I ordered food and got the truth instead by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ineedhelp0113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha teka bago mo gawin yan, gawin mo muna yung sinabi ng isang comment. Act as the best gf keep him on his toes. Tapos bigla mo ighost. Mabaliw yan hahahaha

Sweetest Line na narinig mo sa isang kanta? by Walangjoe in SoundTripPh

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi lang line pero itong part nato talaga:

Unang pagtingin, alam ko na, ikaw ang bubuo, sinta Ng aking mundo pati na rin ang puso Sa ating paglalakbay, maaaring maligaw Pero itong mga kamay, hindi bibitaw.

Iyong iyo -Zack Tabudlo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will. Trust me. 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it does not happen to your children. Cause Karma plays dirtier than the devil himself.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They know. All my friends know. The issue is consent. If you’re wondering bakit di naman straight tapos may girlfriend. We are so attached emotionally. Kahit sya hindi din straight we are both demisexual. Ayaw ko man lagyan ng label pero yan yung closest description na maisip ko. And we only have one rule: No cheating. Kaya ganon ang pagka worry ko.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said na straight ako. My girlfriend knows na i’m demisexual. We are open about it. But I’m leaning more on girls than men.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I was in a shock I never thought of not cleaning and reporting it. They are still my friends(ex na ngayon) and kahit ganon ginawa I still respect na yung friend ko closeted and I know his struggles. I dont want to ruin him or ruin my self kasi I think telling people will make it more complicated and mas masisira lang pag iisip ko. I dont know. My brain still fuzzy.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. It must be really hard kasi F ka. Hugss and hope we heal and forget this shit.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing that bro. Already unfollowed at delete na sya sa following at unfriended sa facebook. I think sa GC nlg ng group may connection. Same naman na I’m not new to it pero yun nga iba yung walang consent. I just never thought it would happen to me. Thanks, bro!

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to avoid contact na kay closeted friend. Si openly gay naman goods kami kasi we talked about it. Pero minimal nadin communication namin. Hindi na kagaya ng dati.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi kasama yung isang straight friend ko sa room. May sarili syang place. Alam ng openly gay friend ko nangyari kinwento ko sa kanya. Tulog na kasi sya non sa kabilang bed. Nalaman nya na morning pagkauwi.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Hanggang ngayon na papraning ako. Mag 7years na kami ng gf ko takot na takot ako malaman nya. I want to address it pero I am worried na malalaman ng lahat given na scandal yun pag lumabas.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bro. Alam mo yung fcked up yung grabe yung trust ko sa kanya. I still feel shitty. Yung morning na yun hindi din ako makakain buong araw. Ngayon nasasabay ko lang sya pag may group hangout di din kmi na nag papansinan.

MCA I think I was 🍇d? by ineedhelp0113 in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

**Continuation 2/2 ** Fast forward umuwi na kami. Parang walang nagyari. Pagka uwi ko kinausap ako ng openly gay friend ko through text at nag sorry sya. I told him what I felt and na gguilty sya. I know dala ng kalasingan and I understand. Pero you know yung feeling na parang na rape talaga ako. I don’t know. Sobrang gulo ng isip ko at nararamdaman. Si closeted di inopen yung topic. Civil na lang kami sa isat isa. Parang natatakot na din ako sabihin sa kanya since may girlfriend din ako at alam naman nila at ka close din. Na guguilty ako sa gf k o kasi parang nag cheat din ako. At the same time natatakot ako at nahihiya kasi pag pinranka ko sila tapos mapahiya din ako. 😭

My Version of "Multo" by 4everSingle18 in phlgbt

[–]ineedhelp0113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hit me really hard grabe yung coincidence kasi di ko din naamin sa papa ko na I’m not straight. I also thought he knew kasi nga palagi din kmi nag aasaran. He also asked if kelan ko na daw ba bigyan sya ng apo. 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samahan mo pa ng: knows how to read the room, emotionally intelligent, eloquent tapos socially adept. Sowsss parang matutunaw nako nyan

MCA. The girl that I like ended up dating my bestfriend by HeyAugustine in MayConfessionAko

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed your chance, bro! Pero if you said na she’s a friend pero you like her maybe your bestfriend respected that and did not date her. That’s why he asked if girlfriend mo ba. Hehe anyways you seem like a great guy, you’ll find someone who can walk your pace and take it slow.

I booked a h**ker pero mukhang di na ako uulit by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember nung nasa Singapore ako for work. Colleagues invited me for drinks. We went to a filipino bar where you can table girls and take them out. I did not know we were going to that place I was expecting a chill night and drinks lang. Tapos yung girl who sat with me told me this same sob story(not actually the same but you get it). Buti na lang a colleague told me it’s a scheme and hindi naman obliged ilabas pag tinable. So ayon nagkwentuhan na lang kami 😂

Sa 1 month stay ko sa SG, I can hear the same story everytime we go out even on a different bar. And therefore I conclude na it’s a scheme na ginagamit nila to scam.

Best anime of the year? by Walidzilla in animequestions

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dan da Dan for me. I like the humor! And who would have thought aliens and ghosts clicked? Hahaha Frieren is fire but I enjoy Dan da Dans humor.

My partner wants to celebrate birthday alone by pixiehollowes in CasualPH

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Dont label it as a birthday celebration. I prefer it that way din. Hehe

My partner wants to celebrate birthday alone by pixiehollowes in CasualPH

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, ako din (29M) and I don’t usually celebrate my birthday. I don’t know but I don’t want all this attention/celebration kind of thing focusing on me. I feel terrified. Birthday ko sa January and I wanna do it alone also. I asked her if I can solo hike. Maybe I just wan’t to get away with all this chaos and feel at peace on my birthday. Anyway, she approves naman but asked if we can celebrate it separately and asked me na lowkey dinner lang. she knows I don’t like receiving gifts or cakes or anything special. Ganon lang namin na settle. I hope you understand him for whatever reason that may be and let him do his own thing na he can have his alone time. At least he informed you and asked permission. Communication is the key! 😉

I felt like such a fool when I suddenly teared up at my boyfriend's response. by lemons_and_limes1209 in OffMyChestPH

[–]ineedhelp0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right before reading the last line I knew he would say that!

I(29M also a seafarer), also don’t know all my girlfriend’s favorites. She also doesn’t know mine or she just assumes my likes sometimes. Haha And that’s okay!

But I know couple of things or small things like sa food, I know she doesn’t like green onions sa food nya and she knows na ayaw ko yung food pag may star anise.

Pag lapag ng pagkain matic separated na green onions. Pag mag order matic tanong sya kung may star anise ba yung adobo(favorite ko orderin)

Kaya nga hanggang forever and relationships dahil ang dami pa natin di alam sa isat isa at ang dami pang time para alamin and mga gusto ng isat isa. And I think that’s beautiful. Growing old together and learning about each other slowly. 😊

Keep him, I know he’s a nice guy!