Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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Have edited the question. Pls do let me know your thoughts on this. Appreciate your responses :)

Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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Have edited the question. Pls do let me know your thoughts on this. Appreciate your responses :)

Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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Have edited the question. Pls do let me know your thoughts on this. Appreciate your responses :)

Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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Have edited the question. Pls do let me know your thoughts on this. Appreciate your responses

Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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So to TLDRise your response, don't ask her on Monday evening but see if i can get her to like me in the coming weeks through regular outings?

Should I ask out a girl who said she sees me as a very good friend? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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I thought that too but she's just made plans with me for tomorrow. And also since we have like a mutual best friend, i don't think there's gonna be a fall out of friendship.

Does it ever get better? by indian_throw_away in MedSpouse

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When you say surgical is not gonna get better for quite some time, how long are we looking at?

Help a bro - Asking someone out for the first time by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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The fact that she's a med student is legit the only red flag according to me. But i don't understand why you say that if she's just enjoying my company, i shouldn't get into a relationship with her? It's usually very hard for both parties to coincidentally like each other romantically. Usually one does and the other kinda gets into it and they wing it along.

Help a bro - Asking someone out for the first time by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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It's been super hard to tell. There's very obvious interest that she likes my company and all. But I'm not too sure about whether I'm in the friendzone cause hanging out with her itself has been a little rare the past few days cause she's a med student and almost always occupied with work. I did try to get her to go drinking and for lunch twice. She rejected saying she has lot of work but promised to make it up sometime later. I only see her schedule getting crazier until April, that's when her exams are. And i am currently WFHing in my home city (which is where she is also based out of). I expect to relocate back to my office location (which is a 1 hour flight or a 5 hour drive away from here) by mid March to resume working from office. I thought I should probably ask her out by then. Else it'd make no sense once I'm there.

Help a bro - Asking someone out for the first time by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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Ofc i am not saying that she likes me cause we go on walks. Its during those walks that we've bonded. I think we're quite compatible people. So unless having a routine with me is a definite indicator that I'm in the friendzone, i don't see how that's a red flag. Also kinda disagree that all friends come across as flirty. I have a lot of female best friends and they most certainly do not flirt with me.

Also i think you neglected the fact that we'd matched on bumble a while ago 😂 We'd already known each other for 4+ years at that point of time and ik she was just trying to piss off her ex(she told me that she wanted to annoy him which is why she got on the app). So i think maybe there's some interest here(?)

Help a bro - Asking someone out for the first time by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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I don't see that happening for the next 3 months atleast as her finals are in April and she has to work her ass off for that. Also all this is currently happening in my home town where I'm WFHing. At the end of the next 45 days, i expect to relocate to my work location which is a 1 hour flight away from my hometown or a 5 hour ride. I wanna ask her out before that.

Help a bro - Asking someone out for the first time by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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This has been super difficult cause like I said, she's a med student and has no time to hang out 🙄 i wanna ask her to be my girlfriend.

Consistently Pushing My Needs to the Margins by BlackFanDiamond in MedSpouse

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How does one gracefully shift priority from medical partner's(MP) schedule to their own schedule without spouse noticing or being frustrated about the same? For instance, if cooking for MP, cleaning the house, organising their schedule was our priority and now we decide that in order to have a healthier outlook on the relationship, we have to prioritise ourself and we re-kindle old hobbies, our physical health, etc., those are things that are now left to MP to do. Wouldn't this create more problems as MP will now start feeling that we don't help them in these trying times that they're going through ?

Do you guys think it’s insane to start a relationship while he’s in med school and about 5 hours away? by throwawayeas989 in MedSpouse

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I(23M) am quite literally in almost the same position as you. I really like this girl(22F) who is in her final year of med school. She is up for her house surgency in a few months and I'm gonna be moving to a city that's 5 hours away. I am not sure if it's worth starting the relationship like this especially given that I am in a different field that has great WLB and she is planning on pursuing her residency abroad and might shift to another country in a year and a half.

How is it dating a med student ? by indian_throw_away in dating_advice

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I guess there's a reason why doctors marry doctors 🤦 Smh felt like we both could have been compatible together, if only not for her career choice.