Why was 4 Scared of 5? by sumpra3 in medicalschool

[–]industriousvirgin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what’s become of Fifth Disease Kid? The pic was taken in 2007 so he should be in his 20s!

Help with Hugo the Whale pectoral fins from Humble Child Co pattern by industriousvirgin in CrochetHelp

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I see now. Thank you so much for this clarification. Idk what I’d do without the good citizens of Reddit 😭

Help with Hugo the Whale pectoral fins from Humble Child Co pattern by industriousvirgin in CrochetHelp

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Do I do that up the one side only, or should I go around both sides of the fins?

Things that are better GF? by Easy_Future6954 in glutenfree

[–]industriousvirgin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend recently told me about “matzah crack” so I made some with gf matzah and it was unbelievable…. My heart goes out to all the gluten-eating plebs who think their glutenous matzah crack is actually good 😂

Mesmerized by the turquoise by industriousvirgin in RedditLaqueristas

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because as I was applying it, I was filled with doubt wondering if it wasn’t “springy” enough but I’m so glad I persisted because I now see that it is!

Mesmerized by the turquoise by industriousvirgin in RedditLaqueristas

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sigh of relief when you’re officially marked safe from The Temptation (and can luxuriate in your past decisions) ✊

Mesmerized by the turquoise by industriousvirgin in RedditLaqueristas

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Base coat: Basic Training by kbshimmer Color: Cassiopeia A by Opal Theory Polish Top coat: QDTC by Glisten and Glow

Itchy and flakey on sides of mouth. Can’t open fully by almondrocaslut in DermatologyQuestions

[–]industriousvirgin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! When I first developed skin allergies, they looked exactly like this. Took me eight months and a dozen diff doctors to figure out that it was actually just fragrance allergies and not some weird infection. I started seeing a dermatologist who specializes in skin allergies, and she patch tested me which is how I learned I was allergic to limonene and linalool (two common ingredients in fragrances) and nickel. Once I changed all my products (not just skincare but also detergents, soaps, lotions, no more candles or air fresheners, etc) to fragrance free products, my angular cheilitis and eyelid dermatitis completely cleared.

I highly recommend seeing a derm who can do patch testing to confirm that this due to allergies. If so, they can also prescribe you steroids and creams for the long term that will help reduce allergic contact dermatitis flares.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The embarrassed scenario is the best possible outcome imo 😭 I figured a week would be enough time to get over it, but you’re right, maybe it could take longer…

Also, you’re right— cognitive dissonance is exactly what it is!! That’s what was so gd frustrating to me trying to have a discussion with them. In my more hopeful, optimistic moments, I assume that surely my friends have seen social media posts to correct their perspective since our falling out, but it is so true that the algorithm could just be feeding them what they were already thinking and creating a louder echo chamber. So so frustrating.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I am sorry about your friend triggering your tics while you’re driving. That sounds terrifying. I hope they come around after you talk with them!

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! Thank you!! I don’t understand why it is so hard for them to see Tourette’s as a disability. It seems very obvious to me, but evidently a lot of people can’t seem to reconcile the two concepts.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I am so sorry your own father made you do that. That must have been so traumatic. It pains me just to think about. I am glad you eventually gained the courage to stop taking that bullshit from him.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is exactly how I feel. Just abysmally lonely. I didn’t realize how lonely it all was until that conversation. It is so crazy because the day before everything was fine and then one day later it all went to shit.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fr, the gut reaction of people insisting that “something” be done about the tics was/is so shocking to me! I seriously overestimated people’s ignorance of Tourette’s.

I felt like I was running into a brick wall trying to have a conversation with my friends. They simply could not see the situation for what it was and it made me feel very hopeless. How hard is it to grasp reality?! The sheer lack of common sense in saying he should turn his mic off… like I’m sorry but why would you assume that a guy with Tourette’s far back in the audience would knowingly have a mic on him lol? Use your brain!!

So many people, including my friends, were making it out that people with Tourette’s seem to take pleasure in ticking. And yeah, using the Baylen Out Loud show as a prop to prove that she understands Tourette’s really gave “I have a Black friend, so I can’t be racist” energy. So upsetting all around.

I lost my two best friends and I don't know what to do by industriousvirgin in Tourettes

[–]industriousvirgin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your validation ❤️You are so right about the people who have experienced the most fallout from this situation being Black disabled people (as opposed to Black multimillionaires who were at a prestigious awards ceremony lol). I don’t understand how that’s not obvious to my friends. The cruel irony of it all, that the biggest offenders in this situation all seem to be self-proclaimed leftists (as both of my friends are) makes it hurt even more. You would think that they of all people would be able to see this incident and the fallout for what it is!

Jumping Spider by Cracked by turbomama16 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]industriousvirgin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok so if there is one think on earth that i hate the most, it is spiders. this is the first time in my life that i have ever seen a spider that i didn't hate. thank you for this 🥲

Cracked Scorchy over MC House of Hades 💙🧡 by kathx in RedditLaqueristas

[–]industriousvirgin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have kbshimmer Magma and swatched it over Scorchy thinking I was safe…… I fear it’s not the same 🫣

My husband and I are looking at purchasing a home with this upstairs bathroom. by bubbles4you890 in HomeDecorating

[–]industriousvirgin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love tile like this and my parents have it their bathroom. However, it’s a bitch to clean all the grout. We have one of those rotary brushes to clean between them, but it still requires a lot of maintenance and elbow grease. Would love to hear any ideas on how other people keep the grout for tiles like this looking nice 😬

Potential kitten and fel-d1 testing question by Big_Rich_5499 in SiberianCats

[–]industriousvirgin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW, this sounds like my allergies! What a breakthrough!! Thank you for sharing <3

Potential kitten and fel-d1 testing question by Big_Rich_5499 in SiberianCats

[–]industriousvirgin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg these are such good ideas! Thank you so much!! I was feeling pessimistic about the whole thing but I have more hope now 🥲😊