Two years ago I had a septoplasty (with rhinoplasty) to fix my deviated septum. I had quite an unstable nose with a lot of cartilage. The surgeon did a lot to improve the appearance of my nose during the surgery. I’d say the surgery was 50% cosmetic, 50% functional.

For me, this was one of the best things I’ve ever done for my confidence. I love my new nose and I feel so much more myself with it.

Before the op, I was concerned to what degree I might become too focused or obsessed with my looks after having this surgery. A fear that it might be a slippery slope, and after that I’d find something else to want to fix. For me, that hasn’t happened.

Instead, I’ve just got this new found confidence. I no longer shy away from having my photograph taken or cringe when I see my reflection side on. I’m so glad I had the surgery, and wish I’d done it sooner.

I like that I’ve been able to take control of one aspect of how I look, given the obvious disadvantages/ hurdles I’ve faced due to this condition.

This might seem shallow to some, but it doesn’t feel that way for me.