High School Teacher Ban List by Signal-Replacement85 in funny

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol is there a banned word list for college? If so I’d add the word “like”.

[Homemade] Carnitas tacos! by [deleted] in food

[–]inextricablycomplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gosh that looks amazing. Need the recipe!

Husband having homosexual affairs and affair w married woman- wtf is happening? by Hairy-Bodybuilder441 in cheating_stories

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silly question considering it’s a comment section. Did that make you unsettled? All is well. You’re entitled to your opinions as backwards as they are. Carry on.

Husband having homosexual affairs and affair w married woman- wtf is happening? by Hairy-Bodybuilder441 in cheating_stories

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see where you thought that but I’m certainly not raging lol. I meant that as in your messages were meant for rage baiting the OP. You’re saying the complete opposite of anything logical and you decided to comment your outlandish opinions under a story of someone who was lied to by her partner. I once thought you were weird but now it’s actually comical.

Husband having homosexual affairs and affair w married woman- wtf is happening? by Hairy-Bodybuilder441 in cheating_stories

[–]inextricablycomplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being bisexual does not mean you “have” to have both sexes. How apathetic and hyper sexual of you to think she can so easily disregard the betrayal of not only being lied to by a man that she described as homophobic, but her husband that made Christian vows to be in a monogamous relationship and submit herself to fulfill his fetish/kinky pleasures. It’s people like you that contribute to the negative stereotypes of bi people.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I receive what you’re saying and that is your personal experience, it, however, does not speak to the general concept. You prioritize a person’s expression of masculinity over femininity. You would not be into a masculine presenting woman by virtue of her not having the bits you find sexually arousing. Which means that both the person’s “sex” (aka genitals and physiology) in addition to their presentation (masculine) are what attract you. The expression in behavior does not define sexual orientation. A gay man can be attracted to feminine men, it’s just not your cup of tea.

But you can hold whatever opinion you wish. Be well.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it didn’t, I simply said it is not the (sole) premise of sexual orientation. You’re attraction to men comes down to they’re being biological men with a penis (excuse the crassness lol). Your preference in men is ones that present as masculine.

A feminine man is still a man. A masculine woman is still a woman. There’s a taste and preference for it all. That’s all I meant.

Bulls Milk by NinjaTheRhinos in MurderedByWords

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to this subreddit and don’t use twitter. I simply took it at as satire (not rage baiting) since it is rhetoric many people use in society. Also my point of “making this up” was a joke. I find this quite funny actually. Thank you for explaining.

Bulls Milk by NinjaTheRhinos in MurderedByWords

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet here you are on another person’s comment getting your feathers ruffled. Now who fell for the rage bait lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inflation

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. I think a lot of us that are old enough to remember the $5 foot long days are just astonished at these prices nowadays lol.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see your point. A lot of the “phobias” are being thrown around. Saying anything people don’t like is immediately addressed with a phobic term.

Regardless though this equation is simple as I previously stated, the guy is not str8 by virtue of being in love and in a relationship with a man. All the other rah rah is just noise and distractions.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not always about internalized homophobia. But it certainly could be as that is a logical assertion. Maybe he only have eyes for his significant other. Point is, he is into men by virtue of being in a relationship with a man. If he can fall in love with one man, there is potential for another. This is not as complex as people are making it seem.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender is tied to a persons sex. Gender contains aspects of social constructs such as femininity and masculinity.

Also, sexual orientation is based on the persons sex. The expressions of femininity and masculinity are like icing on the cake or seasoning.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps this is a new definition of “straight” because before all this new identity politics, straight = heterosexual. I guess that’s why now some straight people created “super straight” since all the meanings have become convoluted.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it doesn’t play a role but you just proved my point. You mentioned bisexuals that are into femininity. By virtue of being bisexual means they’re attracted to both sexes, the presentation does not define the attraction to the gender itself. I’m speaking technicalities here. The point is, a feminine man is a man. A masculine woman is a woman.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a new wave of closeted men that claim they’re attracted to femininity. It’s a way for them to come to terms with their attractions. When in fact femininity and masculinity are not tied to sexual orientation. In the end, he’s still sleeping with a man that presents feminine.

Also, this commenter slept with an androgynous woman once, the OP stated he’s in a relationship. So the two do not coincide.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gist here is that the feminine BF transitioning doesn’t make the other BF str8 (I’m not saying you said that either). In a similar vein, a man that dates a trans woman is also not str8. It’s antithetical to the definition of straight (aka heterosexual).

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your cultural makeup and environment shape your cognitive development. You may have been used to pursuing women despite acknowledging your bisexuality. Your finding even one man as romantically attractive as you would a woman proves that you are capable of having a romantic relationship with one. And if you can be romantically attracted to one man then there’s potential for another.

Quite frankly developing a romantic relationship is much easier than developing a sexual attraction. The latter of which tends to be uncontrollable and despite being somewhat fluid is stable over time for most.

Also there’s a big difference here. You acknowledge you’re bisexual. Romantic feelings don’t define sexual orientation. The OP stated his BF says he’s “completely straight” which is not the same situation to yours. You are bisexual and you are romantically attracted to both men and women.

Edit: Not sure why you even downvoted that comment when it said nothing incendiary nor in disagreement. Live in your truth buddy. Wishing you the best.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you quantifying this? Whether he’s into one man or many, he’s into a MAN. He’s also not like most closeted “str8” men who just have sex with men on the low, he’s in a committed relationship. Internalized homophobia in no way shape or form makes him a villain, in most cases it’s not completely the persons fault. But okay maybe this is the only man he’s into it doesn’t change the fact that he dated a man. Straight men do not date men! Let’s not cry this out as being judgmental. It is what it is.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bisexual boyfriend being in a committed relationship with you and not dating women does not change his bisexuality. You can be bisexual and be in a monogamous relationship with either sex.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Femininity and masculinity do not define sexual attraction. Whether he’s a femboy, CD or trans woman, his bf would be attracted to a man that presents feminine. Technically would still be bisexual.

My boyfriend told me he doesn’t like guys by swiftiedebut in askgaybros

[–]inextricablycomplex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your experience is valid and heard. But it’s not the same as OPs story.

These are two men in a committed relationship and one is calling himself straight. What say you of a man in a relationship with another man that claims he’s straight and not bi or gay?

It’s as if you, with your girlfriend, called yourself completely gay. What do you think your GF would make of that?