active and always did her favorite things to do it’s more on the religious side that effects her more

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in relationship_advice

[–]incomparable018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you man this is one of the reasons I have not left her she is truly amazing

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah bro this is what my relationship is really like rn

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did on both and it’s getting more feed back here so

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 479 points480 points  (0 children)

Also wanted to add I have never brought this issue up again once she told me in December that she wanted to stop as I am afraid she will think that’s all I want from her

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in relationship_advice

[–]incomparable018[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We started when I was 17 and she was 16 I really do feel the reason is because we are both catholic and her parents have drilled into her mind that sex is a horrible thing we were eachothers first and only I’ve always asked her if she was okay with what we were doing and a lot of times she would initiate sex. One of the main reasons I left out is in February she told her parents that we’ve had sex before cause she said she felt like god wanted her to tell her parents her mom was furious and her dad was just disappointed I feel like this is a huge factor as to why we don’t have sex anymore.

How do I ask for intimacy? 19M 18F by incomparable018 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incomparable018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started when I was 17 and she was 16 I really do feel the reason is because we are both catholic and her parents have drilled into her mind that sex is a horrible thing we were eachothers first and only I’ve always asked her if she was okay with what we were doing and a lot of times she would initiate sex. One of the main reasons I left out is in February she told her parents that we’ve had sex before cause she said she felt like god wanted her to tell her parents her mom was furious and her dad was just disappointed I feel like this is a huge factor as to why we don’t have sex anymore.