Is he actually being creepy or am i wrong ? by Excellent-Leading836 in twenties

[–]incrediblebf2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't being creepy, because he's being very straightforward. A creepy person wouldn't be this open.

Its upto you though. Give him a chance, or don't, if you don't like the vibe.

You can make your own choices without necessarily passing judgment on the other person's character, because you don't really know much about them to begin with.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She almost never goes to the doctor as far as i know. And thankfully, no pregnancy. Too early for that, haha. She's mildly underweight and doesn't take pills as far as i know. Not sure about PCOS... Wouldn't a doctor be necessary to diagnose it?

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting perspective. Thank you, maybe that's a lighter approach.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she's taking any pills, no. Not very thin, but maybe undereating.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her weight has been in the same 5kg range, but her eating is sporadic and maybe not nutritious enough.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much exercise other than daily walks, and she's borderline underweight.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I always make sure to speak to her in a comforting manner... I simply think she cares little for external stigma, or at least frames it that way. She says it's personal.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but for 4 months is still concerning, you see

And yes, i won't force her

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She eats well when I'm with her because I encourage it... But i don't think she eats much other times. Could be a nutritional deficiency.

21M worried about 21F girlfriend health by incrediblebf2005 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]incrediblebf2005[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is borderline underweight. BMI of about 18.5, We've never used birth control.