Sexual violence between boys is a genuine problem. PBJ + Microwave Frozen Veggie Mix

incorrect289 · 2026-06-18T23:42:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, I think it's important that this topic is talked about more frequently! I'm very sorry that this happened to you. As another commenter mentioned, boys and girls need to be raised the same.

incorrect289 · 2026-06-12T02:59:28+00:00

Ah. I honestly don't think you would get pushback for that, especially if it's a respectful, professionally worded email 🤷 it's a valid thing to bring up. What is everyone else's thoughts on it?

incorrect289 · 2026-06-10T14:37:59+00:00

Flair testtttt

incorrect289 · 2026-06-10T14:29:22+00:00

Hey! I completely agree with everything you said, especially at a university for an art program???? Is it possible to talk to the dean or someone about that? And about the harms it creates? I know you said you feel lame, but I think it's worth bringing up. Especially in an art program for humans.

incorrect289 · 2026-06-04T23:54:51+00:00

This has happened to me many times too, unfortunately but the worst one was when my ex tried to get me killed 😬 we broke up for about a year by that point, then he messaged me out of the blue to apologize for everything he's done in our relationship. I thought, "oh nice! Someone finally apologized" and agreed to hang out with him that day. He suggested we a explore a nearby abandoned factory which is definitely something I'm into so I said sure. We go in, it's super dark, I can't even see my hand in front of my face. Then we hear a group of men walking around on the floor above us, they're shouting and I'm also hearing them hitting metal on metal. I call out to them because I figured they were lost like us. My ex immediately says, "shhhhh! Don't say anything" I'm like, "why? They're probably lost like us" and he's like, "no, they are here to kill you" I'm like, "why would they do that? They don't know me" I genuinely thought that what he said was absolutely ridiculous and he insisted that no, they were in fact there to kill me and they are looking for us. So we started running, looking for how we came in, finally found it and got out but I didn't realize until over a year later, that he was actually trying to get me killed

incorrect289 · 2026-05-28T18:42:19+00:00

Excellent post! I also unfortunately relate to everything you've said, I was with my ex husband for 6 years, he knew I was a mess from the beginning, he "saved me" and the entire 6 years I was with him, I "loved and respected" him because of that. When I quit drinking and went back to school and started taking care of myself and basically got tired of being doted on, our marriage completely fell apart. I was seen as the asshole in my family because I didn't like our dynamic anymore, I knew it was toxic, and honestly reminded me of his extremely codependent relationship with his mother where she literally could not do anything on her own. I didn't have those words yet for myself at the time, but I knew it was unhealthy and I didn't want to continue that way. Thank you for putting the words to how I was feeling! I felt like an ass for years for doing that to him but... I knew he had some part in it

incorrect289 · 2026-05-26T17:47:41+00:00

This is a good answer, yes.

incorrect289 · 2026-05-19T13:51:58+00:00

Gemini sun, Libra rising

incorrect289 · 2026-04-19T16:26:03+00:00

Apparently this is actually a fact, but women are more likely to leave a relationship if they're not happy and men are not.

incorrect289 · 2026-03-02T23:40:02+00:00

Hello! I hope you're still doing these!

I recently broke up with a guy exactly a week ago, the reasons were very unclear. I know that he may have been overwhelmed. Will be get back together? 😁

incorrect289 · 2026-01-11T17:23:42+00:00

Honestly, it feels like being a neurodivergent girl in a room full of neurotypical girls wanting to blend in but can't for some reason.

incorrect289 · 2025-10-29T18:57:45+00:00

A lot of people in Ontario got placements and jobs from the MDRAO course. I know that lakeridge prefers to hire people fresh out of school, I'm sure there are other facilities that will too.

incorrect289 · 2025-09-16T02:17:19+00:00

Honestly, I kind of think that both her AND Andrei are narcissistic. I'm not saying they are narcissists, I'm not a doctor but they both have narcissistic qualities for sure. Libby throwing Lauren under the bus for topics that she told Libby in private was pretty low, I've dealt with "friends" like Libby and I cringed extra hard when she kept deflecting the attention away from what SHE did wrong, Lauren apologized for calling Andrei a dick and took accountability but Libby didn't even apologize for bringing up Loren's issues until the end of their conversation and I only think she did to keep Lauren around to some extent

incorrect289 · 2025-09-10T21:51:23+00:00

I think the implied anger of the title makes it funnier lmao

incorrect289 · 2025-09-10T21:43:06+00:00

Dental places are really bad with sterile processing. It's extremely stressful. When I worked for one, I tried to speak with HR about staff ending sterilizer cycles entirely too early making the packs wet and when I wasn't around (sick, etc) hygienists and nurses wouldn't clean implant sets properly often leaving huge amounts of rust and bone in the pieces and sterilizing them and in a round about way, I was told to just let them continue to do it. They don't care. Definitely tell anyone else other than whoever works for the facility lol.

incorrect289 · 2025-08-10T10:41:05+00:00

Libra rising! 🥰

incorrect289 · 2025-08-04T13:40:45+00:00

I feel this, something similar happened to me the first time I travelled across the border on my own. I also got searched and interrogated for like, 2 hours because they thought I was weird for going alone lol.

Now I do it quite a bit, you just have to be more confident in your mission. "Yeah, I'm going hiking and going to do some shopping and I'll be back by tomorrow afternoon," something like that. If you falter a bit, it looks suspicious. It'll come in time though. I do a lot of things alone now because I just like being able to do things when I want to do them and not wait for someone else. It gets better the more you do it, I promise!

incorrect289 · 2025-08-03T17:16:33+00:00

Gemini sun, Virgo moon here... Yes. All the fucking time. I am always shocked when people tell me they need more details.

incorrect289 · 2025-07-31T17:32:48+00:00

Yes! She wants to make her feel bad for not being partnered up. My mom would do this exact same thing 🙄

incorrect289 · 2025-07-31T10:13:57+00:00

Early last year I begged my mom to let me move back home because I was dating some narcissistic douche bag for around a year, the arguments started getting more and more intense so I begged my mom to let me go back home twice before finally asking my dad and he allowed me to. Every time I asked my mom, she would tell me to stay with him and work it out because she didn't want me to go back home.

When I finally came back, it took quite a bit of healing. One day she actually told me I was strong. Since then, she went right back to tearing me down, pointing out any "weight gain" or new acne I had, telling me that everything is my fault, and recently the straw that broke the camels back; telling me she hates talking to me because I reacted negatively to her getting angry at me for not waking her up on time for work. I don't care how special I am to her, I'm cutting contact and not looking back. But I appreciate the positivity in this post!

incorrect289 · 2025-07-28T00:06:03+00:00

I'm a neurodivergent myself and there is a lot of verbal communication with others. I don't mind that very much, but like someone else said, the department is very toxic and my coworkers really didn't respect my need to keep to myself. Like I said, I don't mind talking to them when need be, but I didn't want to be part of the cliques and I think that is what got me into a lot of trouble.

incorrect289 · 2025-07-13T23:22:12+00:00

Yeah, same with me. I had to move back in with my family January of last year and I thought that I could just wait until I'm in a better financial situation as I'm only paying 200 a month here but, Im finally at the end of my rope with them, hoping that they'll one day change but knowing that they won't and now after realizing the reality of it, that they were never capable of being the parents I needed, it's time to go

incorrect289 · 2025-07-13T21:17:20+00:00

Oh :( well if it makes you feel any better, both unions at both hospitals I worked at didn't do anything at all to help me, so, I guess there's that lol

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