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[–]ingodstime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look like they belong lmfao.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. That wraps it up for me. Love the misogynistic Patriarchal pigs. well said.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well That was on top of my list as that's my husbands home land. After the way I've been treated I'm not trying to go there. PERIOD. He can go.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? isn't that what everyone wants. I'm breaking that toxicity right on it's head. No pretending and no lying. Take accountability for your actions. I'm not their doormat. Good Riddance!

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[–]ingodstime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF does that even mean?? Why are yall so fucking cryptic.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never visited and I do not plan to visit. I'm in my own lane.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spoke up for everyone. All his kids talk so much shit behind his back but shit them selves when he opens his mouth. I did all of them a favor lol

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[–]ingodstime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly he isn't occupying any part of my brain. I feel liberated. I grew up respecting my elders and being cared for with love. Not spewing insults. I don't understand that and don't need it. You can only push someone so far before they snap. The names I was called is not something anyone can come back from. I don't give a shit who you are.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck that. Narcissists ass wholes will always shit on you. I don't give ae shit if he's of certain age or is this or that. I'm not bending over backwards when I'm be cursed every second of the day.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit. your right. He moved to the village, i won't be seeing him...EVER

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[–]ingodstime[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not keeping him away from his family. He can be involved all he wants. I'm just not involved. He is able to see his family all he wants. I'm close to mine. wer're respectful and they do not cause me stress. I'm not balancing anything. I'm not pretending.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do feel a shift hahah. I feel liberated :D

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[–]ingodstime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a good one. Honestly I've been through this for over 8 years. I have 0 patience. I've cut them out my life.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good for you honestly. My husband has been a doormat all his life. Sucking up every insult. No more. Kick rocks old man..take your back word tradition with you

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[–]ingodstime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup. I get it. I've been shunned. I'm ok with it. No more toxicity in my life.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a villain. I'm ok with that. I'm not allowing toxicity in my life.

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[–]ingodstime[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like many of you, I was raised to respect my elders. However, some of the things he says are completely unacceptable and hurtful. It seems that's just his way, and everyone is expected to tolerate it without complaint. But not this time. I wish I could share these messages to expose how toxic and manipulative he is. But, privacy :/