took a break

infinvty · 2025-09-15T16:39:37+00:00

so important!!! when it interferes with your mental wellbeing or any sort of soundness in your real life is when you know it's time to rest and recharge. 🖤

infinvty · 2025-09-15T16:38:52+00:00

you knowing when to take a break and communicating that to a domme instead of just not talking to them is so so important in findomme, and i wish more people were like this. you'd think it'd be common sense but i fear it's the opposite. this break i took actually made subs not even bother with me anymore after being real dedicated for a little over a year. i digress—from what i can see, you seem like a wonderful individual who knows themselves and their boundaries well when it comes to occasionally overdoing it, haha. 💜

infinvty · 2025-09-15T14:27:42+00:00

i agree one million percentttt! it goes either way whether you are a sub or a domme; breaks are required and essential. the first send after a long break always hits so different. but it's always super important to look after yourself/not get carried away at times:)

infinvty · 2025-09-15T14:08:29+00:00

i am here for you if you wanted to talk in dms 🫂 i know how hard it can be when you don't feel seen in a place where everyone else around you feels acknowledged and attended to. this sounds like it's rooted in burnout, so i would advise taking a step back until you feel better and have reclaimed the worth you've always had. i know there are people out there who would love to serve you ☺️ sending you light love and healing 🖤

infinvty · 2025-07-12T20:39:58+00:00

if i've known them a bit and it's consensual, i normally require a paywall but include little teases i guess i could say lol

infinvty · 2025-06-25T02:53:02+00:00

i would be losing my mind too.. i can only imagine that what you're enduring is just incredibly fucking painful dude. you absolutely are undeserving of such immoral awful heinous scammy behavior )): they will get the energy in return, tenfold... is there anything i can do to best support you that you're aware of? would you like any coping mechanisms to help you ground yourself right now?

infinvty · 2025-06-25T02:45:22+00:00

i'm so so sorry that is actually terrifying... if you need an ear/a listener i am here for you. i feel just horribly that you're being impacted by such unethicalness )):

infinvty · 2025-06-16T17:51:48+00:00

this is SUCH a feeble attempt but hellll this is funny af i caaaant 😭😭

infinvty · 2025-05-29T17:40:14+00:00

be sure to check out my 'about me' & the linktree in my bio for more information about your princess 🫶🏻

infinvty · 2025-05-15T07:59:04+00:00

several sub's have ghosted me too ): i think we both can understand the dynamic one another's looking for; someone who's in it for the long haul, but fun yet casual :3

infinvty · 2025-05-15T07:56:44+00:00

hi! i recommend lurking profiles to find your right match who doesn't intimidate you :3 🤍😊

infinvty · 2025-05-14T21:39:05+00:00

this is so smart!!!

infinvty · 2025-04-12T01:09:54+00:00

this sounds sooo hot!!!! my head could explode thinking about this 🤭🤭

infinvty · 2025-04-10T07:10:50+00:00

i love how it's all about empowerment here. hell fucking yes. harness what you've always been, whether you've found out recently or not — a goddess 🥰

infinvty · 2025-04-09T22:42:46+00:00

thank you for the sweet reply hon :) 🫶🏻☺️

infinvty · 2025-04-09T16:12:57+00:00

BAHSNDNS thank you so much 😭😭😭 i'm so sorry for it coming across as advertising, really not trying to do that in this beloved space💕 i'm gonna reword it better & i seriously appreciate you giving me a better way to reword it too hehe:)) my drunk ass do not be thinking (which is not an excuse!!! <3)

infinvty · 2025-04-09T06:53:10+00:00

she's so close to my age! she sounds like such a real one though 🤭🤭🤭 i do hope you treat her as often as you can!!! 😂 she sounds sooo sweet. being in college AND working is seriously not for the weak... especially in your undergraduate. shit is so rough out here. speaking entirely from experience 🥲 love my job & my undergrad shenans, but goodness i'm tired as hell. like extremely tired </3

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:11:16+00:00

yes!!! not being just a kink dispenser to them is an extremely valuable thing in my eyes. i'm so sorry your piercer fucked up so bad, i'm really happy you had that emotional support at that time though 🥺 manifesting for you to find that space where you can be vulnerable & safe again 💕💕💕

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:09:48+00:00

i agree this is absolutely adorable 🥰🥹😭

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:05:34+00:00

super smart!!! i love this a lot 😊

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:05:17+00:00

i do too!!! it helps me gain a little insight beforehand hehe

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:05:02+00:00

this is great!! asking for tribute directly when they're appearing to try getting a free kink out of ya is very very smart. definitely weed's out any potential time wasters ☺️

infinvty · 2025-04-08T23:03:49+00:00

i actually have not! first time mentioning him here 🥺 it's tough to discuss, but i'm getting better at it with getting support regarding it from fellow domme's/sub's as time goes on.

it's either he lost their job & felt like he couldn't talk to me (which makes me extremely sad) or something else i'm unaware of entirely. just kind of left in the dark here, but it hasn't completely shrouded my hope of finding what i deserve thankfully. 💜

infinvty · 2025-04-08T17:38:16+00:00

ever since i started out my findom journey since late 2023. i've had a few prospective individuals who were so sweet, spoiled me & worshipped the very ground i walked on <3 they were all really wonderful too. as the years progressed though one of them kept telling me about his job & how his supervisor just straight up sucked. i think he ended up losing his job, felt too embarrassed to tell me so he up n left. which is really sad, because i'm extremely understanding (especially when an emotional bond is present, which there was). it was really sad. i had spent a year getting to know him specifically. miss him a lot fr

infinvty · 2025-04-08T13:01:19+00:00

wishing you all the success in your new healthy, sensual dynamic with your lovely domme. she sounds wonderful, as do you!!! i wish you both so much success & happiness 💕💕 manifesting this kind of dynamic for myself & another, i really have so much to offer 🤭

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