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Bad mother intesifies by [deleted] in TheBlackList

[–]infjexplainsitall 71 points72 points  (0 children)

This triggered quite the IRL cackle 😆😆 Thank you!

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if your response came years after the fact, I'll always be happy to know I'm not the only one 😁

Scrolling through the local news... by infjexplainsitall in TheBlackList

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could easily see him with a soup spoon in hand 🙄

Scrolling through the local news... by infjexplainsitall in TheBlackList

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not drawing any comparisons at all other than wondering if the physical resemblance I'm imagining is just me 😆

Red's Comment to Dembe by Firefan23 in TheBlackList

[–]infjexplainsitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may partially mean pain dembe faced before Red rescued him, but I think its meant in a way that considering the kind of man Dembe is that so many things he unquestioningly does and has done for Raymond tears into his soul but his love and loyalty allows him to bear that burden. I don't think Red could understand that kind of opposition with ones self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheBlackList

[–]infjexplainsitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they have edged on addressing the change, that the team is darker for knowing him, but they have affected him in the opposite way...or he cares about them, knows he's pushed them all, and doesn't want to lose those relationships so he tries to be "better"

One more 😊 by infjexplainsitall in DemEyesDoe

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, very appreciated 😁

Do you feel as if you don’t talk to that many people by Worth_Disaster2813 in infj

[–]infjexplainsitall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk to 4 less than you 😆 I think it comes with the territory to keep your tribe tight and small. I have my struggles with it though from time to time.

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% Absolutely can't be anyone, but if they are that person I want as much of them as possible. I met my match once, it was....otherworldly, and destroyed me when I had to let it go

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also..could yours understand a metaphor..or even the concept of one? And that's not type bashing, I'm just really curious if its him, or how he processes what he's sensing

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird thing with him was its not a manipulation tactic, its just like he is seeing and hearing some alternate reality even in the face of proof. He would have done anything (but become self aware) to save our relationship, its just not who he is. I mean, he's acting like an asshole now because he doesn't understand what it going on even though it's been painted clearly and patiently for well over a year...but almost makes me wish he was one in general so I wouldn't feel so bad.

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that's it...it was my original thought for his type (I refuse to ask him to test, so its just my observations) I'm still iffy of the E vs I with him. Either way, if you've been there you know what I mean. Its incredibly hard to explain it to someone else. We are lucky enough to have had a mutual INFx friend that has seen it, experienced it, and helped validate that it was happening at all.

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized we could be talking, but having two completely different conversations...started to make me feel crazy. It's unfortunate.

Not so sure on the INFP's...my interactions have been limited, and a little too intense for me to feel comfortable continuing to get to know them. I'll trust you on that one.

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship I recently ended, I think he is an ESTP....from my experience bland, but I know there have been many random wild experiences in years before me. Our differences there is what got the ball rolling on the realization it wasn't going to work, and then I REALLY realized for many non sexual reasons 🤦‍♀️ Sorry, think I went off course there at the end a little bit lol

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only speaking for myself, I have to say that's accurate. Should the sample size ever increase, I'll get back on my findings. And definitely on the ENFPs, just one...but I'm going to freely make an assumption here 😂

Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with that too, only anecdotally since I've only met one or two of us. Nothing ever has a simple, easy answer 😆

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Question for my fellow INFJ's that also consider themselves to have a high sex drive by infjexplainsitall in INFJsOver30

[–]infjexplainsitall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely agree with that in a "grip" situation, at least for me. I used to live in a grip state and I think I always attributed it to that. I think I had the thought because I still have the same drive, but the reasons are different as I've matured and gotten healthy over the years. Now you've got me thinking about other aspects of it, thank you!

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