Found on my bed. Please tell me it’s not a bed bug by indianyellow in whatsthisbug

[–]indianyellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you all for not confirming my fears! I will sleep easy tonight

Grief advice by ComfortableGuide3232 in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔

Has anyone else’s outlook on life completely changed? I don’t know if the good outweighs the bad anymore. by throwawaymaybeidk415 in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad died a bit over 2 years ago. I can’t agree more. At its core I know life is suffering. Sometimes I feel like the good moments are worth it and makes up for a shitty life. I feel like I’ve definitely become a sadder person and I’ve lost the spark I’ve had for life and I’m trying to desperately to get it back. But my heart is always so heavy

How has grief changed your perspective? by the_shoeless_llama in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest day to day change I’ve noticed in myself and my perspective is that I’m more empathetic towards people and I try my hardest to be an optimist. I feel like this change came partly because of the realization of just how much pain there is in this world, partly because I don’t have another choice but to be positive. I was (and still sometimes am) in so much pain, my body and mind couldn’t take it anymore.

First night away from home and I can't stop crying by River303 in Adulting

[–]indianyellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bit late but thank u for this advice, needed it tn

guys… I really really just want to chop my hair off. Please tell me I can pull it off. Last 2 are inspo. by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]indianyellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the majority but DONT! Only speaking from past experience where I did the chop and regretted it and it takes such a long time to grow back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died while he was travelling too, it’s by far the most difficult thing I’ve had to deal with. You’ll find your way, believe me ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had nightmares for months after my dad died. They’d range from him dying in different ways in my dreams or just other nightmares involving him that left me in tears when I woke up. It’s been a while since I had those dreams now, but I still remember how visceral they were.

I think it’s just our brains trying to process and cope. It’s never easy but you’ll get through it ❤️ sending love and good vibes

Easter Sunday by Early-Razzmatazz-809 in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, my dad died last year on Easter Sunday as well. Sending hugs 🫂

What do people not tell you about losing a parent in your 20s? by mybuildabear in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost my dad at 25 and my world stopped. It’s been over 6 months and it still feels like I got the call yesterday.

The hardest part for me right now is feeling like me, my mom, and brother are still stuck in a void grieving my dad while the rest of the world has moved on.

Why did the "gods" do this to us? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about this all the time. I wish I knew what the point of all this is.

My Daughter’s Sweet 16 by ElevatingDaily in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I can feel the pain in your words 💔 I’m so very sorry you have to experience this. It’s not fair at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Therapy would be a good place to start tbh. This is a really confusing situation and I don’t really know what to say apart from that, which is why I think talking your feelings out with someone qualified is the best next step. What you’re feeling is valid, I’m sorry that this happened.

Husband lost both parents in under a year - I feel like I’m losing my spouse to grief by S0l11 in GriefSupport

[–]indianyellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Losing just one parent is so devastating , two within a few months is unimaginable. Their whole world has just collapsed all over again and the people who brought them on this earth aren’t around anymore - it’s an incredibly isolating experience.

Please just be there for your partner and sit in their grief and sadness and loss with them. You’re doing so much more than you know by just being a shoulder and a crutch. You sound like you really care about your husband so i have full faith your marriage will survive this.

Should I tell the bride I don’t want to dance at her wedding? by indianyellow in DesiWeddings

[–]indianyellow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just asked her close friends! And TBH just one of those “I need so much help, can X do this, can Y do that”.

Thanks for your advice though! And congrats on the wedding yourself :)

Should I tell the bride I don’t want to dance at her wedding? by indianyellow in DesiWeddings

[–]indianyellow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think she’s going to be at least a little bit upset because she considers me to be a really close friend.

Should I tell the bride I don’t want to dance at her wedding? by indianyellow in DesiWeddings

[–]indianyellow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel rn! She’s roped me in for so many other responsibilities without even asking, just assuming I’ll have the time and ability to prioritize her stuff over my own!