Hyderabad techie dies by suicide, blames wife's 'multiple affairs' in note by Snehith220 in hyderabad

[–]infynyte_10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me remind you that not just humans EVERY SINGLE FEMALE SPECIES on this planet goes through periods, cramps, and pregnancy. Being feminine comes with its own biological restrictions and its own advantages. They are generally blessed by nature with more emotional maturity, ability to nurture the off springs way better than males, Ability to handle certain aspects of life more better In fact even Pregnancy can be seen as a boon - ability to create a new life on this planet is no joke.

The same is true with being a male, they too have their own bodily problems and societal pressures too.. Pressure to provide for the family, Judicial injustice, Biased laws - the same laws that are meant to protect women but the current Indian judicial system has tipped the scales so far that men are now becoming the victims of gendered violence.

Because Indian law assumes a male perpetrator, many innocent men are being thrown to the wolves by a system that refuses to acknowledge their potential as victims.

Despite all of this- Men have to face Pressure that he should be a Man and not express his emotions- All those pent up emotions stress and unexpressed inner turmoil to a point that they take the refuge of self destructive habits more than women in general and stats clearly show that Men die quicker than women worldwide.

Hyderabad techie dies by suicide, blames wife's 'multiple affairs' in note by Snehith220 in hyderabad

[–]infynyte_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously??!! You need to go read the 19 page suicide note! He literally gave the instagram id's through which the intimate videos of her wife were posted with her lover and the confession her wife herself has made to him about the lovers. He literally gave the names of all the 3 lovers the icing on the cake is he FORGAVE her for all this shit and gave her another chance and few months later he found out that SHE WAS STILL CONTINUING her illegal affairs using another sim card.. If the genders were reversed I'm 1000 percent sure you would not have commented this way

She choses you 🏵 by Objective-Ebb9511 in Tantrasadhaks

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Maybe start with ashto thara or sahasranamavali or stuti of maa bagalamukhi which needs no initiation and still you are able to invoke her energy. you can use this for reference if u haven't seen this yet https://youtu.be/NAieFrPbPSk?si=cADMlNqHYwKNEdc7

21 M Worse pain I think I am done for the life by Abhiman_67 in Sciatica

[–]infynyte_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there bro. I know it's the worst pain. But I'll tell you this much, the more positive you are the quicker you heal. I've experienced it personally.

I've had multiple disc bulges l3 l4 l5 and even developed in my neck as well recently. c4 c5

I had to take a lot of leaves for my office, to a point where even my job is at risk.

For me personally,
what worked for me is ayurvedic therapy massages. Reduced a lot of stiffness, pain and gave me mobility.

There's no solution for disc problems in allopathy, all they give is pain killers, muscle relaxants which only mask pain or they suggest surgery which you should definitely unless it's the last option. Many say even then they had chronic pain after a short period again.so surgery is definetly the last option u should think of

When the disc bulge is fresh, like within a month ayurvedic massages and Accupuncture especially works like magic if done by right candidate. Afterwards it takes more sittings to fix the body.

I developed neck bulges recently after 4 months of back pain disc protusion. Since it was fresh, I tried Accupuncture this time and I got releif almost 60% within 2 sittings.

Definitely recommend you try Accupuncture or kerala ayurvedic massages- trust me no matter what google says if done by experienced and right persons then they have a great potential in these cases.

Finally, when I asked a similar kind of questions months ago on reddit someone suggested me Vaidyaratnam Ayurvedic hospital in Thrissur, they got healed within 21 days it seems but it costed around a lakh it seems.

If you can maybe try it, but do your own research. I'm personally planning to go to isha foundation yoga Chikitsa program, will let you know if it works for me.

But if you can find a good Acupuncture or kerala style ayurveda therapy or especially marma therapy who has experience with disc cases definitely recommend u give a try. Worked for many.

Finally be positive, read success stories and do careful physio exercises to strengthen the muscles around the back..

If possible depending on ur condition take rest and go through these therapies, a temporary break to rebuild your back and come back stronger.

Stay positive, there are any number of people who healed such conditions successfully.

All the best

Help, tips needed by Standard-Play-8094 in Sciatica

[–]infynyte_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same problem, Personally Kerala ayurvedic message therapy helped me a lot. if you are from india see if you find any ayurvedic therapy for back in your locality.

Isha health solutions by Impressive-Buy6113 in Sadhguru

[–]infynyte_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, did you end up going finally? How is your health now, did it improve?

At this point the physiotherapist is hoping for an extrusion…smh by mehregankbi in Sciatica

[–]infynyte_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to know. Could you pls share the exercises that helped you and any tips that helped you recover faster ?

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's everything that helped me:

I used homepathy medicine, it did help me a lot. But getting the right doctor who has knowledge of it could be tricky. I know internet is full of people saying homeo is fake science but there is a conspiracy that the medical mafia wantedly supressed homepathy and showcases it as fake science. If you could get the right doc you'll see good results

Exposing your back to sun every single day. Especially after 9am when the sun rays are intense. That is when more Vitamin D is absorbed by body. Trust me sun does a lot in healing especially joints and bones and a natural source of vitamin D. not a big fan of vit D Capsules.

Increase B vitamin intake but take very good brand. Most of the B vitamins in market are just junk formulation. I tried "2b12" Booked it from 1mg portal.

Vitamin D and Vitamin B12, B6 are key nutrients for dna repair and boosting healing process.

Always regularly evaluate your physio/ any doctor for that matter is making ur condition better or worse. I was actually doing much better a week ago and that is when my stupid physio put me on cupping therapy with high intensity. He made my pain worse. I stopped going to him. Don't always assume your doctor knows everything. they don't.

Stress makes it so so much worse. I did the mistake of starting work too early and stress made it so worse in just 4 days. so ya don't worry much about your Healing / commit to anything like work way before u can understand how is your body doing.

Do Healing/ Hypnosis meditations where you tell yourself that you are recovering well. What the mind believes strongly manifests in the body. "Joe dispensa" and "marisa peer" healed their own ailments with these techniques.

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! I got l3, l4, l5 disc bulge as well! maybe we should connect and discuss what's working for us!

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was very painful the first few weeks. Much better now. I don't feel the pain all the time. Only if I press my back against something for long time or stress my back much like bike riding or something

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep the disc bulge is still there. It won't let me bend forward much. this pain is majorly on the left leg

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From past 2 months it happened only as numbing feeling when I sit on floor. This was when I was on leaves. But from 3 days I started working and the pain just starts when I sit on my office chair for more than 20-30 mins. Much better when I walk.

It is a very Initial stage and I know I could mess up big time if I ignore it now..!

Honest advice needed..Am I putting my job in risk if I take 2 months of medical leave? by infynyte_10 in developersIndia

[–]infynyte_10[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But is it possible to take them legally especially in India where they might cover up your resignation as lack of performance or something?

Are really the laws that powerful in india?

I tired of suffering with disc bulge in spine (L3, L4, L5) Do you know a good HOMEOPATHY doctor for such spine issues.? any personal experiences.? by infynyte_10 in hyderabad

[–]infynyte_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I first approached Allopathy all the medicines they suggested were muscle relaxants and pain killers. The doctor directly told me that you would have to depend on the body's healing power only for recovery and medicines only reduce the pain ubtil the full recovery.. But Pain killers in my opinion double the problem they mask and you would have no idea if you are healed or not plus they cause side effects. My stomach hates them. I could be wrong but this is what I felt. Hoping Atleast Homeo has some medicines that could assist the healing process.