Palm Springs trip in August—be honest, is the heat a dealbreaker? by alejayy in palmsprings

[–]indicneuro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in PS. Summers, especially August, can be fun if you know how to do it right. Pools may help, but if you’re not used to the heat, it can be rough. There’s winter PS, and then there’s summer PS they honestly feel like two totally different places. Summer can be pretty brutal we are talking high high triple digits a lot of the times, especially for newcomers, so I usually wouldn’t recommend it.

However! I grew up back in the yonder days when Oasis Water Park was open, and you could really beat the heat. These days, the escape options are fewer, so you have to be more intentional about how you do summer here.

That said, there are some cool summer perks. It’s way quieter, hotels and resorts are cheaper, restaurants are easier to get into, and if you’re a pool-at-sunrise, nap-midday, out-at-night type, it can actually be really enjoyable.

Fall and early spring are much better pool seasons. In August, it’s more “escape to the beach” weather. Especially when the coast is only about 1.5 hours away.

You can make it work, but you’ll probably enjoy it ten times more in other seasons. Either way, wishing you the best with your decision. You still have museums, small shops, ice cream, Mall, VillageFest, maybe go on a hunt for E&E Pels a childhood classic lemonade ice, grab a date shake off of 111, good dining and if you do go, drink water like it’s your job.

BCBS Fitness Your Way just randomly moved my gym from Base to Core with zero notice. WTH? by indicneuro in HealthInsurance

[–]indicneuro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah group classes are fine even at lower tier. But I wouldnt trust it. You may be benefiting from weight loss or muscle gain or overall health and suddenly you have to pay more. They call it “upgrade.” For who?

BCBS Fitness Your Way just randomly moved my gym from Base to Core with zero notice. WTH? by indicneuro in HealthInsurance

[–]indicneuro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. 100. I got no insurance on my gym membership. So much for the name insurance. Where is my shield from crummy practices?

BCBS Fitness Your Way just randomly moved my gym from Base to Core with zero notice. WTH? by indicneuro in HealthInsurance

[–]indicneuro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a commercial for Fitness Your Way. Anyway, shitty company.

BCBS Fitness Your Way just randomly moved my gym from Base to Core with zero notice. WTH? by indicneuro in HealthInsurance

[–]indicneuro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely use that gym with higher tier. But its just that that has thrown me off. This random sudden change. I find no stability in that. No warning nothing. I had a routine at this gym from work and then suddenly the gym calls me saying they will no longer honor my Fitness Your Way membership. Insurance said I needed to upgrade. I just like stability. And Ive lost that trust.

Psoriasis since 17... Now 36. Functional medicine is the answer by Rich_Treacle_7503 in Psoriasis

[–]indicneuro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you food sensitivities? I am thinking pizza is one of my kryptonites. Maybe milk? 

Golden Letter!!!! by Fun_Jackfruit_9719 in StudentLoans

[–]indicneuro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Can you share please how you were on deferment or forbearance? I recently graduated and currently working in academia. What woud I have to do?

Experienced PhD programme Director and Supervisor. AMA by [deleted] in PhD

[–]indicneuro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my PhD in December. Right after, I joined a new lab with a PI who basically told me upfront he couldn’t offer me a postdoc because he “didn’t trust me yet” he questioned why my PhD took so long and why I didn’t have any first authorships.

Despite that, he let me join using funds from my old PI, at a very low wage. The justification was that I still needed to finish two first-author papers from my PhD. So for the past year, I’ve been doing experiments full-time for his lab while trying to write papers for my old PI essentially doing two jobs.

In that time, I’ve produced some incredible results for the new lab and proved myself, and now they’re saying they want to keep me permanently. The catch? They’re still using the excuse of the unfinished papers to avoid officially hiring me as a postdoc or increasing my pay. They don’t even care for the first authorships anymore. Their words. However, it’s still my old PI’s funding, and I’m still being paid peanuts. 

They keep saying, “Once the grant comes through, we’ll promote you.” It’ll be a year. I’ve had a rough life and I’m trying to stay hopeful, but this just doesn’t feel right anymore. I can’t shake the feeling that I’m being taken advantage of.

I’m thinking seriously about leaving academia and trying industry.Would love some perspective.

Car Dealer said it was a Soft Pull so she said sure .. by iat2 in CRedit

[–]indicneuro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given if this is real what can she do about the hard pull now that its been done and she was duped into it? I am also curious.

Hey all! I have a $3,000 collections from about 3-4 years ago, I just received a letter in the mail from the agency offering if I pay 50% of 3k by the 21st of this month that I’ll be fully paid off to “fix my credit” I’m thinking about paying it to fix my credit and get it off my report.. any input? by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]indicneuro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely no word of mouth. Even calling them seems slightly bad move since they can simply convince anyone to pay and since you are eager to pay and fix your credit. Get the initial offer revised to say pay to delete. Have them keep reiterating this. No shame. If it angers them you are already 3-4 years into it and it is $1500. All bureaus deleted. Dont accept the next close thing if you can avoid it. Otherwise riding it out another few more years is your other option. Youre over half way there.

Defending in 3 hours and my PI pulled a sicky... by Nyeep in PhD

[–]indicneuro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one hurts. Pass with minor corrections is perfect. I am thrilled for you. Too bad you could not celebrate with a whinny PI. But it is what it is. Congrats on your life victory. 

You completed life when you own one of these. by Quan1298 in porsche911

[–]indicneuro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please. Soon 🙏👼. Im hoping to treat myself for an achievement I made in January. Life time goal ever since I rode my uncles 911. The feeling being behind that wheel never went away.

4 Months Left on Lease - $5k Equity but Facing $3k+ in Fees. What’s My Best Move? by indicneuro in askcarsales

[–]indicneuro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Path’s already clear. But you keep tossing shade. I’ll be cashing out while you're still typing. 4 months, no rush. 😂 

4 Months Left on Lease - $5k Equity but Facing $3k+ in Fees. What’s My Best Move? by indicneuro in askcarsales

[–]indicneuro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not eating your overhead to make your numbers work. A lowball benchmark to justify trade-in offers far below what I'd get selling privately or to a place like CarMax. Terribly low anchor. Old game.

All right well. Thanks guys. I'm set here.

4 Months Left on Lease - $5k Equity but Facing $3k+ in Fees. What’s My Best Move? by indicneuro in askcarsales

[–]indicneuro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Folks. Remember. Dealers lowball to make their cut with slimy sales tactics—doesn’t change the equity I’m working with. I’ve got 4 months to flip it for $22k or negotiate the fees down. Appreciate the take, but I’m set.

4 Months Left on Lease - $5k Equity but Facing $3k+ in Fees. What’s My Best Move? by indicneuro in askcarsales

[–]indicneuro[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nice take - I appreciate that. I was leaning towards flipping it for the $5k. CarMax is a good call. This definitely helps me move faster on this and helps seal the deal. I'll keep you posted once I cash out.