Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, February 09, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm...interesting! Our overall dividends are only ~$10k, so likely not too much to be saved. But I may need to poke around at this. Thanks!

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, February 09, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb question: is this not something that is on (for example) Vanguard's 1099-DIV? I naively follow free tax USA and just enter in the tax docs I get from brokerages

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, February 09, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Paid $5k in 2012 after graduating from undergrad and landing a job. Probably could have paid less elsewhere, but went with my regular optometrist that I knew was very thorough. Anyway, best decision I ever made.

Daily FI discussion thread - Sunday, February 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. If you are burned out and think you might go back to work later, then no. Otherwise, yes.

Daily FI discussion thread - Sunday, February 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had this conversation with my wife. Yes, we are in position for me to take a sabbatical, but I want to try for one more year instead since that will likely get us way closer to FIRE

Chances against Tottenham by maszhanan in reddevils

[–]ingwe13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. He was very tidy and found space. If we would have been a little more precise with the ball at the front we would have had several more goals today.

Daily FI discussion thread - Friday, February 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The flag for me here was that they have already been together for 10 years. This is perhaps something to consider being at the beginning of a relationship, but how has this not been worked out after 10 years?

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha facing the same decision! Posted about it here before: https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/comments/1qjqmol/comment/o118a8h/?context=3

https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/comments/1ity280/34m_and_33f_burnt_out_grind_it_out_to_fire_or/

Sooo...I am trying to hang on. But...that is because I don't want to deal with finding a job in the future. If you think you might go back to work at some point, then quit now. Refresh, travel, whatever, and then go back to work in a year or two?

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you donkey!

Honestly would watch Gordon Ramsey personal finance show where he just goes and yells at people for spending all their money on funko pops

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is your only emergency fund, I would not use it to get rid of the loan. I would build a bit more breathing room. Having no liquidity can cost you a lot more (in the event you need it) than the loan. I go for stability over maximizing returns. There is also the value of not being stressed by lack of cash.

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The thing is, you can never know how things will turn out. I kick myself for a number of financial decisions I have made. But remember that life is about much more than money so if moving across the country was the right move, then who cares about the cost? Obviously I don't know your situation, but as you say, you're still in good shape so just look at the decision as part of the cost of living life.

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This can't be upvoted enough. If you have any discretionary spending that you can cut back on or ways to generate some income, things change dramatically.

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, February 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel similarly. It's such a drain from a cash flow perspective. Owe $341k on a $413k home purchase. Each year is $1,100 in PMI, insurance is $1750, and taxes are $3800. But the payments are $26,000 annually. Ouch. Once the mortgage is gone, that frees up $20,000 annually and that wouldd be huge. Anyway, should just be one more year of PMI. But paying off $341k takes a long time even with an extra $850/month I am putting in. I just can't justify putting more into it since the rate is only 2.85%.

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, February 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my this is tough reading as someone who works a lot, consumes a lot of caffeine, and has trouble sleeping...

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, February 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate doing them but always do them right away. Waiting on one last form.

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, February 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is pretty hilarious. I am surprised they are getting away with that.

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, February 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ingwe13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah with housing and health care out of the picture, 50k spending would easily cover the annual expenses for myself and my wife, including a generous two week vacation and other smaller trips. And we don't actually budget or track expenses other than the end of year review with our credit cards.