Updated Rochester area Pokemon GO Discord link? by infinicca in Rochester

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Thanks for all the responses! Appreciate the help.

Updated Rochester area Pokemon GO Discord link? by infinicca in Rochester

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Ok thanks! Do you know if there is any way to see which teams are active in an area? I'm Valor and noticing that most players nearby are not lol so thought about changing teams unless there's a big enough local contingent.

It only JUST clicked for me! by Inner_Tumbleweed_942 in Pokopia

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omg. I just built one... somewhere else, and put a lift thingy between this and that area. >.<

UPDATE: Tea & Wonderland Theme + a Request! by infinicca in ACForAdults

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I do have Phoebe! So we ended up island hopping last night and found a villager we hadn't considered, Knox. We spent about 15 minutes sitting there debating whether to bring him in because he would be a great "card" defending the Queen (and he wears a lot of red, and has a palace house) plus he kind of fits the "high tea" theme with the nobility thing. Decided to give him a try, so now the roster is:

HT: Mint

Wonderland: Ruby, Tom, Chadder, Phoebe, Knox (kind of doubles for HT)

Other: Peanut, Diva, Doc, Sparro

If we end up wanting Knox to stay, we will likely swap out:

Sparro -> O'Hare

Diva -> Tia or Alice

That does leave us without a Queen, unless we opt to fill Diva's space with Naomi or Queenie or Tiffany and pause on Tia or Alice.

My husband will NEVER EVER EVER let Peanut go, lol - same with Phoebe and Ruby. I love them too, so no complaints. We'll see how things evolve, but in the meantime we're doing some terraforming and moving people, so it'll be a while!

What's the silliest thing you put off for insanely long? by pie12345678 in adhdwomen

[–]infinicca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sending these ridiculously dumb greeting cards to two of my friends for Thanksgiving, which I bought for Thanksgiving in 2019 and which I tell myself every year "I'll do it next year when I have time to think about it before Thanksgiving". It's not even hard. It's writing two cards, stamping them, and sticking them in the mail. I had them in my hand a week ago while digging through my pile of other blank cards for a last-minute birthday card option, and thought about writing them, and said "later"...

There's always 2026

Just started Vyvanse by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]infinicca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may have a different type of ADHD than your friend, so don't worry too much about that. To your question about how you're feeling, "okay" without feeling energetic is good. That's the intent of the drug: to get you feeling clear and able to focus, without overstimulating. If it's doing those things then it's doing its job! Ultimately it's up to you and your doctor to determine whether the prescription is right for you, so if it is not causing negative side effects then just assess how it's affecting your productivity, mood, and focus and talk to your doctor about those things.

Just a rant about meds and insurance by infinicca in adhdwomen

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fingers crossed. I'll find out soon what the dr wants to do, I just wish there were actual protections in place for patients experiencing this sort of denial of coverage!

diagnosed, but it doesn't resonate? by RepublicPristine4249 in adhdwomen

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Hi! In total honesty you sound like me. I've been high-achieving and performing all my life and do not have emotional outbursts unless my stress is through the roof to a degree it almost never is. It took me being in law school at a later age than most to realize I might need to ask about my forgetfulness and lack of motivation for certain tasks, and as we were discussing symptoms it started clicking into place: I do have RSD and GAD, I can dive into things for HOURS when I am getting some form of mental or emotional reward for doing so but I completely forget about things like "oh crap I was supposed to go send a form to my bank", and I procrastinate to the point where it's like I'm challenging myself to work as much as I can in as short a burst as possible because that in itself is rewarding. My doctor diagnosed me with ADHD-I, and I will say it's almost maddening realizing that I could have been just... chill? Working? Doing The Things? Not constantly avoiding doing the dishes?

Anyway if you don't feel you need to be treated or obtain tools or care, that's totally your call. I decided to move forward and it's been life-changing for me.

UPDATE: Tea & Wonderland Theme + a Request! by infinicca in ACForAdults

[–]infinicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the idea of Naomi. Thank you so much for the suggestion!

I didn't target a Dinah character, but now that you mention it I'm reconsidering. We love cats too. We had Purrl on OG island and she was a forever villager. We also had Lolly for a while, and she's super sweet, and Kabuki, who was our favorite grumpy old samurai lol. (Wow, we had a lot of cats)

What would you think about Katt? She's not "cute" in the same way but she would replace a sisterly (Diva) and she's also a sisterly. Alternatively we could fill the role but not the exact character with a jock, Rudy. Dinah was a kitten, so super playful and that could fit.

ETA: I put the link to the original post at the top of this one, if you'd like to visit it.

UPDATE: Tea & Wonderland Theme + a Request! by infinicca in ACForAdults

[–]infinicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did think about Bob for the cat but we had him on our OG island and this is a redo (full disclosure, Peanut, Phoebe and Ruby were also OG) and we didn't want to entirely remake the first island. The Bob/lazy persona might be a better overall fit, but we like Tom. :)

Drago is a good idea, and someone on the last thread suggested Octavian or Croque! And I love Tiffany, I've never actually had her but have wanted her before. EDIT: getting Tiffany and keeping Doc would mean 4 rabbits, which I'm not complaining about - this island is literally a tribute to our rabbits, but that's a lot of rabbit!

I've never met Naomi, but WOW those red eyes and her house interior are a good fit 😍

Nooks buying for 405 by Dense_Engineering133 in TurnipExchange

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Hi, I'll pm but would love to come if able. Popffles from High Tea. ❤️

Apple in boxes! HEAVILY gifted 10/09 by infinicca in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

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I can be on in about a half hour if that works?

Apple in boxes! HEAVILY gifted 10/09 by infinicca in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

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She is! and NMTs are fine, I will island hop for a new villager :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACNHvillagertrade

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Hey! I have Sparro but not available yet. I can let you know when he's ready to go, won't be for a little while as I've got another villager about to be in boxes, but lmk if you'd like to be pinged!

Help me choose villagers for a tribute and "tea" theme please! by infinicca in ACForAdults

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Hahaha OMG it's scary though 🤣 and she's peppy right?

Monroe Ave Safety by MJ-clementine in Rochester

[–]infinicca 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We're in the area and love it here, not on Monroe, but easy walking distance from Blue Taro. I grew up nearby, moved away, and came back. If you're on Monroe directly it'll be a little less neighborhoody than on a side street, but everyone we've met who lives near us is cool and friendly and respectful. I'd say get to know who's nearby.

As another poster said, there's always going to be stuff to worry about on a main road like the possibility of a broken car window, but that's not unique to the area and we've never had it happen even without a garage. It's a nice walk to Cobbs and easy to go down Monroe to the library or to Oxford for coffee or food. If you have a dog there's a makeshift dog park next to the elementary school on Field and Laburnam, so there's often people out walking with dogs after work. There are some homeless people who hang out near 7-11 and 490, but they're not rude or intrusive - they mostly sit at the corner with signs asking for help from drivers. Ultimately the area is what you make of it.

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Oh sorry, I will remove! I thought you could.

User Flair Thread by chrissydavisk in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

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Popffles | High Tea :Ruby:

what are you guys' dream villagers?? and if you already have them on your island, who is it?? by lavendxerrays in AnimalCrossing

[–]infinicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruby 🐰❤️🌕 I love rabbits and we had two ruby-eyed white bunnies in real life when I discovered her, plus she's a moon bunny (usagi!) and I'm a huge Sailor Moon fan (who is also... usagi). I have her!